PLZ HELP ME !!~

you said your hair was coarse and dry. A deep conditioner would help with that. I found this recipe on another site that you may want to try.
Make If You've Got: Dry, frizzy or damaged hair

You'll Need:
1 teaspoon honey
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 egg

Make It: Crack the egg into a bowl, add the honey and mix with a whisk (or electric beaters) until well blended, about 15 seconds. Add the olive oil and blend for another 15 seconds. Shampoo and condition as you normally do, then apply your homemade mixture all over your hair. Massage it into your scalp for a few minutes. Let the mixture sit on your hair a total of 5 minutes. When time's up, rinse it out well with warm water. You can repeat this treatment once a week to restore moisture and life to dry hair.

Or you could just go out and by a deep conditioner.

im planning to grow it long .. sumthin like beckham use 2 hav last time . its already reaching that lenght but the texture juz sux real bad . its too crazy . i wudnt wanna iron it coz im travelling alot . does chemicall straightening cause lotsa damage ?

hi .. im a male . i used 2 hav straight soft hair as a kid . but as i reached 14-15 . it started becoming coarse . it tends to get all rough like dried grass . so i alwiz kept it short .

now im tryin 2 keep it long (not very long yet) . and its juz all crazy . it has like big curls all over and looks real big . im not sure what i should do about it ... without damaging it that is ~