First date hair - help required
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Topic: First date hair - help required
Posted By: uzma
Subject: First date hair - help required
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 5:22pm
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Hi I’m meeting up with someone this Friday and would appreciate some advice on what to do with my tresses. Usually I wear my hair up for first dates, but he has seen it down before so I’m not overly hung up about that. Here is the deal: 1. We are going to a French restaurant – quite formal – fairly early in the evening. 2. Then we intend to walk along the river and through the park. This bit will be quite relaxed. Seeing as summer is in full flow here, I shall be wearing a chiffon skirt, a bodice and a light shawl. I want the hair to transition from formal to casual with ease – or be in a “style” that doesn’t need to transition. I don’t want my hair to be in “wild abandon” mode as that would be inappropriate in this case, nor do I want it to be completely non-contributory to the intended beauty of the evening. My hair is straight-wavy combination and just 3 inches below my shoulders in length (22 inches from hair-line to ends at the back of the head). Sorry I have no pics to give you an idea. Totally unsure about how to wear it. Someone please help. Any and all suggestions gratefully received. Uzi (nervous) ------------- Uzi |
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Posted By: Kintaro
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 5:27pm
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Advice.... .something I always have but for the wrong point. For your hair, I don't know, like your personality? Be yourself? That should suffice, and if it doesn't, forget him. Just have fun regardless. ------------- I hate all of the following and lots more : Fundamentalists, racists, sexists, fascists, ageists (people saying seniors = senile , kids = stupid , 18 = immature or a combo of them), and bigots for causes yet to receive their own designation. |
Posted By: princessmonica
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 5:38pm
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how about a frech twist or a pretty bun with hair sticks? ------------- http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders - http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders |
Posted By: DaveDecker
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 6:36pm
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Hi Uzi, What kinds of styles do you already know how to do? Let us know. Or are you looking for new (to you) style ideas? Very vague "suggestions" here... at the restaurant, wear it back, or up... and wear it that way the entire evening, or... if at some point you feel like letting it free, you could do that relatively easily. No matter what, I'm sure your hair will be great.  ------------- |
Posted By: tina m
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 7:52pm
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I like the idea of the chiffon dress and shawl. very feminine! .....wearing your hair up can be very sexy especially with a nice necklace and a pair of pretty dangle earrings. The French restaurant and the nice walk along the river-( the Thames by chance?)- and through the park with the summer grass and trees sounds very romantic. Was the idea for this sort of date your idea or his Uzi? It sounds VERY romantic ! -( is he a cute guy Uzi? If the date was his idea even better!)-. Let us know young lady how the date goes! ..... and don't worry; just be your bright, sexy, charming, adorable self Uzma and you will have a lovely time I'm sure!  Keep us informed girl! Love, tina ------------- tina |
Posted By: Jennifer
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 10:12pm
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You must have the absolute fastest-growing hair on the earth! One post says that your hair is above your shoulders. Another post says that your hair is at your shoulders. And now, all of a sudden, your hair is 3 inches below your shoulders. Interesting. |
Posted By: princessmonica
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 10:27pm
well we all ready know the guy is smart. he is taking uzma out ------------- http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders - http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders |
tina m wrote:Posted By: papillon_purple
Date Posted: June 03 2003 at 10:53pm
How about a half up-half down style? It would look really romantic to have some hair brushing your shoulders since you'd be wearing a bodice, but still fashionable for the nice French restaurant with the portion of hair that is put up. Plus, you could secure it with a really nice hair clip to match your jewelry. Good luck!  ------------- |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 1:19am
