ok, after reading and reading and reading this site , i'm going back to sallys and get a blue (not violet) based demi, deposit-only color which is 1 shade darker than my current medium orange and try one strand of that .... (is manic panic a demi? & do i use a developer with it?).... (do i need to go 2 shades darker instead of 1?)
i'll also buy a tube of "unred" for a different strand test .... (what do i do with it? ... put it on straight out of the tube? ...it doesn't feel like the mixing of it with conditioner will cover my amount of red) ....
if none of this works, i'll do a third strand where i use regular bleach powder plus 30 vol developer and get it light ... then i'll wash that out, dry it and then put medium ash blonde deposit-only (violet base) with 20 vol developer on it - hopefully taking it back to my natural mousy shade - which i used to hate, but would now give anything to have back lol .... (later i'll do foil highlighting to match the other highlights in my hair - which is what i was trying to do when i screwed this up to begin with before i knew that i had to leave it on the hair and moist til i passed the orange phase ...)
i'll pick up a bottle of DRABBER while i'm at sallys also, but i'm not sure what i should do it it .... put it on yet another strand to test? ....
****another question: after i open the UNRED, the BLEACH POWDER PACKET, the DRABBER, the COLORS, how long can i keep them around for later use assuming i seal them up well? (i know i must throw out anything i've mixed) ....
please comment on what this looks like, and correct anything you can see i have gotten wrong ... i need to move on with my life ....thanx so much! 
------------- slps
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