Sew In that Stays Put
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Printed Date: January 06 2026 at 6:28am
Topic: Sew In that Stays Put
Posted By: krimsa
Subject: Sew In that Stays Put
Date Posted: September 12 2007 at 6:36pm
Hi all. I have been wearing a sew in now for over 2 months and its still snug with no slipping! I also have fine, caucasian hair. I know some people have tried sew ins and had problems with them not staying in and becoming loose too soon.
I am going in on September 22nd to get a full take down and re-sew. It feels like it could go longer but I think after about 10 weeks I should have the dead hair removed and wash my natural hair and scalp really well.
I have been wearing 3 single wefts of Russian. The hair is still soft and tangle free as when it was first installed back on July 7th.
When Im back, I will post exactly the method she is using on me that is working so well for others that have fine hair. I failed to find out on the initial install. All I know was it involved string and rubber bands.
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 12 2007 at 6:56pm
Krimsa, that is snug! I wonder if it's the same technique as what Mokipono did on her youtube video?
How much do you pay per track?
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Posted By: Candy-O
Date Posted: September 12 2007 at 8:57pm
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Are you sew-in girls able to wear higher ponytails?
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Posted By: mokipono
Date Posted: September 12 2007 at 9:42pm
High ponytails can be worn if the wefts aren't too thick, and enough hair is left out on the hairline in back. That is the most important, enough hair left out to cover the tracks.
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 12 2007 at 11:20pm
malibu wrote:
Krimsa, that is snug! I wonder if it's the same technique as what Mokipono did on her youtube video?
How much do you pay per track?
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Hi Malibu,
Do you have a link to Mokipono's video? I would love to see it. We should have Carrie add it if she didn't already.
Hi Krimsa,
Was your hair braided first or did you have the type that they call Malaysian where the wefts are sewn directly into the hair? I would be curious to know. Also, did you get any type of headaches either during the intial install or afterwards? Finally, how long did the install take?
Thanks in advance.
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Posted By: sherrie215
Date Posted: September 12 2007 at 11:48pm
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I think Mokipono took the video down. I am not sure why, at one point I know she was getting alot of negative comments. Why do people have to be so mean?
It was an excellent demo. And to my knowledge she is revising and reformating her demo into a dvd/kit and will be offering it for sale when she is ready!
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 6:16am
I dont think I ever saw that video. Yeah Malibu, it’s really holding up well. I don’t know though if my natural hair is quite as thin as the ladies that have had complaints about sew ins though. It’s a fine texture but I have a fair amount of hair if that makes sense. It’s just ratty and looks like hell lol.
I did get one tightening (not a complete take down) in early August. I just got that done because I was in an area of town with a lot of salons that worked with weaves. I was in paradise and knew that wasn’t going to happen again soon in New England so I got it tightened lol.
But that’s still dam good to go this long. It feels tight. The initial install was $100 for 3 tracks. I’m going back to her now and she’s only charging $25 for the re-do. She’s fast as lightning, yet makes the sew in feel really secure. I had a little pain but it goes away.
I have been able to wear high ponytails as well as up dos. My only limitation is myself as I can’t style very well lol. But as far as concealment of wefts, no problem. To me, it’s easier than the bonds because those snag in the ponytail. They also will start slipping if you put too much tension on them. At least that’s been my experience with bonds.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 9:08am
Krimsa, I'd be very curious to see picture of what your tracks look like right now.. Can you post pics??
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 11:49am
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I have no way of getting behind myself to try to take one. I can show you a similar photo of how they look now if you want that. The lady in this photo has the exact same type of hair and weft I am wearing now. Basically all it looks/feels like is a grown out ridge.
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 11:50am
Krimsa, That's a good price. I don't understand how they tighten the tracks? I haven't had a braider tell me to come back for them to be tightened. I'm intrigued. 
Karen, here is one of Mokipono's videos. I haven't seen this for a while but that hair looks mmmmmmm yummmm!! I love how much hair is on those wefts! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_sRbj55cwQ - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_sRbj55cwQ
Sherrie, I didn't realize the video was taken off youtube. Apparently in between brainless collage projects, shameless people need to say something to make themselves feel relevant.
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 12:00pm
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I got the tightening done in Florida by a place called "Paradise Braids". She didnt take anything down but seemed just to tighten using new rubber bands and thread again. She did not sew the wefts together but just tightened each one seperately. She said I could go another month but then would need a complete take down.
