QuoteReplyTopic: Anyone with Long Hair Posted: June 01 2012 at 6:17am
I am a newbie here. I will be 51 this October and have nearly waist length hair. I have some silver coming in at my temples and have recently decided to let it grow and see just how long it will get. It's been just over two years since my last hair cut. For the life of me I can't understand this mindset that so many people seem to have about a "woman of a certain age" having long hair. If you like it, take care of it and it is healthy then let it grow! It has to be well maintaned tho. Get it trimmed when the ends are split and use some conditioner.
If you over 40 and have long hair, bravo! I think a woman with long hair is a beautiful thing!
You go girl grow that hair. I,m not that age but my aunt is and she doesn't let age stop her from having her long her she always teases me saying dont think i dont got it too lol.
i'm all for growing your hair. yes there may be special care you have to give it etc. but the joy of having long hair is simply amazing.
Definately I cant wait to see a picture. Im glad scrunching went well and imsooo glad u have a great styling schedule :) what hairstyle sight are u talking about?
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Scrunching went fine. I kind of have those S-waves in my hair so the oil and scrunching work well. I generally wear it different every day. My usual pattern is I wash it every other night. I'll usually wear it down the next day and up the day after in one fashion or another. I haven't used any heat on it for years. I'm trying to get a picture posted but am having problems. I think the file is too big. Anyway, when I get it figured out, I'll put it on the long hair site. That's usually where I hang out. And I see you go there too.
Thanks I do think I can do those by myself. I mean at first I will need someone to do them but ill get the hang of it and by the end ill prob be able to do all of them but the braids by myself :) That is unless someone wants to. I can understand where it would pull if it was too tight :( That oil sounds nice I will have to try it. How did the srunching go? how do u usually where ur hair?
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Sounds great Pburgh56! Do you think you can do those styles by yourself? Going to learn? Or have someone do them for you? I have thick hair and I have to be careful about putting it up. I do wear it up a lot but I try to find styles that don't pull or I end up with a headache all day! Something I've just gotten into recently is putting jojoba oil on my hair. I've read about it on this forum. Some people like it, some don't. Seems to work great for me. I'll use more on the weekend and put my hair up. But even during the week, I try to scrunch a little in.
I honestly think u should go natural :) Ilove love the idea of long gray hair. I think it looks beautiful and more women should try it out :) Idef think yours will look beautiful :) As for my styles I want to try half up and half down, high ponytail,low ponytail, french braid, rope braid, messy bun, tightbun, down, curled, straigthened, pigtails? Whatdo u think?
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What styles are you interested in? So, just curious, what do you think of long gray hair? Fortunately, I don't really have much yet but I still can't bite the bullet with that. Honestly, I've seen some gray hair that looks nice and some that doesn't. My husband thinks mine will look nice. I guess when it gets gray enough and I get tired of the expense and time of coloring, I'll think about going natural!!
Awww thanks for all your support :) I did not cut my hair since January and it is just now close to collar length even tho it sort of resembles a mullett in the back so ill have to trim it up. Its gettng there and i love the shagginess and i feel like ireally do have long hair now :) I heard some girls say that they get jealous of guys having nicer hair and eyelashes and that before but im sure urs looks great. I really hope I can get it to lower back it would be sooo great :) I want to do soo many styles with it. Do u want to hear what the styles are?
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I think that's great! How long did it take to go from a buzz cut to collar length? When you look at it every day, it can seem excruciatingly slow. I'm pretty lucky with thick s-wave hair but I have to admit I sometimes get jealous when I see a guy with nicer hair!! My husband has beautiful eyelashes that just naturally curl. Not me. Mine are long but stickstraight and I curl them. LOL!
Awww thanks for the good luck words. I am sooo glad u like long hair on guys. I love the feel of it and think more guys should try it out actually. I love the styles u listed and i def want to try alot of them if not all of them esp the ponytails, braids,and jaw clip. I def think u should grow it longer. It would look great I know it :) Ill share with u my goal. I started with a buzz and now its shaggy about collar length. My goal is to go to shoulder length then mid back. Then after that I want to go to lower back to im thinking. What do u think about me growing it that long? Thanks.
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Thanks Pburgh56! Some favorite styles: French & English braids, ponytails, front up with back down, all up in a jaw clip, etc. It's been around this same length for a few years now but I am actually thinking of growing it longer. Thanks for the encouraging words and good luck on your hair journey. I've always liked long hair on guys.
Hi Kitty Kat that is great and Im sure u look great with bra strap great hair. There is soo much to do with long hair and ur never to old to grow it long. Go for mid back length or longer even lower back or waist :) What are ur favorite styles to use?
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Yay for all of us! I'm 47 and have bra-strap length hair. I intend to keep it until, if ever, I get tired of it. I feel funny every once in awhile but as soon as I have those thoughts, I put it out of my mind. "They" say you shouldn't have long hair after 40. Who the heck are "they" anyway?? I get tired of makeover shows cutting everyone's hair. Most of the time, I think they looked better with it long. I can do a million things with it or nothing. It's so much easier than a short layered style that has to be dried and curled. And, I like it!
I just wanted to say I love your responses here, I am a younger guy growing my hair out long and I love how women arent giving in to pressure anymore and cutting there hair as they get a little older. I have to say I love the look of a woman in her 40s or 50s still sporting the long locks with some of those gray strands. It looks great :) Keep it up! Whats everyones goal lengths?
i'm so happy to read this remark.i have quite long hair which i wear in a plait mostly.my relos don't like it and think i should get it cut now i'm going to tell them politely but firmly to take a hike.
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I'm a 50 something with past waist length hair. I love it and have no intention of changing it. I don't care who thinks it's "suits" me or not. I like it. I don't see any need to cut it due to my age.
Sorry, folks, I surrendered and had my hair cut short again today. I really admire "senior" women with long hair, but below shoulders just didn't suit me. Above shoulders was hard work as my hair tends to flick out. I liked it when it was behaving itself, but had trouble keeping it under control. Long haired ladies...I am still with you in spirit.
Now I am back to the short layers that I spent years growing out! The surprising thing is that it doesn't look any whiter. I thought it would, but the white is still mainly at the front and over the ears. I'm not sure how I feel about that as part of me is looking forward to a head of pure white hair.
I've now decided that a couple of major traumatic events 14 years and 5 years ago shocked some hair follicles into growing white. Things seem to have slowed right down now and in some lights I still look like a brunette. Eerie!
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