I am an african american male and for the past 5 months i have been growing my hair out. i want my hair to be curly like will smith's in the movie "hitch" or like bobby valentino. do i need to go to a stylist to get it done or what? i know i can buy a kit at walmart or sally's but i want it to look really good and professional so i guess that means a stylist. could anyone give me some advice on this on what to tell the stylist what i want and maybe post some pics of will smith or bobby valentino's hair so i can show the stylist what i want.