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 12:18pm
malibu wrote:
Karen, here is one of Mokipono's videos. I haven't seen this for a while but that hair looks mmmmmmm yummmm!! I love how much hair is on those wefts! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_sRbj55cwQ - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_sRbj55cwQ
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Hi Malibu. Thank you so much.
WOW. I loved that video. Mokipono did a great job. I watched it a couple of times.
Mokipono - Can we add your video links to Carrie's posts? Not sure if you want us to but if it is OK, that would be great. Please let me know.
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 12:44pm
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Thats some nice Russian alright! Like butta! She had about $3000 worth of hair on that table hehehe. No just kidding I dont know.
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Posted By: Carol328
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 1:24pm
malibu wrote:
Krimsa, That's a good price. I don't understand how they tighten the tracks? I haven't had a braider tell me to come back for them to be tightened. I'm intrigued.  |
I've had mine tightened twice already so next time around it'll be a full take down and re-install.
I am now trying to "elect" my daughter to learn how to do the weave. She does braid very well so it's the weave part she's trying to get.
Krimsa, that is great that you can go for that long and still have the weave so snug and tight. I love having the weave and it's such a welcome change after having the GL bonds for so long! My hair no longer shreds out and I don't have to worry now about "slipping" bonds all the time.
I can't wait to see your pictures!! 
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 1:41pm
I cant really take photos because, well quite frankly i have no one here that can take them for me. Its so sad. lol. i guess i could try holding the cam and sort of lifting up the hair but its all black and dark and it will reflect off and you wont be able to see anything i bet. It would be different with blonde but even then, weaves blend so well. Imagine trying to take a photo of a black, slim, band against dark hair!
I disliked GL and those bonds. They felt like rice in my hair. Weaves are just softer and less noticeable in my opinion. I feel more connected to it.
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 1:46pm
You too Carol!? I have to ask next time. I would be nice to extend my installs. Right now I get six weeks out of it. Although...it's nice to change the hair and do different things all the time. I get bored quickly
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Posted By: angieOLDSCHOOL
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 2:02pm
Ooo I'd really like seeing this one. The first install I ever got was sew ins and it took them a week until it started hurting and knotting. How often did you wash your hair? I'm really curious about this one.
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 3:43pm
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A week is way too soon for knotting. Something was not right there. I do a full shampoo once a week and usually about mid week, just a top hair one if it gets oily. The extension hair never seems to feel oily or dirty but of course my exposed hair at scalp will get a little greasy. It all blends perfectly. I also ONLY ever used conditioner on the ends of the extension hair, never any higher. This will keep your weave nice longer I bet.
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 4:03pm
Angie, your sew ins were hurting and knotting after a week? I don't understand why they would knot up. Do you mean the hair was poor quality? I wash my hair twice a week with poo and conditioner. Krimsa, you're right it's good to keep the conditioner away from the braid. I never think about it, lots of conditioner goes there
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 5:27pm
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I guess you could condition up there if you want but i dont see the need. it seems like a lot of residue might end up getting trapped in the braid if you condition every single time but if it works for you, its probably fine.
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Posted By: sherrie215
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 5:51pm
malibu wrote:
Karen, here is one of Mokipono's videos. I haven't seen this for a while but that hair looks mmmmmmm yummmm!! I love how much hair is on those wefts! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_sRbj55cwQ - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_sRbj55cwQ
Sherrie, I didn't realize the video was taken off youtube. Apparently in between brainless collage projects, shameless people need to say something to make themselves feel relevant.
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I am glad to see that Mokipono's video is still on youtube. She took it down for awhile I know, but she got alot of support and encouragment to put it back up! I am glad to see she did!
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Posted By: mokipono
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 6:07pm
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Hi Karen,
Of course, you can use my video, I am humbled.
I had the "making tracks that stay in Caucasian hair" video posted on youtube for a few months. You would not believe all the negative feed back I got. I guess sometimes it's true, if something is free most people see it as having very little value.
Sherrie is right about the current video, I will be selling it on Sherries http://www.hairextensions101.com - www.hairextensions101.com site. The first one "Tracks that stay in Caucasian hair" this video comes with a kit witch will make the install a lot easier.
I'm coming out with a second video right now. They say necessity is the mother of invention, in my case it's very true.
