what is going on with the top

I have been doing what you guys have said to do and man do I have waves but I seen to have two problems the first problem is I get my hair cut every month and I just got it cut 3 weeks ago and I have waves on my sides and back but my front seems to have a problem because at the front of the top of my hair I have waves but as I go back I have none whats the problem? should I let my hair grow  longer befor geting it cut I dont know?

The second problem is I see alot of you peoples photos and I see your waves and it looks to me As if you guys are doing somthing I am not because my waves look dont look as good as you guys its really deep how do you get it like that? do I need more time I just started geting waves about a month and 3 weeks ago 

1st problem - U may need 2 focus more on that area fam and let your hair grow for as long as possible. Eventually it will start 2 wave. If that doesnt work, use a little activator.

2nd problem - We are all doing the same thing fam. Using wateva products and brushing non-stop. The only problem u may have is not spending enough time brushing. If thats the case start brushing longer. I brush for 3hrs str8 sometimes. Let ur hair grow longer. The longer it is, the deeper they will come. Ma bad for the essay!

do any of u guys relax ur hair? lilke w/ scurl or anything? same way u do a jury curl

right just be patient and keep doing what you are doing. continue to work on the top