Truth or lie??That is the question
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Topic: Truth or lie??That is the question
Posted By: cmesweet
Subject: Truth or lie??That is the question
Date Posted: March 03 2008 at 8:53pm
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Pretend you have a friend or family member that happened to call you and brag about their soooooooooooo natural looking weave. Then she gets to your place, or you see her out and it don't blend and looks like a dead rat run over by a truck 2 times and in reverse 3 times
 ...would you tell that friend about her weave?What would you do? Would you let her look wild 'bout the head? Would you send hints? Would you send her a letter in the mail saying "u got F*** the hell up?
Come on, to tell the truth or lie? ------------- Natural BC May 9, 2004 |
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Posted By: _Princess_
Date Posted: March 03 2008 at 10:30pm
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I'll tell her tha truth, I'm no friend if I let her run around town thinkin' she & her hairs lookin' cute when its a hot behind mess! Now I wouldn't be mean about it, I'm not mean, I'd be nice n break it down to her how it looks to me, give her my opinion..hear what she likes or "sees" in it & then try n fix tha mess even if it means cuttin' it off...I can't let her do that to herself ------------- |
Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: March 04 2008 at 12:27am
 heheheheheheheheheehe!!!!!!------------- ALL EYES ON ME |
cmesweet wrote:Posted By: Ms.Honey
Date Posted: March 04 2008 at 12:35am
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I'm sorry but that was too dang on funny I'd sit her down and tell her. Then I'd take it out and put it in correctly. You'd have to deal with the tears and denial first though. ------------- ALL EYES ON ME |
Posted By: cmesweet
Date Posted: March 04 2008 at 6:23am
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You guys are such good friends. That's what I like to hear.
I've been wondering about this when I see people out at the mall or on the street with their friends.
None of my friends wear added hair so I haven't had this problem yet.
Anyone else? ------------- Natural BC May 9, 2004 |
Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: March 04 2008 at 6:52pm
Girl my BFF would tell me in a NEW YORK MINUTE!!!  and vice versa.. I'd have to tell.. What kind of friend would I be to let my girl go out looking bad wrong!!
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Posted By: tushay
Date Posted: March 05 2008 at 5:44am
i agree...esp a family member...but i would definately do the same thing and expect them to be truthful to me....a person should always have someone in their life who will tell them the truth no matter what...especially when it come to a weave ------------- don't chase me unless your ready to catch me!!! |
Posted By: MsMahoganyRed
Date Posted: March 05 2008 at 7:07pm
TOO funny!! But really I would have to tell the truth since that'show I roll...
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Posted By: MzKoKoNY
Date Posted: March 05 2008 at 7:36pm
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as a stylist i have a moral responsibility to not let anyone i care about go out looking like sh** on a stick...so if it's my homegirl...yes i'd tell her..in a tactful way...be like...girl...i have this product that would be just perfect for your edges...
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Posted By: cmesweet
Date Posted: March 10 2008 at 2:18pm
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EIther some ladies are still thinking or they would lie to their friends. ------------- Natural BC May 9, 2004 |
Posted By: BeautyWitch
Date Posted: March 11 2008 at 1:26am
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LMAO! I would just fix it for her, just let her know it wasn't "blending well" or whatever <-- just a nice way of saying your weave looks like crap without hurting her feelings. Now if she refuses to let me help her then I would just tell her it's not working and I'm not going out with her looking like that. ------------- http://www.fotki.com/beautywitch - My Pics 
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Posted By: MsMahoganyRed
Date Posted: March 11 2008 at 9:11am
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