The second DVD is a new technique I invented. I say I invented it because I've never seen this technique done before. It can be used by anyone but was mainly invented for folks that DYI, like myself. I used to put my own cornrow tracks in, it would take hours from start to finish, and wasn't very easy to do on the back of my head.
I started using the new technique a few months ago. For me it is a very fast and easy install, and lasted for 12 weeks. My hair grew out which made them looser, but they were not sliding out or coming undone. The technique is very simple, it requires no braids, glue, fusion, micro links, sewing, or anything extra added on to the weft. I would like to share it with the world for free, but just making the video is very expensive.
I posted a few weeks ago there would be a big discount for forum members of the Hair Boutique and Hair extensions 101.
I haven't posted much about either video, at the cost of sounding like a commercial, I opted not to.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 6:08pm
krimsa wrote:
I guess you could condition up there if you want but i dont see the need. it seems like a lot of residue might end up getting trapped in the braid if you condition every single time but if it works for you, its probably fine. | I've been wearing this method for years, and I wash and condition not only the extension hair but my own too.. Years ago I used to use a portabe handheld nozzle in the kitchen sink to rinse my hair and ensure that the braids had no product trapped in them..
Once I got my first handheld showerhead I began to use that.. I simply place the shower head right on my head to ensure that the water gets through to the braids and rinses away any shampoo or conditioner residue.. I make sure tha I rinse for a good long time to make sure everything is out.. I've NEVER had a problem with any product residue on my braids..
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 6:41pm
Thats great but honestly, before i had a weave in I rarely if ever conditioned the scalp area of my natural hair. The reason being is I have very flat laying, fine hair so conditioner up top was a bad idea for me. it tended to make my hair limp and weighed down and impossible to style.
I did it on occasion though, maybe once a month using a heavy deep conditioner but I would only do that if I had no plans the next day to go anywhere because my hair would look like an oily dish rag lol.
I have chosen not to use it near the braid area due to my hair texture and I dont have that good of a shower nozzle so for me, it could cause a lot of build up in there.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 6:48pm
Understood.. You have to do what works for you girl.. I just wanted to point out for others that it is possible to condition the braids too.. If you take precautions to rinse well, you won't have to worry about product buildup.. We talk about this very thing often on BHM.. (care of the natural hair under the weave that is..)
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 13 2007 at 6:56pm
I love my hand held shower head! I got it because of extensions and I love it love it love it!!
I'm always concerned about build up in the tracks but sometimes I get lazy. Especially shampooing between the tracks when my braids are loose. I feel like I pull some of my hair.
Mokipono! That's such great news that you'll be selling your videos on Sherrie's site!! Congratulations! Your new technique sounds great!! 12 weeks with no slippage? and I can do it on my own? Fabulous!!
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 14 2007 at 11:57am
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I gotta get a better shower head. The problem here is I live on a farm with well water so it is what it is. At least the water is very pure as I know minerals can also cause problems with hair extensions and rinsing of hair. Its just not the best presure in the world.
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Posted By: mokipono
Date Posted: September 14 2007 at 8:51pm
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Hi Malibu,
Actually, the first video is already out, along with the kit. It's the video that shows how to make tracks on Caucasian, and any other fine, thin, or hair that is too silky. The video shows how to keep any hair from slipping without having to use glue. It's best for folks who have had trouble keeping cornrows in the hair. It also shows how to add synthetic hair to tracks and a lot of other tips that weren't in the youtube video. The youtube video was 3 minutes, where as the new tutorial is well over half an hour.
If you can wait a couple more weeks I will have the new technique on DVD, and will include it for free with the purchase of video #1 and kit.
I am really excited to show you the new method, it's so easy, I don't know why I didn't think of it sooner.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 14 2007 at 10:15pm
krimsa wrote:
I got the tightening done in Florida by a place called "Paradise Braids". She didnt take anything down but seemed just to tighten using new rubber bands and thread again. She did not sew the wefts together but just tightened each one seperately. She said I could go another month but then would need a complete take down. | I'd be curious to see and know what she did.. I worn weaves a long time, and seen a lot of different techniques.. However, I can't see how she tightened the tracks without taking them down, and without sewing the tracks together (the usual way a tightening is done). When you say new rubberbands, did she add additional rubberbands??
mokipono wrote:
Hi Malibu,
Actually, the first video is already out, along with the kit. It's the video that shows how to make tracks on Caucasian, and any other fine, thin, or hair that is too silky. The video shows how to keep any hair from slipping without having to use glue. It's best for folks who have had trouble keeping cornrows in the hair. It also shows how to add synthetic hair to tracks and a lot of other tips that weren't in the youtube video. The youtube video was 3 minutes, where as the new tutorial is well over half an hour.
