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Topic: Anybody Else Getting More Tender Headed ?
Posted By: Curlygirl11
Subject: Anybody Else Getting More Tender Headed ?
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 3:46pm

I love coming home after work on Fridays and starting my routine of removing my unit and starting my hair care routine on my natural hair. LUV, LUV, LUT IT !!  barmy

I love massaging and scratching my scalp and seeing how much my hair is growing BUT over the past 2 months it seems like I've become tender headed and I never was before. When I comb out my hair in the same way that I've been doing for years it kinda hurts halloween11 I'm wondering if it's because my scalp isn't used to having any stress or tension on it anymore but I don't know. Has anybody else experienced this since they started wearing lace fronts ????????????



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Posted By: missmodesty
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 4:05pm
i do actually
its normal i think,because your scalp is not use to any kind of pressure or stress anymore so it hurts a little bit
i know exactly what you are talking about,
even when i try to do my braid again its the same thing.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 4:13pm

I only started to notice it about 2 months ago. How long had you been wearing lf's before you started to get tender headed ?



Posted By: missmodesty
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 4:28pm
since September of last year but i started noticing the tender head like 3 or 4 months later.

it doesn't worry me because its the same thing when you stop braiding or wearing weaves for a long period of time,when you start again its hurt  a lot,even just combing like you said.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 4:35pm
Okay, I didn't know if I was the only one or not. I guess my scalp is just getting used to being protected by the lf and being able to rest.   


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 5:06pm
do you feel your hair is tangling more than usual?


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 5:52pm
No, there isn't any extra tangling. If anything it tangles less because it's been sitting still under my wig cap all week and hasn't had a chance to tangle.


Posted By: meangirl76
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 5:56pm
I think my scalp is much more tender now than during my weave days. But on the other hand my hair does not tangle as bad when I take down the braids.

When I got my hair blown out and flat ironed about 3 weeks ago, I couldn't understand why my scalp hurt. And I had to ask her to turn the blow dryer temp. down, b/c the heat had my head on fire. I don't plan on doing that again for a loooong time.


Posted By: FLMDiva
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 5:58pm
yeah.  i thought it was because i was getting older.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:05pm
Originally posted by meangirl76 meangirl76 wrote:

I think my scalp is much more tender now than during my weave days. But on the other hand my hair does not tangle as bad when I take down the braids.

When I got my hair blown out and flat ironed about 3 weeks ago, I couldn't understand why my scalp hurt. And I had to ask her to turn the blow dryer temp. down, b/c the heat had my head on fire. I don't plan on doing that again for a loooong time.
 
That's when I really noticed it too. I blow dried and flat ironed my hair a few weekends ago to see how much it had grown since wearing lf's and I was surprised at how tender headed I was. I'm assuming that if we were to stop wearing lf's and started styling our natural hair again on a regular basis that our scalps would toughen back up.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:07pm
Originally posted by Curlygirl11 Curlygirl11 wrote:

No, there isn't any extra tangling. If anything it tangles less because it's been sitting still under my wig cap all week and hasn't had a chance to tangle.
 
ok i was just asking b/c your hair appears very heathly altho when we go natural again we just gotta be sure its balanced with the moisturizing and protein so that it doesn't tangle.. i know at first that was a challenged and a burden washing my hair and getting the tangles out which in turn made my scalp hurt.. but now that i'm balanced i don't have that anymore.. but i think in time your scalp will get use to it  to less manipulation its just adjusting..


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:10pm
Originally posted by FLMDiva FLMDiva wrote:

yeah.  i thought it was because i was getting older.
 
your so crazy LOL
 
i think our scalps b4 lfs were use to all the combing and pulling and chemicals, now its getting a break and the manipulation isn't often so i think it adjust..


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:10pm
Originally posted by sexibeach sexibeach wrote:

Originally posted by Curlygirl11 Curlygirl11 wrote:

No, there isn't any extra tangling. If anything it tangles less because it's been sitting still under my wig cap all week and hasn't had a chance to tangle.
 
ok i was just asking b/c your hair appears very heathly altho when we go natural again we just gotta be sure its balanced with the moisturizing and protein so that it doesn't tangle.. i know at first that was a challenged and a burden washing my hair and getting the tangles out which in turn made my scalp hurt.. but now that i'm balanced i don't have that anymore.. but i think in time your scalp will get use to it  to less manipulation its just adjusting..
 
Does too much protein make the ends brittle ?


