Ok? From a guy to girl...long hair?
Guys will always love long hair! They might not say it, but the average guy loves long hair. It's the little boy in them. For so long, they have had to find out what girls were all about. The first they see is long hair..that's a girl!
You will never get away with anything different. Guys want to know who you are...there first flance is hair. If it's long...GIRL
Girls on the other hand see long hair as the norm. It's what they all have. Girls will tell you what they want to know and what they don't. If their jeolous, they will tell you to cut it off. If they want you among their friends they will tell you what you want to hear. Don't listen to them! The outside world is cruel and they don't mean anything
So what do you do?
As a guy who loves hair...I must ask you this? Who do you want to please. Threee things!
Guys
Girls
Yourself.
Messure them in importance.
I must be a guy... since that is what I am, so I will say long hair. But how to live with it? I don't have to wash it, condition it or make it presentable. If I did...which I would happily say yes, since I love hair, your problems would be solved! A personal hair dresser!
I gather you don't have the personal hairdesser? Pity...his loss!
First...the obvious!
I can see highlights in your hair. Pictures say a thousand words and since it's so hard to get a picture perfect image of your hair...I'd say those highlights are NOT a figment of my imagination!
Keep the highlights. Next, you need some hair to frame your face. You know the hair that takes the wind and gets in your face...which probably only happens in a gust right now. That's pleasing to guys. It can hide your eyes! Make guys LOOK into those eyes. You need to be able to hide those eys in a fraction of a second for playfulness.
Shorten up those bangs. At the top go short. You know at the brows. But this is only an inch or so. Allow the bangs to get longer until they play with the rest of your long hair.
Imagine looking down. Instead of your hair staying behind your shoulders...imagine the hair actually hiding your eyes. Think of it like drapes. You look toward the ground and and your ahir vreates a drape effect over your eyes. The lower your head, the more your hair shows it's true length.
Draw back...it will be in your eyes all the time. Gain... your face will be framed making people look into your eyes. These type of bangs will look fuller and give your hair more volume.
You could leave it like that. Yet, your hair is quite straight. Straight hair is in, so you could layer it. If your hair is layered it will look as long as you have it now, but when you flip it over, your hair will be shorter. That's because it's technically shorter! But when you flip it back...all the hair layers itself and blends in to the length you have. The ends of your hair will be a gradual length all the way down to wear you want it.
It won't be a one length cut...but, it will blend in!
Good points and bad points about layered hair!
Most are good! Technically your hair is shorter...not as many split ends It looks fuller...no flatness... but when you weare it it can appear down to your waist! With those bangs..I'd say to die for.
Then, there is another side...mostly me, actually. I know this is happening. There's nothing better than a light hair fetish to tease you. I know when you wet that mane, it must be a pleasing mop! There's nothing wrong with teasing a man and showing the two feet of hair you have rinsing like a beaver pelt into the sink and waiting for all the water rinse out! Waiting and waiting?
Do they notice...of course they do! That's what makes girls and long hair go together...Most guys don't hair that long...so they wonder about these weird things!
BUt...is it a make it factor?
NO! Guys would be pleased to see you with long hair.
I'm not a hair stylist...cutting all that stufff..So now! You need to talk to the stylists on this site to understand how it should be cut in layers and the bangs.
STYLISTS CUT HAIR! They will want it to go away. They will tell you sweat nothings tell your ears bleed. But, who are they TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU WANT? Stick your ground! Tell them what you want! Not what they want!
Your hair is to die for! Don't let them kill it!
But anyway...I'm just one guy and you have all those guys who only look at...you know? But they do notice...deep down inside. As far as the other girls and what they want...attitude! Shut up!
As far as yourself? That is what's important. You have to deal with it. This takes %50 of the weight. Oops..hair pun!
But its true! You have to wear it...it's your hair.
Now, you can judge all three aspects...Girls, guys and yourself! Once you have thought about it enough...you are ready tomake a choice!
Good hair hunting!
------------- Guys like me notice!
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