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Kintaro Wise words I will definitely hold to my heart on the night. Thank you. Monica I can’t use sticks yet – my hair is not long enough. Will try and practice a French Twist. He is incredibly intelligent and “together” – frighteningly so – and so far all our opinions are at polar extremes, which is intruiging. Maybe he asked me out because he wanted some heavy debates LOL. Thanks for your kind words. Papillion_purple Ooo yes. That sounds just like what I’m trying to achieve. Thx. Tina and Monica My friend lives near Holland Park which is just a short walk from the Thames. So, although it sounds romantic, it is actually very practical. And yes, he made the first move – brave guy .Jennifer I have been posting on this board since last August. I notice you had read and posted on one of my October 2002 threads the other day, so I guess it would seem like my hair is growing rapidly. I wish it were so (sigh). Dave Yes, I’m looking for a new-to-me style idea. Well put. Good idea about updo and then letting it free. I would like some “structure” to the freed hair, though. Do either of these styles strike you as being particularly beautiful (subjective, I know)…? This for the formal dinner. The bun is a delicate, elegant composition and the sweeping front strand makes it softer around the face. And a little flirty too. http:// - http://www.bellaonline.com/article.asp?id=1401 - http://www.bellaonline.com/article.asp?id=1401 (takes a few secs to load) This for the latter part of the evening. I love the style on the right. That is totally me – swirls and falling strands. http:// - http://www.hair-news.com/fu3.html - http://www.hair-news.com/fu3.html Hmmmm…….could I easily change from the first to the second between dessert and coffee?…maybe a little trip to the ladies room on the night…and a lot of practice over the next few days! Thanks to you all for your suggestions and support. You are the best!!! Uzi (less nervous now )------------- Uzi |
Posted By: tina m
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 1:53am
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Uzma, so your opinions are polar opposite of him? Political differences and so forth? He might end up debating you? Ugh! If you nibble on his ear a little he won't even care was his opinions are.-( he might even forget what his opinions are, which is usually good)-.That's the advantage women have. It is really very easy for a woman to change a guy's politics or at least neutralize his opinions. Men really are so easy to manipulate.-( at least when he is with us anyway)-. Men on a certain level are all the same. Remember if his opinions become to difficult to take -( that is too wrong!)-..... .....You DO have the advantage ! .------------- tina |
Posted By: Jennifer
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 3:18am
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Uzma -- out of curiosity, since you are so vehemently opposed to cutting your hair, how did it get so short in the first place? ------------- |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 6:27am
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Tina!!!!! ROTFLOL – I’m keeping my hands (and teeth) off him during the first date!!! The only thing that will be nibbled are the hors d’ouvres .Thanks for the advice about men – I’m out of practice. Wouldn’t want to manipulate or label him, though – I have too much admiration and respect for him. I hope we can laugh together and relax with each other. A little romantic friendship would be cool right now. Cheers, Tina. Jennifer That is a long, sad story that I have already talked about in other threads. The “Un-cut Hair” and "Hair criticism hell" threads on the Announcement’s board contains some of it, and a couple of threads on this board. The details are kind of painful and this is a happy time for me, so please excuse me if I don’t care to re-visit the past, here and now. Take care Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: Jennifer
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 7:33am
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Uzma, I just skimmed those threads. Talk about a manipulating mother! It sounds like your mother has an awfully lot of unresolved issues. However, in my humble opinion, by refusing to ever trim your hair, you're going right back to that unfeminine look that you grew up despising. Part of feminine long hair is its health, and no matter how hard you try, you are guaranteed to have split ends. It's kind of like you're going to extremes, just like what was taught to you growing up. There really is a happy medium! Be well. |
Posted By: princessmonica
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 9:45am
jenifer uzma has said she doesn't have any split ends right now. more than i can say for myself i say if it isn't broken why fix it. you know what i mean? ------------- http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders - http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 10:20am
Thank you for your support, Monica  .Jennifer - my mother is growing her hair out, now. That battle is over. I also finished with my ex-partner who was anti-hair. So now I am free to grow - and grow I shall - to my hearts content. Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: Jennifer
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 10:22am
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>>>>>jenifer uzma has said she doesn't have any split ends right now. more than i can say for myself i say if it isn't broken why fix it. you know what i mean? I can't argue with what you say! However, if you'll reread my message, it is inevitable that split ends will occur during all of our lifetimes. If she never cuts her hair for the rest of her life and refuses to consider it, it is guaranteed her hair will not look as it does now. My comments were for the future, not what's happening in the present. And, of course there are always split ends that we don't see, but the healthier the hair, the more infrequent the trims need to be to keep it that way! I've heard some stylists say that 6-8 week trims are mandatory for everyone, and I completely disagree with that. |
Posted By: princessmonica
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 12:12pm