Posted By: BFF Princess
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:10pm
Ive noticed this too. I thought it was because I went natural and stopped perming.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:13pm
no b/c when you are finally natural you don't need as much protein b/c its the chemicals that damaged the protein.. naturals only need protein treatments monthly.. moisturizing is more necessary when natural.. after you moisturize with shea butter, olive oil creams etc.. make sure you give special attention to your ends with oils.. also are you using a MTG or a product for your scalp? b/c you must do that, the sulfur in the MTG prevents fungas in the follicles which with your head being covered with the lf's and sometimes damp that can happen.. i use the newer version http://www.suluhair.com/ - http://www.suluhair.com/  but some use


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:16pm
Originally posted by sexibeach sexibeach wrote:

no b/c when you are finally natural you don't need as much protein b/c its the chemicals that damaged the protein.. naturals only need protein treatments monthly.. moisturizing is more necessary when natural.. after you moisturize with shea butter, olive oil creams etc.. make sure you give special attention to your ends with oils.. also are you using a MTG or a product for your scalp? b/c you must do that, the sulfur in the MTG prevents fungas in the follicles which with your head being covered with the lf's and sometimes damp that can happen..
 
Yes, I've been using the MTG on my scalp and I oil the rest of my hair while it's still wet to lock in the moisture.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:22pm
ok than your fine your scalp is making the adjustment some people use antifungal medicines like Monistat, Monazole, Micozole mixed in hair creams to prevent any types of fungas b/c when your follicles get infected they will hurt but you'll know its much more than tended headed, it really hurts.. and needs medical attention..


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:28pm
Originally posted by sexibeach sexibeach wrote:

ok than your fine your scalp is making the adjustment some people use antifungal medicines like Monistat, Monazole, Micozole mixed in hair creams to prevent any types of fungas b/c when your follicles get infected they will hurt but you'll know its much more than tended headed, it really hurts.. and needs medical attention..
 
Shocked  wow
 
I was using the MTG to aid in hair growth but I'm glad to know it can also prevent fungus.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 6:30pm
Originally posted by Curlygirl11 Curlygirl11 wrote:

Originally posted by sexibeach sexibeach wrote:

ok than your fine your scalp is making the adjustment some people use antifungal medicines like Monistat, Monazole, Micozole mixed in hair creams to prevent any types of fungas b/c when your follicles get infected they will hurt but you'll know its much more than tended headed, it really hurts.. and needs medical attention..
 
Shocked  wow
 
I was using the MTG to aid in hair growth but I'm glad to know it can also prevent fungus.
 
me too i was glad to know it covered both Wink


Posted By: ~~MrsJones~~
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 7:04pm
I am experiencing that as well...I noticed that my head hurts alot now and that when I feel around on my scalp, it really is tender in some spots. I thought I was the only one as well.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 7:12pm
Originally posted by ~~MrsJones~~ ~~MrsJones~~ wrote:

I am experiencing that as well...I noticed that my head hurts alot now and that when I feel around on my scalp, it really is tender in some spots. I thought I was the only one as well.
 
My scalp only hurts when I pull on my natural hair while combing or braiding it. Are you saying yours hurts just when you touch it with your hands ?


Posted By: prettyandbrains
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 11:22pm
If your scalp is hurting you probably have natural new growth. When you go natural without the perms, your hair takes on a different curly shape. When that happens, you will have more resistance from the coils being stretched and going back into relaxation mode (kinda like the spring model in physic's). This actually causes tension to the scalp, whereas when the hair strands are straight there is not a lot of pulling involving the scalp. This difference is felt as tenderness. It gets greater with the accumulation of new growth as there are more coils thus more tension. I would recommend a silkening, conditioning moisturizer and less combing if necessary.


Posted By: ~~MrsJones~~
Date Posted: April 05 2008 at 11:23pm
Other parts of my head other than my hairline is sore. My mother said that it may be from my scalp not getting air the way it should. I didnt really notice until this past weekend and I have been wearing lf for almost two years.

I have been natural all my life so Im not quite sure if it is a new growth problem. I have 3a/3b hair type and i dont really have a big problem combing my hair out to shampoo. I don't know what is making me tenderheaded because I have never been.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 12:02am

My tender headedness has nothing to do with new growth either. I haven't put a relaxer or any type of chemical treatments in my natural hair for over 10 years.

MrsJones your scalp tenderness sounds like the sore spots I sometimes get on the thin layer of muscles under my scalp from prolonged stress. It only gets sore to the touch in certain spots when that happens to me and it's my reminder to stop bringing my work home and schedule a spa day so I can just chill out and relax. Sounds like a GOOD excuse for you to pamper yourself Smile


Posted By: ~~MrsJones~~
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 12:07am
That sounds about right. I have been very stressed from maintaining my business and clients...I sure do need some pampering girl.lol.we should make a point to pamper ourselves.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 12:11am
ITA  I'm gonna run myself a really hot bubble bath before bed and chill out with a good book and a glass of wine.


