Lets share what BHM has done for us.

 

Make sure to tell Before and After

 

 

SO I will start

 

 

I was a member on here.I was doing research in hairworld, looking up African American hair and the homepage is what I found. From then I, I lurked. I read as much as I couldm then decided what forums to be a member of.

 

 Once it slowed down on HB, I saw that all of my hair friends were at BMH. THey were so welcoming. I love the friendships, information and celebrity gossip BHM plus the drama is hilliarious.

 

 

Now, come on and share!

 

 

 

 

Yeah, the site  have technical difficulties, too often for my taste. If it is not one site it is another.

So what stuff would you have not thought to use  if it was not from BHM? Can you elaborate on that.

after bhm:  i shaved the rats nest completely off and starting wearing lace fronts and have the confidence to walk outside my door and feel like an adult that has arrived.  now when or if ever i decide to grow my hair back there is also a forum to help me maintain healthy hair.

 

 ya a mess.. its good to see you ladies..

 

before bhm i had the driest hair in the universe...lost of shedding and breakage...and really i was a shames of my hair,i could never find anything to do with it...i'm a 4a hair type so you can get some idea of how frustating that texture can be if your not informed...i always looked like this

 

but nooow!! i have met more people with 4b hair who are encouraging and have info that really really helps out....they show you their photos and give you encouragement and suggestions...i even did one of the brick house challeges to eat healthy and lost  some weight....i love that women can join a forum and encourage you to look your best and be your best...we don't always have to put each other down....i did the wig challege also over the summer...(i didn't like the way it turned out) but i never would have thought about trying it if it wasn't for the ladies on bhm...i'm conststanly learning and looking more like this

 

 

      your use of words is funny...whew!!!!

 

So you are keeping it low cut?  How long have you been doing that?

 

I know when I first started looking for hair care items, I was tired of not seeing nice looking African American hair, whether it be relaxed or natural.

 

Some of the things I was doing, like wearing alot of buns, phony ponys made from tracks/wefts and using oils, relaxing less frequently  in my hair was my idea. When I searched online, there were numerious women doing it...I felt a little warm in the heart.

 

It took alot of research to find natural hair sites when I first began, that was my main focus, but keeping my hair healthy overall was just as soon to me, that is what we strive for.

 

After BHM.  I know great CV and AV vendors.  My apps are on point. My real hair is very healthy (including my edges).  It has grown tremendolous.

 

The only con is BHM got me strung out.  I am now addicted to lacefront and  hair forums.

 

This is so true.  Plus if there is drama click that "report" button, I've done it before. Ain't ashamed to say it either

After lurking for a couple of days waiting to get activated, I noticed that HB is alot friendlier. 

 

It is like you are looking for a new home and you first check out the neighborhood before moving.  The last neighborhood you were in was a little chaotic and the Commanding Officer was never on duty.  I like HB's neighborhood -- I am moving in.

 

 

 

 

 

hey essence girl good to see you here!

Before BHM:  I was lonely and frustrated in my search for "bangin'" hair. I would roam seeking the "fix" for which could not be found.  I went to trade shows but plastic hair on lace was not the high I had to have.  While evaluating other vendors I found kindred spirits  in the vets of BHM.

 

After: I remain addicted, but I no longer feign for lace wigs (although I still attack the UPS driver. I also don't "kill' them as fast and learned how to bring some back from the "Dead." The infighting and hate grew tiresome.  But the most important feature came from the kindness of other sisters that paid a serious price in time, money and quality to share unselfishly. Real classy, intelligent ladies with giant hearts, immeasurable patience and kindness . . . .especially SEXI.  Anywhere she is is a class act, on that you can rely. The BS on BHM became intolerable. Without u guys it's nothing now. 

 

HEY TRESSA AND FLLWLOVER GREAT TO HAVE YOU HERE

 

before bhm: i thought i had the best weave install!

 

after bhm: i look at pictures of my previous installs and am so happy I found bhm. my weaves look like real hair now, not plastic AND my hair is growing and I even ventured and bought a lf