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jenifer out of curiousity how often do you trim your hair and how long is it? i go get my ends trimmed about 8 weeks. last time she trim 1/8 off. lately i've been stretching my trims to about 10 weeks. ------------- http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders - http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 12:14pm
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Jennifer - I have done my homework on split-ends and although I will do my utmost to prevent them, if/when they occur, we will all co-exist peacefully. BTW, that word....inevitably...reminds me of Agent Smith in the Matrix and his "it is the sound of inevitability, Mr Anderson".  Some concepts, and therefore beliefs I have discarded: - Inevitable - Limitation - Unconditional love - Imaginary Pink Unicorn (false-gods/idols) - Hair cutting Appreciate your advice but I am a blissfully lost cause .Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: Elissa
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 12:24pm
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Uzma, I love that hairstyle in the picture on the right hand side. Very nice. I am sure you will radiate beauty regardless of the style you choose. I wish you a wonderful, fun and comfortable date. I have spent a greater part of the last seven years going on them, and I certainly understand the myriad of feelings involved. A well-known river has also played a large part in my current romance. The mystery of the river is perfect for an after-dinner stroll. Lots of love to you--please let us know how it goes. Elissa Former Queen of the First Dates -------------  [/url]
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Posted By: Kintaro
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 1:04pm
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yay, one point for uzi ! she knows 5 important things that are nothing more than (*6th*) calf-poop. (the other important one is limitless/absolute anything) Although mentionning the IPU may re-enflame theological debates that belong on places like iidb.org :P .... where I come from, the I means Invisible thus already creating a lie in itself though. (pink != invisible except in png files and gif's that define that pink as being invisible.) ------------- I hate all of the following and lots more : Fundamentalists, racists, sexists, fascists, ageists (people saying seniors = senile , kids = stupid , 18 = immature or a combo of them), and bigots for causes yet to receive their own designation. |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 3:07pm
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Hey Elissa Thanks for being so kind and sweet. And thanks for your good wishes, O Former Queen of First Dates Can’t figure out why I am so nervous. I have played serious chess with this guy for hours, in jeans & Ts. Have sworn at his cheat-moves and peeked venom from behind wild, messy hair, without a care. Since this date thing, I’m a wreck. Hate being self-conscious like this. Must get my head together. Anyway, I think I’m going to forget the first updo and just go with that second looser style. It’s achievable and I can leave it alone for the rest of the night. The river is wonderful. It is a companion of 30 years standing and I can vouch for it being a good listener . Even if the date crashes, I will enjoy the embankment stroll.Kintaro Nor do I wish to kick-start a theo debate, but to clarify…… Imaginary: because each individual develops their own concept, either static or work-in-progress. Sometimes it has a definite form in the imaginative &/or the material world (hence I didn’t use “invisible”)– sometimes it’s just an abstract idea (the intellectuals would have you believe this is the superior model). Most times it is based on an external implant/indoctrination. If you don’t “kill” the IPU, it will be the end of you. If I have any addiction, it is to this cycle: Create IPU, forget it is your creation, live life, try matching reality of life with reality of IPU, realize IPU is faulty, remember I created it and therefore it is a manufacturing error, dis-mantle IPU. Void. Lonely here. Create IPU...... Must remember not to be so damned creative in future. As for the limitless/Absolute…..I give up. I’m totally clueless from my current vantage point in existence. Another discarded concept/belief: Threads that stay on-topic Sorry dave. Cheers to you both (& no offence intended to anyone re IPUs )Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: hairalways
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 3:37pm
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Uzma.... You don't believe in unconditional love? Come to my house and meet 4 recipients. Jacqui ------------- |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 3:56pm
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Hi Jacqui I am interpreting the word “unconditional” as indiscriminate on the part of the one who is giving unconditional love. Unconditional in respect of kinship, appearance, personality traits, dependency, desire on the part of either party, etc. Is that really the case? If I were to replace the 4 in your home with any random other 4, would these also receive it? If yes, than that would truly be unconditional. Perhaps I am mis-reading your meaning or vice versa. Sometimes “unconditional love” is interpreted as deep, over-flowing love. I trust afore-mentioned 4 are the lucky recipients of the latter.  Paging Karen Shelton!!We need a Philosophical Discussions board!!! Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: Jennifer
