My Boyfriend Hates My Hair

Tarheelgal, I`ve been thinking of you these past few days. It`s interesting how the post started with
you saying your boyfriend dislikes your cut, then the conversation shifting to what haircut you should
now get. Just two pieces of advice: first, as you clearly stated you would not be comfortable staying
the same forever, gently make that very clear to him, so there are no misunderstandings about your
relationship for him. Secondly, when you want a change, while you`ll make, I`m sure, the final decision,
discuss it with him. Was the assymetric bob a surprise?

P.S. does anyone know if there is a picture of this kind of assymetric bob in the gallery? I`d love to see
it.

So, has anything new happened?

Thanks for the style suggestions "Riddler" and "loveshort&blonde"! Of those styles, I like 29 and 27 the best. Do neither of you like style 4664? Do you think it`s too short?
Riddler, unfortunately, I don`t think my boyfriend really considers himself lucky. He prefers the girl-nex-door type and I`m sure that he would have been thrilled if I had kept my hair at shoulder blade length (or longer) for the next 30 years! I just couldn`t stand that - I want to experience some different styles!

2 questions:

-how would you feel in a 1-length bob?

-When your hair was long, shoulder length whatever, did you wear it straight or "big" - just
curious what it looked like? Was it done in a mall poof?

I agree with your boyfriend. You`ve made a huge mistake. Long hair rocks.

Hi,


Hi,

Yes, with any type of short haircut, wearing more make-up and thinning your eyebrows will make your overall look more feminine. With your petiteness and small feautures, you would probably look good in about any short style. Which style does your boyfriend prefer? He should considered himself lucky, I always seem to end up with unadventurous `girl next door` looking girls. Here are some some short styles for you to browse, any to your liking? Shoot me an email if you have further questions, ideas, etc. My email is
mws4648@hotmail.com .



http://www.greatestlook.com/shorthairstyles13/20.html
http://www.greatestlook.com/shorthairstyles13/15.html
http://www.greatestlook.com/shorthairstyles15/20.html
http://www.greatestlook.com/shorthairstyles27/11.html
http://www.greatestlook.com/shorthairstyles29/19.html

I think you should go with 5030. The style is trendy and with that style it presents the option to go shorter. Plus, you might not want to go really short at once just to make sure your hair behaves when short. If you want an edge you could pierce your ears a couple more times now that you`ll be showing them off. What is your face shape, would you have a pic to post Good luck with whatever your decision is.

Thanks for the suggestions! Of those, I like 3298 and 5030 the best. However, a perfect example of the style I`m considering is 4664 - I really like that cut, though I don`t know that I`ll have the nerve to go that short! Another one I like is 4276 - but I wouldn`t want the top to be that long. Of those two, which do you prefer?

I hope I didn`t offend anyone by saying that I wondered if I would be mistaken for a lesbian if I had my hair buzzed. Unfortunately, it seems to be that way here in the south - where big hair rules! I can`t really say anything, though, because I`ve had big hair too. I had it all through high school and college until my recent change. It`s relatively rare here to see many young women my age (25)with a trendy, short hairstyle (I mean really short). I haven`t traveled much - I would be interested in seeing how other parts of the country are, hairstyle wise. Maybe I could start a trend here in NC! :o)

I can`t really think of anything that`s similar enough to the style I have now. The more I think about it, the more receptive I am to the idea of getting it cut short all over. One of the reasons I went from long hair to the asymmetrical bob was to get a feel for short hair, since I haven`t had short hair since grade school. I`ve seen one cut I`d like to try if I can get up my nerve. It was in a hairstyle magazine - the model`s hair was buzzed on the sides (not so close that you could see the scalp) part of the way up - the rest was razor cut to blend with the top, which was short and spikey. I think it would be neat to have a cut like that - especially with summer coming up. I think I could pull it off - it looked great on the model. My only concern is that I`m afraid a lot of people would think I was a lesbian. Any thoughts/suggestions?