I have chatted with numerous people on this board Jennifer since I have started writing here. You are the only one I have had a problem with. I've enjoyed my chats on Hair Talk.
I still think Hairguy had a right to delete you. Refering to short haired women as not looking "female" isn't necessary to make your point that you like long hair better on women, and this IS a short haired board. And then you continue to argue with us and call Hairguy oversensitive, which I don't think is true. Many of us short haired ladies ARE very feminine.
Use your common sense, don't go on a board where people who like short hair on women post, and then insult them by insinuating they don't look feminine! That's not necessary. Of course people would take offense to that just as they would if someone went on the long hair board and said that short haired women look feminine but longer haired women don't, or they found some other reason to insult long haired women.
The purpose of the Short Hair board is for people to enjoy and discuss Short hairstyles, obviously. On the long hair board they enjoy Long hairstyles. That's why I don't go over to that board and insinuate directly or indirectly that they should cut their hair to look better. They know I have short hair but I don't try to make them feel bad or make them change their opinion about long hair. Obviously they WANT to have long hair and enjoy talking about long hairstyles, so I try and be sensitive to that.
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I'm not speaking about the number of posts -- the date of when you registered for the forums. It looks like you've been registered for only a few months, but perhaps you were lurking before that.
A piece of advice, however -- I'd be a little more cautious with the trigger finger on censorship. My words were sincere and not intended to offend, but you removed my words, so no one can see what I wrote. I did not "trash" short hair. Those who wish to find offense in life will probably find it wherever they wish.
jennifer, I deleted what you wrote so the poor girl who started this thread would not think that if she got that style she would look like a boy! its maybe be censorship, but im damn proud that i stopped you before you could damage this board any further, this is ridiculous. You seem to be one of those people that always has to argue with some one about something, be it wash and wear hair or breat implants, its all the same. Please just leave this board alone and let us be...
I give up. Thankfully Hairguy is monitoring this board. We are suppose to ENJOY short hairstyles here not slam them as being unfeminine, that defeats the whole purpose of the board, which is to discuss and enjoy various short hairstyles.
I noticed Dave Decker over on the long hair board deleted a couple of posts by a guy who was doing with the long haired board what you are doing with this board Jennifer.
Good for Dave and good for Hairguy.
Eventually no one would post on either board if people kept writing in insulting either short or long hair.
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