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 6:03pm
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>>>>>jenifer out of curiousity how often do you trim your hair and how long is it? Well, I just measured it. In the back, it's just a hair above 23 inches. Not terribly long (especially compared with many here!), but I'm generally happy with the length, though I'll let it get as long as it can before it becomes too thin on the ends. I trim the ends myself and don't really have a set timeframe for trims, but I think the last time I trimmed it was in February. It's still looking good, but probably in July (since I'll be outside a lot more and may possibly wash my hair more often) or maybe even the end of June, I'll trim a little bit. |
Posted By: tina m
Date Posted: June 04 2003 at 8:38pm
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Uzma; .....now for my wry comments on your wry comments. Inevitable-..... Death is inevitable. We will all die. -( are paying taxes inevitable?.... hmmm...)- Limitation- I am 5 ft. 1 inch tall. I am 27 yrs. old. I don't ever think I will grow to be a 6 ft. 7 inch lady basketball or volleyball player like Gabreilla Reese. _(Darn!!!)- Unconditional love- It depends how lonely or H o r n y I am! Imaginary Pink Unicorn/False Gods- .....Actually I'm a natural sceptic, I need all of the illusions and delusions I can get!!! . I sometimes am a little envious of the simple minded folk,-(idiots?)-, that can almost "mindlessly" believe in this or that religion or what have you,-( false or otherwise)-.As my mother used to sarcastically call them, "lovely peasants"!..... -( this from an impoverished, wild, sometimes crazy, sometimes superstitious, sometimes sexually promiscuous, sometimes hard drinkin, weed smokin, single mother, who was convinced that her "trashy" self was better than the rest of the "trashy" people in our neighborhood!!! .We all need a few illusions. Hair cutting- Well as you know Uzma I now wear my hair super short but I have had it super long too and in-between lengths as well. I like it all. I liked each style when I was wearing it, including now. ..... But since long haired women can be very sexy , I say knock yourself out girl growing your hair super long. I'm sure there are plenty of people out there wantin' to snuggle with and kiss a pretty long haired lass such as yourself doll !!!Oh yes... and that finally brings us to Blissfully lost cause. Most of the best writers are blissfully lost causes Uzma. Not to mention that blissfully lost causes can be a whole lot of fun sometimes!!! .I say go to it "naturegirl", be a "wild child" darling ! Oh yes..... Good luck on your HOT date, and remember if all else fails, .....the nibble on the ear Uzma!!! Women DO have that advantage, we can get always get our way and our jollies!!! -( yes we can be the boss lady, the queen of the castle, the princess of sensuality!!! Tee hee!!!)- Bye for now! Love, Tina ------------- tina |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 05 2003 at 12:03am
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Hey Tina The “Dead Concepts List” is a partial view. It has a counter-part in the “Can’t Deny This List” which includes unconsciousness+physical destruction (death), gravity, sun = hot burning orb…you get the idea. O, I totally feel your pain regards height. My date-friend is 6ft 3” which is a foot taller than me. I couldn’t gaze into his eyes unless I stood on a box or we were in semi-prone position. Bang goes the possibility of spontaneous kisses. Limitation indeed. I think mindless belief has it’s place. I have to get into that place (i.e temporarily accept certain premises) in order to finish a religious text. Can’t thoroughly critique and deeply understand a text simultaneously. Have to relate as a believer and then detach and disassociate. I went under the knife a while back. Had incredible hallucinations coming out of general anaesthesia. Likewise when I fast. And then there are sleeping dreams. They all seemed real at the time. I “see” these images and emotionally responded to them. Does that make them real? IPUs are fun, but you’re only setting yourself up for failure. Unless and until Reality unfolds, destroying “belief” by the weight of Itself, I’m keeping an open and fluid mind. Do we all need illusion?….I guess we are a mass of illusions, even facts can be revealed as illusions. Point: a canine eye can naturally percieve more colours than a human eye. So how many colours in the rainbow? As usual, it’s great kicking ideas around with you Tina  .Thanks for your encouragement and for wishing me luck on the date. I don’t think of it as a conquest, so no need to gain any advantage and no possibility of failure. Just hoping for mutual enjoyment whatever form that may take. (Will have to save the bdsm for later down the line - if there is a later .)Love and hugs to you Ciao Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: Elissa
Date Posted: June 05 2003 at 9:02am
And wouldn't our Uzi be the ideal moderator for that board? By the way, moderating is lots of fun and doesn't take a great deal of time. Elissa xoxoxoxo ------------- [/url]
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Posted By: Unregistered Guest
Date Posted: June 05 2003 at 11:25am
