Hi Serene!
Wow. Just wow. It is sad to read this story.
I have naturally very fine hair, and for me, microrings were a disaster. Total freaking disaster.
That being said, maybe if they have been applied more carefully (not DIY) by a good stylist, it would have been better. I don't know.
All I know is that the rings wouldn't stay in, they would fall off on a regular basis (and I tried different kinds, silicone coated, non silicone coated), and the worst part was that they would rip off my hair in the process. That part really pissed me off.
Now tape. Tape is one of the absolute most gentle method out there. With a tape install, your extensions don't pull the same way as with microrings, it's kinda more 'distributed'.
If you want volume, boy you can get it with tape. LOTS and LOTS of volume.
In terms of time, it's a lot faster of a method.
You can do it yourself, they are a gazillion tutorials out there on tape method. So no need to worry about finding a stylist that will charge you insane amounts.
You will save a TON with that! 
You can check out hairetensions101, there are a bunch of old installs posts from members.
Or DIYextensions.net.
By going DIY (or maybe ask a friend to help if it's too intimidating the 1st time) you get to pick your own hair too, and you'll be putting in hair that can match your own.
As for the top row, I had the same issue as you when I did microrings. They used to show.
I find that tape or LG are a lot less visible for my top row.
I have developped my own little technique, which is a tape/LG combo, for my top row, and it works like a charm.
And I do have very fine hair too. 
I'll try to link the turorial I did a while back.
So I hope this helps you a bit! Take care,
Frenchie
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