Posted By: ~~MrsJones~~
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 12:14am
oohh girl That sounds great...Sexi should put that in the newbie section as a tip..PAMPER YOURSELF or else...lol


Posted By: griff
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 5:32pm
CG,
 
I am def. more tender headed.  I think it's from not handling my hair much.  Now that I don't get it straightened, the only tension I put on it is when its loaded with conditioner (to comb it out).  It seems like my new growth is getting more and more, umm, RESISTANT!  You have to figure though with lfs, you're not doing anything stressful to your hair underneath.  Girl, your scalp is just spoiled!  I do use miconazole nitrate mixed with sulfur 8 on my scalp and my hair is growing like a weed.  I didn't know that mtg treated fungus, but the mn concoction works some kind of magic....


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 5:48pm
Originally posted by griff griff wrote:

CG,
 
I am def. more tender headed.  I think it's from not handling my hair much.  Now that I don't get it straightened, the only tension I put on it is when its loaded with conditioner (to comb it out).  It seems like my new growth is getting more and more, umm, RESISTANT!  You have to figure though with lfs, you're not doing anything stressful to your hair underneath.  Girl, your scalp is just spoiled!  I do use miconazole nitrate mixed with sulfur 8 on my scalp and my hair is growing like a weed.  I didn't know that mtg treated fungus, but the mn concoction works some kind of magic....
 
I think it's like you said Griff. Our scalps are just spoiled now and no longer accustomed to having to endure any stress or tension.
 
What is miconazole nitrate? Is that coochie cream from the grocery store? If not where can I find it cuz I wanna see if it will speed up my growth even more. Can you mix it with anything or only with certain stuff ?
 


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 6:26pm
Originally posted by Curlygirl11 Curlygirl11 wrote:

Originally posted by griff griff wrote:

CG,
 
I am def. more tender headed.  I think it's from not handling my hair much.  Now that I don't get it straightened, the only tension I put on it is when its loaded with conditioner (to comb it out).  It seems like my new growth is getting more and more, umm, RESISTANT!  You have to figure though with lfs, you're not doing anything stressful to your hair underneath.  Girl, your scalp is just spoiled!  I do use miconazole nitrate mixed with sulfur 8 on my scalp and my hair is growing like a weed.  I didn't know that mtg treated fungus, but the mn concoction works some kind of magic....
 
I think it's like you said Griff. Our scalps are just spoiled now and no longer accustomed to having to endure any stress or tension.
 
What is miconazole nitrate? Is that coochie cream from the grocery store? If not where can I find it cuz I wanna see if it will speed up my growth even more. Can you mix it with anything or only with certain stuff ?
 
 
yes its coochie cream mixed with other hair creams.. but you can't do both the monistat and the MTG, that's not a good mix b/c its over kill.. they are both anti-fungal medicines.. i used it before but i mixed mine's with perm repair.. but now i stick to one the sulu, b/c some people choose the miconazole nitrate b/c they might be allergic to sulfur.. so it's an alternative, honestly when i used it i can't account for a lot of growth, i got more with MTG..


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 6:45pm
Originally posted by sexibeach sexibeach wrote:

Originally posted by Curlygirl11 Curlygirl11 wrote:

Originally posted by griff griff wrote:

CG,
 
I am def. more tender headed.  I think it's from not handling my hair much.  Now that I don't get it straightened, the only tension I put on it is when its loaded with conditioner (to comb it out).  It seems like my new growth is getting more and more, umm, RESISTANT!  You have to figure though with lfs, you're not doing anything stressful to your hair underneath.  Girl, your scalp is just spoiled!  I do use miconazole nitrate mixed with sulfur 8 on my scalp and my hair is growing like a weed.  I didn't know that mtg treated fungus, but the mn concoction works some kind of magic....
 
I think it's like you said Griff. Our scalps are just spoiled now and no longer accustomed to having to endure any stress or tension.
 
What is miconazole nitrate? Is that coochie cream from the grocery store? If not where can I find it cuz I wanna see if it will speed up my growth even more. Can you mix it with anything or only with certain stuff ?
 
 
yes its coochie cream mixed with other hair creams.. but you can't do both the monistat and the MTG, that's not a good mix b/c its over kill.. they are both anti-fungal medicines.. i used it before but i mixed mine's with perm repair.. but now i stick to one the sulu, b/c some people choose the miconazole nitrate b/c they might be allergic to sulfur.. so it's an alternative, honestly when i used it i can't account for a lot of growth, i got more with MTG..
 
I'm already using Sulu Hair's MaxGro (I just call is MTG cuz it's shorter). So are you saying that using the coochie meds with some type of hair grease would the same thing as MTG ?