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A comment and a plug... First, happy dating Uzma! I am spoiled in that while I regularly date, for the last 15 years it has always been with Mrs. Happy. Takes all that first-date stress out of it. Second, that ear-nibbling thing goes both ways ladies! If I ever convince Mrs. Happy to grow her hair long again, one of two things I will miss is the opportunity to spontaneously go after her ear and neck. Especially the neck. Makes the girl melt. Hubba, hubba. ;) Finally, based on what you said about your chess games, wear your hair to please yourself, because he will not care. You are beautiful, but that isn't why he asked you out. And the half-on/half-wildly-off topic plug: I mentioned a new group on the Announcements Board on 5/31: It is "on" for philosophy, but WILDLY off for "long hair support." It is a discussion group for people who have emotional or erotic reactions to haircuts, whether their own or other people's. I expect most who read this board are extremely UNinterested, but feel free to lurk or, even better, to post there, since y'all likely have a very different perspective that I and others can learn from. A polite discussion is ensured there, as Mr. Happy has an "in" with The Moderator. As always, I remain, Mr. Happy |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 05 2003 at 12:41pm
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Elissa – Thanks for the vote of confidence (not that a Philosophy board would ever happen here) but I would be no good as a Mod as I would probably ditch neutrality and take a position. Mr Happy – Thanks for your good wishes. I will be sure to check out your website. Sounds tres interessant. Right, I’m off to practice styling my hair for tomorrow night .Bon Soir Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: princessmonica
Date Posted: June 05 2003 at 2:05pm
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the height issue. i'm 4'11 and my husband is 5'11. i don't find it a big deal that's why they made heels sometime my husband will tease me in good fun and say ''you sure are short'' i say ''you wouldn't want me any other way'' he of course agrees. he can't aurgue his brillant wife LOL. my grandfather had a good saying good things come in small packages ------------- http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders - http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders |
Posted By: SuperGrover
Date Posted: June 05 2003 at 2:55pm
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Uzi!!! You have a date tomorrow night! Yippie! *hugs* Sorry about the delayed response. We've had a huge project at work this week and I haven't had the opportunity to check the boards. As a matter of fact, I need to get back to work now, so I'm not taking the time right now to read everyone else's responses. I just read your initial post. In my opinion, I would say you should wear your hair in a French Twist for dinner. Guys love French Twists. Then, after dinner when you go for your walk, if it isn't too windy (which is a big if, I'm sure) casually reach back and pull the clip out of your hair. :) This should knock him dead. If that's what you're going for. HAVE FUN!!!! ------------- "Hair is a part of you. It is not a part of me, because I am a frog." - Kermit the Frog on Sesame Street1b/N/ii ~ ??"/27"/32" |
Posted By: SuperGrover
Date Posted: June 06 2003 at 9:28pm
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Uzi!!! How was the date? ------------- "Hair is a part of you. It is not a part of me, because I am a frog." - Kermit the Frog on Sesame Street1b/N/ii ~ ??"/27"/32" |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 12:38am
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Hey Traci Ha ha !!!! V E R Y interesting. Stirring conversation and intimate silences. A poetic roller-coaster! We both peeled a few layers off of each other and liked what we found. Well, I certainly did, and we are meeting again soon, so I hope it’s mutual. I was so engrossed in the conversation that I forgot my hair…and the ear nibbling (LOL)....and at times, myself (a good thing). No dramatic gestures with the hair tho’ Traci – this guy is wise to overt moves (will have to be subtle if/when we get into seduction mode). Didn’t wear the chiffon as it had turned windy, cold and a little wet – typical London weather, so I ended up wearing this gothic-style dress. French Restaurant was packed and noisy so we abandoned our reservations and went to a trad Japanese place. OMG – expensive but sooo good!! OK – I am on a high and had better shut up, now. Thank you – everyone – for your good wishes and good advice. You are the most wonderfully supportive forum friends. I wish I could send you each a package of love. If you were here, I would hug you to bits!!! ((((((Love to you all and have a great week-end.)))))) Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: Kintaro
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 1:07am
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+1 for Uzi : Adaptability, and just being yourself. A great night. BTW, was the japanese food any good ? Whaddya have ? ------------- I hate all of the following and lots more : Fundamentalists, racists, sexists, fascists, ageists (people saying seniors = senile , kids = stupid , 18 = immature or a combo of them), and bigots for causes yet to receive their own designation. |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 2:09am
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Hi Kintaro (kiss) The food was amazing. I mostly had sashimi, which consisted of raw mackeral, salmon, octopus (vinegared) and squid (with black sesame seeds). Also some miscellaneous roe and smelt. The wasabi wasn't really necessary as the seafood was so fresh. One day, I intend to go to a traditional ryokan on Honshu or Okinawa. Eat well and bathe in hot springs. Sigh. One day.... Arigato...sayonara...and have a fun week-end K. Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: tina m
