Cut & Perm?
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Printed Date: June 04 2025 at 11:55pm
Topic: Cut & Perm?
Posted By: Unregistered Guest
Subject: Cut & Perm?
Date Posted: June 18 2002 at 6:20am
Hi, my name is Anna, I`m 37 years old and live in Southern England. I have reasonably long hair that reaches my bra strap.
My Great Gran is not a fan of long hair and as a result has been nagging me for years to have my hair cut short and permed. Her view is that now I`m a married adult woman, I should lose the "little girl" long hair and adopt a more mature short & curly style.
Although her nagging has always been in fun and she has never been nasty or put me under pressure, about 10 years ago I conceeded that one day she might get her wish and I promised that if she reached a 100 years old, I would attend her birthday party looking very respectable with short curly hair.
Unfortunately, due to poor health, it looks highly unlikely that we will be throwing that birthday party and I`m now in a quandry. We are travelling to London to visit my Great Gran at the weekend to celebrate her 98th birthday and I`m wondering if it might be nice if I had my hair done. My "Nana" has been the most wonderful person in the world to me and I would love to bring a great big smile to her face by presenting myself to her with as she`d describe "a neat little head of short curly hair". Although it would have been really scary, I would have kept my promise and done it for her 100th, but should I do it for her 98th?
I have spoken to my husband and although he thinks the style that I would go for is very conservative and would probably make me look a little plain, he says that he supports me in what I want to do. I am 98% sure that I should do it, but would really appreciate peoples comments on what I should do and what the experience is likely to be for me as I`ve never had my hair cut short or had it curly.
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Posted By: loveshorthair
Date Posted: June 18 2002 at 11:51am
Wow - that is a quandry! Here are my thoughts.
Doing it would be a great gesture of your love and respect for her and hair does grow back....
If you are unsure, how about just a short cut and skip the perm. I`m sure your Great Gran would see the cut as a wonderful show of your love and probably not worry about the perm part. You could tell her that if she sticks around you will get a perm later (next year...?) Of course the later depends on how she would receive that statement (depends on the person and family...)
While I don`t understand it fully, I do know that people become very attached to their hair and losing it might seem like losing a limb. Again, hair does grow back and the smile you probably will get will make you and your Great Gran very happy.
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