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 6:59pm
yes similar but only use one or the other.. like i said i didn't experience the same hair growth burst's like do with the MTG/sulu..


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 7:03pm
Okay, thanks. I think I'll just stick with my MTG then. I've already got enough products laying around that I don't use.


Posted By: griff
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 8:03pm
CG,
 
I bought Sulu and was allergic to something in it.  I don't use coochie cream LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL
 
I mix a container of the light blue sulfur 8 (I love it cause it's really tingly...it makes me feel like something is happening!) with some athlete's foot powder (I use desenex cause it has the MN in it, I get a really big container and use about a third of it with each batch.), and I add in about 80 drops of orange essential oil. I mix it really well and apply it to my scalp.
 
When i'm not wearing lfs, I use it daily and massage my scalp.  When I am wearing them, I use it when I shampoo.  I can attest to about an inch and a half growth in 6 weeks.  My hair usually grows a half inch per month, so I was pretty impressed.  I doesn't drip, leak or get super oily and it doesn't smell.  I wish I could use the mtg though cause lots of you swear by it!


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 8:15pm
Originally posted by griff griff wrote:

CG,
 
I bought Sulu and was allergic to something in it.  I don't use coochie cream LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL
 
I mix a container of the light blue sulfur 8 (I love it cause it's really tingly...it makes me feel like something is happening!) with some athlete's foot powder (I use desenex cause it has the MN in it, I get a really big container and use about a third of it with each batch.), and I add in about 80 drops of orange essential oil. I mix it really well and apply it to my scalp.
 
When i'm not wearing lfs, I use it daily and massage my scalp.  When I am wearing them, I use it when I shampoo.  I can attest to about an inch and a half growth in 6 weeks.  My hair usually grows a half inch per month, so I was pretty impressed.  I doesn't drip, leak or get super oily and it doesn't smell.  I wish I could use the mtg though cause lots of you swear by it!
 
Hmmm, maybe you're allergic to 1 of the oils in the MTG.
 
An inch and a half of growth in 6 weeks is a LOT !!  Are you eating anything different or taking hair vitamins ? I'm just wondering if there's anything else that could account for your accelerated hair growth. If not Imma have to try that cuz that's way more than I'm getting with my MTG even though I take hair vitamins. 


Posted By: prettyandbrains
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 10:50pm
I am so laughing at Sexi.... Coochie creamsouthparkhead


Posted By: griff
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 11:11pm

Hey CG,

I don't know if anything else is causing the growth.  I am a chronic dieter determined to lose the last 10lbs.  I flip between low carb and low calorie.  I think my dieting is a little extreme and can't imagine that it's helping growth.  I HATE drinking water.  I drink just enough to get my allegra d in so that i'm not miserable with allergies....damn green new jersey!  I have prenatal vitamins which I'm told I can still take (even though my tubes are tied) and I bought biotin.  I hate taking pills as much as drinking water, so I rarely take them Confused
 
I think it was one of the oils in the Sulu cause I use sulfur now.  I also try to keep it out of my hair, so it forces me into a really good moisturizing and sealing routine before applying it to my scalp.  Let me know if you decide to try it and get good results.


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: April 06 2008 at 11:39pm
Originally posted by griff griff wrote:

Hey CG,

I don't know if anything else is causing the growth.  I am a chronic dieter determined to lose the last 10lbs.  I flip between low carb and low calorie.  I think my dieting is a little extreme and can't imagine that it's helping growth.  I HATE drinking water.  I drink just enough to get my allegra d in so that i'm not miserable with allergies....damn green new jersey!  I have prenatal vitamins which I'm told I can still take (even though my tubes are tied) and I bought biotin.  I hate taking pills as much as drinking water, so I rarely take them Confused
 
I think it was one of the oils in the Sulu cause I use sulfur now.  I also try to keep it out of my hair, so it forces me into a really good moisturizing and sealing routine before applying it to my scalp.  Let me know if you decide to try it and get good results.
 
You sound as bad as me with the water intake. I usually take several vitamins a day but when I get really busy I've been known to forget to take them for weeks at a time. I'm gonna try your method and see what happens. If I get accelerated growth I'll be posting another hair growth thread to show the new growth.


Posted By: TressaMagic
Date Posted: April 09 2008 at 7:22pm
I have a fabulous resource for a sheabased buttercream for hair and my head is not nearly as tender or itchy.  Years of weaves, N-word stress and life wore my hair thin and scalp sore.  This  stuff is called hairwine or something like that , anyway you can order it online at http://www.healthyblakhair.com - www.healthyblakhair.com It smells like fresh grapes and lasts a long time.  You don't need to use thatmuchUnbraided the hair remans moist . . .just wanted to share another resource . .



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