If you can wait a couple more weeks I will have the new technique on DVD, and will include it for free with the purchase of video #1 and kit.
I am really excited to show you the new method, it's so easy, I don't know why I didn't think of it sooner. |
I can't wait to see this video myself.. It's long been an issue for causcasian women to have difficulty with the sew-in methods due to braid slippage issues.. Getting the benefit of your first hand expertise is long overdue in the market.. Kudos to you for not letting hateful internet people stop you from doing something good!!
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 12:08am
I'm really intrigued!! I can't even imagine doing a sew-in on myself?? How cool would that be!?! It sounds like you go into a lot of detail if it's over a 1/2hour. Cool!
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Posted By: mokipono
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 1:44am
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Thank you Miss Diva. I have a lot of respect for you. A compliment from you means a lot to me.
I'm not sure of the tightening method used which includes rubber bands and string, and no take down. I'm trying to imagine what it could be. Sometimes if a client doesn't have time that day I will tighten her wefts and try to catch any hair from the braided track that hasn't slipped too much. It will make the wefts feel tighter for a while.....but not too long.
Maybe she takes a few hairs from the track and makes them into a closed end ponytail. She could make a few of these and tighten up the track by attaching to 4 or 5 ponytails along the track. Then while she is tightening up the weft she could be sewing the clump of hair in the r-bands to make them flat.
It might work, but it sounds kinda messy.
Anybody else got any ideas that aren't a hot mess????
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Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 10:05am
mokipono wrote:
Anybody else got any ideas that aren't a hot mess????
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I guess a lot of stuff could be done but I think it's a waste of time and money.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 10:52am
mokipono wrote:
Thank you Miss Diva. I have a lot of respect for you. A compliment from you means a lot to me.
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mokipono wrote:
I'm not sure of the tightening method used which includes rubber bands and string, and no take down. I'm trying to imagine what it could be. Sometimes if a client doesn't have time that day I will tighten her wefts and try to catch any hair from the braided track that hasn't slipped too much. It will make the wefts feel tighter for a while.....but not too long. | That's why I never bothered getting a tightening done.. It always sounded to me like the benefits of it would only be short lived.. So I figured if I get at least 8-12 weeks out of an install that would be fine for me..
mokipono wrote:
Maybe she takes a few hairs from the track and makes them into a closed end ponytail. She could make a few of these and tighten up the track by attaching to 4 or 5 ponytails along the track. Then while she is tightening up the weft she could be sewing the clump of hair in the r-bands to make them flat.
It might work, but it sounds kinda messy.
Anybody else got any ideas that aren't a hot mess???? | I agree that this might work, but sure does sound like it would be a hot mess...
Ms.Honey wrote:
I guess a lot of stuff could be done but I think it's a waste of time and money.
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 11:14am
I dont know. Im sorry. I am not even exactly certain what she did initially to start with. This is her site if you can tell by what she has posted there. I would be considered a "partial weave" but that doesnt really tell you much except that all of my top hair is loose and falling over the top of the wefts which are in three levels below.
When i went for the tightening it was really not bad at all and that is why the lady that did that did not feel the need to take everything down right then. She simply re-threaded it somehow and pulled it snug again. It did feel much tighter when she was done and lasted that way up until now. Now its been over 8 weeks so the bottom weft is starting to bulge out slightly and you can feel that it is looser and its time for a complete re-do. Its still looks fine though. Its just that everything is starting to slowly slide further and further down just due to hair growth. Here is Nancy's site the lady that did my install and shes fabulous and Im very happy with it.
http://www.nvmyhair.piczo.com/?cr=4&rfm=y
After the 22nd she will be adding some photos of the back of my hair (install) to her "Before and After" section so i can show everyone.
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Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 11:19am
krimsa, if you do not call that woman and ask her what she did to your hair I'm going to come up there and spank you!!!!