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 9:29am
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Hi Uzma, it sounds like you had a lovely date! I would reckon a quiet, nice Japanese restaraunt might be better than a noisy, crowded French restaurant anyway, so it seems as if you and your fella made the right choice. Best wishes and keep us informed lovergirl!!! ------------- tina |
Posted By: SuperGrover
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 9:49am
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Yeah Uzma! That's fabulous! I'm glad it went so well! *hugs* ------------- "Hair is a part of you. It is not a part of me, because I am a frog." - Kermit the Frog on Sesame Street1b/N/ii ~ ??"/27"/32" |
Posted By: princessmonica
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 12:45pm
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i'm glad to hear you had a good time uzma ------------- http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders - http://www.msnusers.com/monicasanders |
Posted By: grenwich
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 2:51pm
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Hehehehehe! YaHHHHHHH! for my friend Uzi I'm so glad.....! ((((uzi)))) Gren ------------- 1bCiii between tailbone and classic (43.5inches) |
Posted By: papillon_purple
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 4:26pm
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yay! I'm glad things turned out so well!! ------------- |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 07 2003 at 4:33pm
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You guys are wonderful - thank you so much (((((Hugs, Kisses, Love)))) Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: tina m
Date Posted: June 08 2003 at 1:01pm
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Uzi goes on a date and she gets 41 posts! It's pretty clear she is popular with people on this board, isn't it! Can you imagine how many posts Uzma would get if she ever got married!!! ------------- tina |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 08 2003 at 1:13pm
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Hi Tina I think we have evolved into an e-community here. I belong to a number of non-hair forums where this has happened after about 3-6 months of the same people consistently posting and sharing their viewpoints etc. Nothing to do with popularity - I know the same support would be available for every member of this forum. And just look at the "Karen - are you MIA" thread on the Reality Shows board. Just goes to show that HB is frequented by some very caring people who understand what friendship is about, no matter how remote, recent or temporary it may be. That is truly precious. Love and hugs Uzi ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: DaveDecker
Date Posted: June 09 2003 at 8:05pm
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Uzma/Uzi, Just late (as usual?) to chime in and say basically the same as everyone else has. Glad to hear the date went well. If you ever get to Japan, be sure to visit at least one Buddhist Temple, Shinto Shrine, and Zen Rock Garden. Very peaceful places. ------------- |
Posted By: hairalways
Date Posted: June 10 2003 at 8:29am
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Sounds like an absolutely delicious date Uzi! And the sashimi sounded like it was tasty too! Any chance this guy has long hair? If I missed a description on an earlier post...sorry. Oh yeah and unconditional love....ie - love without condition. yes - my 4 receive unconditional love from me. I love them without judgement, or expectation. Regardless of what way they wear their hair, who they date, what their political or religious views are and regardless of any crime they can - or ever wil commit. So yes, I can say I love them unconditionally. Just as I love my parents and husband unconditionally. Whether or not I can love every person in the world is irrelevant...only relevance is that I can love (and be loved by)unconditionally some one - that means it does exist (for me) and I believe in it. I also believe in the illusions - since a hundred years ago, many things that were said to be illusions are now reality. Who am I to say what else may or may not be true? I keep an open mind to the possibilities. Anyway - So glad you have fun!!! Now, on to date numero duo! When, where? How bout the hair? Jacqui ------------- |
Posted By: uzma
Date Posted: June 10 2003 at 3:24pm
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Thanks Dave. Hope I get to visit Japan in the next year or so. Indeed, I will try and visit a Buddhist temple… I have this burning question that I need the right answer to: “What is the sound of one hand clapping?” LOL (an oldie, I know) Hi Jacqui Hmmm…illusions that are proved right. I can think of a few of those too. I see your point. How wonderful it must be to love people so freely and deeply – how fortunate for the giver and the recipients! My friend has short hair – not exactly a Hugh Jackman look-alike, either, but quite a hottie in his own way. Seeing him on Saturday. Don’t care about a hair-style as we were talking on the phone today and he said some magic words…..are you growing your hair?…It really suits your personality…I love long hair ..why don’t you wear it loose more often? Magic Man Love and hugs ------------- Uzi |
Posted By: grenwich
Date Posted: June 11 2003 at 11:21am
((((uzi)))) Gren ------------- 1bCiii between tailbone and classic (43.5inches) |