girls and guy 'friends'
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Topic: girls and guy 'friends'
Posted By: Jkid3
Subject: girls and guy 'friends'
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 3:51am
| yo whas good....how do y'all feel about girls havin guy friends?? a lady friend of mine tried to introduce me to one of her male friends and naturally i wasn't feelin' it so now we ain't talkin' cuz she mad how i came. i dont make it a habit to know competition, was i wrong? 'preciate any opinions or advice. |
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Posted By: 25cent
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 11:09am
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Naw man your did the right thing cause he was probably trying to get on her. ------------- Captain Of Blackspinnas Thats why they call us black spinnas [IMG]http://img47.imageshack.us/img47/1112/5992504781vg1.gif" /> BLACK SPINNAS |
Posted By: Davo
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 12:02pm
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In a situation like that you gotta make sure that your game is strong. I'm not saying you gotta be a playa, but if the girl is your girl another dude coming around shouldn't affect you none. If y'all just friends, you don't have the position to get mad in that situation. ------------- 
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Posted By: Jkid3
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 4:26pm
| hmm, somethin to think about...then i guess i really didn't handle it that well, and since it's to tha point that either of us are Not willin to compromise it's had. but like how could somethin that was goin so well get so bad so quick... |
Posted By: BIG-
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 4:35pm
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I feel you.. cuz well my ex.. now just friends.. i dont like wen she got other dudes around her.. or be talkin to dem..idk jealousy.. but it just dont feel rite.. cuz sometimes u always finna have feelings 4 dat person ------------- [IMG]http://img338.imageshack.us/img338/9080/wezzy4bi4.jpg" /> [IMG]http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p92/kekon14/lil-2.jpg" /> |
Posted By: Jkid3
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 7:29pm
| so how you supposed to deal wit it....suck it up and keep ya mouth shut, or say somethin even tho u kno shorty gon trip? |
Posted By: Davo
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 7:35pm
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I wanna know if this is your girl that you're talking about. Because me personally, if one of my girlfriends has other guy friends. you gotta make sure you put yourself in the position to let those guys know that ain't nothing gone happen with them and her. -------------
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Posted By: 25cent
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 7:51pm
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Never be friends with your ex because you'll fill jealous when they start talking to other men or your new girl might start gettin jealous herself and then you got a problem yo. ------------- Captain Of Blackspinnas Thats why they call us black spinnas [IMG]http://img47.imageshack.us/img47/1112/5992504781vg1.gif" /> BLACK SPINNAS |
Posted By: BIG-
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 7:55pm
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25cent wrote:Posted By: Davo
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 8:20pm
BIG I used to feel the way you feel until I stepped my game up. When I first broke up with my ex, I was like damn now some other dude is hitting' that. But now that I've branched out, it's like whatever. I call her every now and then and joke around with her. She talks about other guys but I be like whatever. The best thing to do is let them know that you're not stuck on them, or else they'll forever have a hold on you. FOREVER!!!  -------------
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Posted By: Jkid3
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 8:38pm
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nah, not my girl man..but i def been mackin hard indirectly tryna get
it poppin', so you could i say i focused most of my time and energy
into dis one chick. i suppose i caught feelins which seems like wat i
may have set myself up for since it realli ain't my thing to work on
more than one. then again, i never necessarily went for tha first thing
i saw. |
Posted By: Davo
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 8:44pm
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When it comes to relationships I try to just keep an open mind about being in a relationship with women. I just go with the flow and let the relationship manifest itself. -------------
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Posted By: Jkid3
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 8:57pm
| ay y'all good lookin' out on all tha feedback...'preciate da insight as well davo. |
Posted By: BIG-
Date Posted: March 18 2007 at 9:06pm
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gud lukin out dayvo.. but ya thats why wen i be around her i be like wuteva.. but sumtimes it be eatin at me...but wen i act like i dont care..she say i treat her bad and wut not... ------------- [IMG]http://img338.imageshack.us/img338/9080/wezzy4bi4.jpg" /> [IMG]http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p92/kekon14/lil-2.jpg" /> |
Posted By: 25cent
Date Posted: March 19 2007 at 5:18pm
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Listen man it helps to another girl it will eat at you when you single and you hear the girl you used to bang talking about other men. If you move on it wouldn't bother you at all. But if you really have feelings for her then get back wit her. ------------- Captain Of Blackspinnas Thats why they call us black spinnas [IMG]http://img47.imageshack.us/img47/1112/5992504781vg1.gif" /> BLACK SPINNAS |