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 12:08pm
mokipono wrote:
Hi Karen,
Of course, you can use my video, I am humbled.
I had the "making tracks that stay in Caucasian hair" video posted on youtube for a few months. You would not believe all the negative feed back I got. I guess sometimes it's true, if something is free most people see it as having very little value.
The second DVD is a new technique I invented. I say I invented it because I've never seen this technique done before. It can be used by anyone but was mainly invented for folks that DYI, like myself. I used to put my own cornrow tracks in, it would take hours from start to finish, and wasn't very easy to do on the back of my head.
I started using the new technique a few months ago. For me it is a very fast and easy install, and lasted for 12 weeks. My hair grew out which made them looser, but they were not sliding out or coming undone. The technique is very simple, it requires no braids, glue, fusion, micro links, sewing, or anything extra added on to the weft.
I would like to share it with the world for free, but just making the video is very expensive.
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Hi Mokipono,
So sorry for all the negative feedback you got on your videos. That is horrible and totally uncalled for.
You would not believe the emails we get that are sent randomly to Webmaster.
Even though there are close to 20,000 images (18,500 & counting) in the HB Gallery that HB paid for/or licensed, people email and bitch us out that there aren't more. So yes, even though it is free for them, it cost us a tremendous amount of money (some of the images we licensed from photographers for anywhere from $25 - $100 per image) to build our Galleries.
The Galleries have always been free to any visitors and I agree with you that people do not always value free information.
We have over 2,500 current hair article (not counting columns, daily tips, blogs, news, reports, etc.,) that someone had to be paid to either write or edit or post and they complain that there are not enough articles.
They complain there are not enough Forum Topics, there is too much advertising on the site...blah, blah, blah.
Why are people are so negative and bitchy or are quick to make fun of other people? What is the reason?
Just like your videos. WHY? They don't have to pay for them. You posted them in an attempt to help people. And yes, videos are very expensive to make. I know exactly what you are talking about.
I have come to the conclusion that negative, bitchy, mean people are very unhappy with low self-esteem. The try to make themselves feel better by making fun or trashing others who are positive and are trying to help others.....like with your videos.
Sometimes I also think they might be jealous or envious that they didn't think of the idea or post it first. Or maybe they think it makes them look cool (or tight - HA HA) in front of their friends. I see this with the celebrity gossip blogs. It's horrible the things that are said about celebrities who all have feelings and are human beings.
Or maybe it's easy to post negative stuff because you can remain anonymous? Which makes them cowardly, IMO, as well.
Would people that posted hate about your videos on YouTube tell you to your face?
That is one thing Andrew and I have learned. Many times we send an email requesting a callback phone number to call the complainers to get more feedback to help us do a better job with the site. I can tell you that in over 10 years of asking complainers for phone numbers, we only received one and it turned out to be a wrong number.
OK. Enough on that off topic rant. 
Back on topic......I have been reading a lot and taking some braiding classes in my "spare" time and braiding my mannequins to learn some of the various braids.
My friend Barbara Lhotan the Paul Mitchell educator taught me corn rows in the past & has promised to teach me box braids when I am in New York the next time. I have been practicing but they are time consuming and can be hard on your fingers. At least in my humble opinion.
I honestly can not even imagine how anyone could braid their own cornrows although I can French braid and English braid my own hair. It is beyond my own imagination.
I will definitely be interested in all your DVDs and videos. I am interested in learning as much as I can about any new techniques. I am sure your CDs/DVDs will be excellent. You are always so committed to your craft and always willing to help all of us on HB and 101.
Thanks for being willing to help us all with great new inventions and shortcuts. I appreciate it very very much. 
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 12:25pm
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i really cant imagine how difficult it is to do cornrows. It seems like it would be murder on your hands and cause arthritus over time. Its quite an amazing skill
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 1:40pm
Great post Karen! Negative words from defeated cowards mean nothing to me
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 1:45pm
krimsa wrote:
i really cant imagine how difficult it is to do cornrows. It seems like it would be murder on your hands and cause arthritus over time. Its quite an amazing skill |
Yes it is. Actually, my first cosmo teacher at PM told me that she had a hard time braiding. She told us she was "in her 60s" and had been braiding lots of hair for 40+ years. She had arthritus. She did a braiding demo on my hair (I got picked as a model because my hair is so long) and she told me later it really hurt her hands to braid. Even the French braid that she did on me.
