Friends Hair
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Forum Name: Hair Politics
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Printed Date: June 07 2025 at 5:00am
Topic: Friends Hair
Posted By: Susan
Subject: Friends Hair
Date Posted: January 11 2000 at 9:18pm
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My husband loves ladies hair, especially long hair. His enjoyment and lust of hair was kept a secret until recently when I suggested he admit his love for hair. Well, his coming out of the closet has made me jealous. My hair is shoulder length and he is always complimenting me. He is a great husband. BUT, I have a couple of long haired friends and now my husband is openly complimenting their hair. One of those frends was hanging out at our pool. After swimming, she and I laid out for a little sun. She had to leave, so she went inside the house to blow dry her hair and put it up. She took a long time, so I went inside and found my husband brushing my friends waist length hair. After she fixed her hair into a huge bun, my husband applied the hairspray to hold it in place. I was so mad. But when they realized I was watching them, my friend simply laughed and said my husband was such a nut (meaning he was funny) and good with hair too. So what should I do? I started all of this by telling him to admit to his hair fetish. Oh, and one other thing. He is so open he actually asks my friends can he touch their hair and then he sniffs it and tells them their hair smells good. Any suggestions?
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Posted By: LisaD
Date Posted: January 11 2000 at 9:18pm
> My husband loves ladies hair, especially long hair.> His enjoyment and lust of hair was kept a secret until> recently when I suggested he admit his love for hair.> Well, his coming out of the closet has made me> jealous. My hair is shoulder length and he is always> complimenting me. He is a great husband. BUT, I have a> couple of long haired friends and now my husband is> openly complimenting their hair. One of those frends> was hanging out at our pool. After swimming, she and I> laid out for a little sun. She had to leave, so she> went inside the house to blow dry her hair and put it> up. She took a long time, so I went inside and found> my husband brushing my friends waist length hair.> After she fixed her hair into a huge bun, my husband> applied the hairspray to hold it in place. I was so> mad. But when they realized I was watching them, my> friend simply laughed and said my husband was such a> nut (meaning he was funny) and good with hair too. So> what should I do? I started all of this by telling him> to admit to his hair fetish. Oh, and one other thing.> He is so open he actually asks my friends can he touch> their hair and then he sniffs it and tells them their> hair smells good. Any suggestions?Dear Susan,Have you told your husband that his behavior bothers you? If you want him to stop doing things that hurt you, you have to honest with him about your feelings, otherwise he will not know that what he is doing is affecting you this way. I suggest you talk to him right away. Tell him what you said in your message, but include how it makes you feel. Maybe this seems difficult, but sometimes you have to confront an issue no matter how hard it is to do so, in order to protect yourself and keep a problem from spiraling into a huge issue. He may have a long hair fetish, but there is no reason why he would not have the ability to stop asking your friends to touch their hair, and if he claims that he can't stop himself, well, then it is up to you what you do from there.Hope this helps!Lisa :-)
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Lisa
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