I am quite amazed by anyone that does a lot of braiding. They have my total respect.
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 1:46pm
malibu wrote:
Great post Karen! Negative words from defeated cowards mean nothing to me
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Hi Malibu,
thanks for your post. Good to see you here today. I hope you are having a fabulous weekend.  I am working at home today in my PJs. Still fighting the bronchitis but I sound less froggy today.
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 2:03pm
Geez! I'm sorry that bronchitis hasn't passed yet! Hang in there Karen!!
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 2:10pm
malibu wrote:
Geez! I'm sorry that bronchitis hasn't passed yet! Hang in there Karen!! |
Thanks Malibu. Actually it is partially my fault that I am still sick. I was starting to get better and I did exactly what I know I shouldn't do. I was feeling pretty good on Thursday and Friday and turned the heat on myself working my normal 16 hour days in the office. By last nite I was crashing again. So I am determined to stay home this weekend and take it easier. UGH. I had no idea that bronchitis could last this long. I wish I could invent a miracle cure. Apparently it usually lasts 3-5 weeks.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 3:31pm
Karen Shelton wrote:
I had no idea that bronchitis could last this long. I wish I could invent a miracle cure. Apparently it usually lasts 3-5 weeks. | Yes it can.. and if you ignore it and don't let yourself get better you will end up like I did ON my 30th birthday.. In the hospital with pneumonia.. So STAY in bed and GET SOME REST!!!
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Posted By: mokipono
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 4:16pm
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Hi Karen,
Thank you for your understanding email, very well written!
Even though we know these people have a problem, it's hard not to let it get to you. Usually I'm furious, and want to write back. If I did that I'm sure it would turn into a full scale war. I just don't have the time for that kind of nonsense.
What's really funny is NONE of the critics had a video, or website!!
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Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 5:04pm
Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 8:23pm
Ms.Honey wrote:
They are pathetic, spiteful Krusty idiots and when you say something back to them they want to know why you're being so agressive towards them .
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 10:19pm
Divavocals wrote:
Karen Shelton wrote:
I had no idea that bronchitis could last this long. I wish I could invent a miracle cure. Apparently it usually lasts 3-5 weeks. | Yes it can.. and if you ignore it and don't let yourself get better you will end up like I did ON my 30th birthday.. In the hospital with pneumonia.. So STAY in bed and GET SOME REST!!! |
Hi Diva,
Oh no...not pneumonia and not on your birthday. How horrible...shudder.
You are totally correct and I have to take better care of myself.
I am happy to report that I did not leave my house today or go to work and spent several hours enjoying myself chatting on the phone with one of my favorite people (even though I am still a little froggy) and did not even work a second of that time.
Of course now I am on the forums...HA HA...but that is not really causing much exertion except to my fingers.
But you are right Diva. I am trying to get better. I am taking this new (to me new) herb called Clear Lungs and it seems to be helping a lot. I have also promised myself to stay home tomorrow. Two days in a row. Hopefully that will help. 
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Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 10:24pm
Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 15 2007 at 10:45pm
mokipono wrote:
Hi Karen,
Thank you for your understanding email, very well written!
Even though we know these people have a problem, it's hard not to let it get to you. Usually I'm furious, and want to write back. If I did that I'm sure it would turn into a full scale war. I just don't have the time for that kind of nonsense.
What's really funny is NONE of the critics had a video, or website!! |
Hi Mokipono,
I totally hear you. You have to be inhuman not to feel bad when someone is trashing you or your work. Even if you don't know them personally and they don't know you, it is hurtful.
And yes, it is funny that none of the critics have done their own videos or website. Like I said, you have to think they are jealous of your accomplishments.
I have a deal for you. Every time someone posts something mean or sends you a hurtful email, you can email me ( mailto:shelton@hairboutique.com - shelton@hairboutique.com ) any time and I will be happy to listen. It helps if you can talk to someone and then it helps (at least it helps me) realize it is not worth your energy to feel bad.
I for one appreciate all your hard work and I am already #1 in line to buy your new video. I have already told Sherrie to let me know how to buy it because I can't wait. I am sure it will be really good.
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 6:16am
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Why would someone trash your work? I must be out of the loop. Is it professional jealousy? Someone really has too much time on their hands. Not to mention you are actually doing something creative in making a video that requires effort and showcases your expertise....the gripers....not so much.
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Posted By: sherrie215
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 7:38am
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krisma there are alot of mean people out there that enjoy saying mean and cruel things to people.
Have you ever checked out msn message boards? Its unreal. There are always so many negative mean and cruel posts that I wont even post on the msn boards. It just amazes me when I read some of it.
I prefer happy little communities (such as this one) where people are supportive and friendly....there is enough negativity out there!
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Posted By: krimsa
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 8:58am
No Im not really into the boards but I have been on some forums where people have just gotten out of control in their cruel personal attacks.
I dont really get it. I mean you know darn well that the people that do this sort of thing in an anonymous computer setting would never have the guts to make those kind of comments to someone's face on the street.
I guess my rule has always been if you wouldnt stand up to your words live, just shutty!
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Posted By: ikki
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 11:56am
mokipono
Please let us know when the DVD is out.
I would love to buy it.
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 2:43pm
krimsa wrote:
I mean you know darn well that the people that do this sort of thing in an anonymous computer setting would never have the guts to make those kind of comments to someone's face on the street. | Exactly!!! That's because it's VERY EASY to be BRAVE behind a keyboard. Here's my take on this: (I've said this before) Being nasty is EASY.. We can all put on bitch like lipstick when we need to, but being a bitch isn't good for your soul... and let's face it.. Life is way too short!! Especially too short to make nasty comments about people you don't know..
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Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 2:57pm
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You can kind of expect this kind of behavior from young people but when grown tailed women who should know better, who claim to be professionals with children and grandchildren.... It makes you wonder what type of people their children and grandchildren are and will be.
Anywhoo, so krimsa, you make that call girl 
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Posted By: Karen Shelton
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 3:27pm
sherrie215 wrote:
krisma there are alot of mean people out there that enjoy saying mean and cruel things to people.
Have you ever checked out msn message boards? Its unreal. There are always so many negative mean and cruel posts that I wont even post on the msn boards. It just amazes me when I read some of it.
I prefer happy little communities (such as this one) where people are supportive and friendly....there is enough negativity out there! |
Hi Sher,
Thanks for the kind words about our little community here. And thanks to all who post here because you are all truly supportive and friendly.
I used to write a blog for a big celebrity photo site. They took the blogs down for a number of reasons (software problems was one of them) but dealing with the nasty responses was another major issue. They eventually turned off thet option for people to post responses. But you should have seen the nastiness. Bizarre.
I have also seen similar hate postings at Craig's list but NOT like MSN. That has to be the worst of the worst. I am surprised MSN lets that continue. A lot of big advertisers will not advertise on sites with that type of hate postings on their forums. I always wonder about that.
Actually I spent the weekend at home trying to kick my bronchitis for good (made good progress on that front) and rented some movies. I rarely do that. It was a rare treat. One of the movies I watched had bullying (girl on girl) in high school. The movie is based on a "true story". I was shocked. Apparently it is a major problem in schools these days.
I wonder if the kids in school that are doing all the bullying such as dirty tricks (false rumors, anonymous hate postings, harrasing emails, spreading malicious lies, gossip, ridicule) are taking them to the Internet like MSN and Craig's List?
That would make sense wouldn't it?
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Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 4:00pm
Karen Shelton wrote:
IActually I spent the weekend at home trying to kick my bronchitis for good (made good progress on that front) and rented some movies. I rarely do that. It was a rare treat. One of the movies I watched had bullying (girl on girl) in high school. The movie is based on a "true story". I was shocked. Apparently it is a major problem in schools these days. | Good for you.. Kick your feet up girl.. Eat some popcorn..
Karen Shelton wrote:
I wonder if the kids in school that are doing all the bullying such as dirty tricks (false rumors, anonymous hate postings, harrasing emails, spreading malicious lies, gossip, ridicule) are taking them to the Internet like MSN and Craig's List?
That would make sense wouldn't it? | I belong to an MSN forum (The Wig Support Group). It's a heavily moderated forum because they want to keep out the nasty posts.. I don't mind, and I even understood why they deleted my 1st post regarding our upcoming LA luncheon.. The moderator was really nice about explaining it.. So I just made the required changes and reposted.. So it's one of the better MSN forums..
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Posted By: malibu
Date Posted: September 17 2007 at 4:53pm
I thought grandma's were nice? My grandma was the best
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