To all men that happen to wish a long hair woman in thier life

I loved your message because it shows you were honest with your thoughts before marriage and she agreed. Not more to add.So David is there any long hair lawyers working for you?Thank you very much for your posting. I guess my idea of marketing a long hair contract is out the door .( just kidding about marketing)Its sad that not everyone understand the concept that communications is the best policy and being sincere and discussing important isssue and passionate one are extremely important to a relationship.>Dear Diane,> I am married to a a woman with Long Blong Hair. Her> name is "Beeper" aka Sharon. We have a> written contract, signed before we married, that says> that she will never get her hair cut, and that I buy> all the supplies to maintain it.> My wife is well aware I regard short-haired women as> subhuman. I do not hire them to work at my law firm> and in general, I avoid doing business with them. I> believe as I have a basic right to choose my> associates, and I exercise it in accordance with my> tastes and preferences. I married Beeper, for among> other reasons, she does the world's best french twist.> DAVID

> Okay now that I got everyone attention I want to say> something. If long hair is so important to you please> tell your girlfriend etc before getting married. I am> going to add some humor here. There is such a thing as> a marriage contract then maybe there should be a long> hair contract that says that the long hair woman> doesn't cut her hair after marriage.> I feel so sorry for all those men that email me> wishing that their wives would have long hair and they> are ignored wihen they ask. I feel very sorry for> those men who are devastated because their long hair> woman cut their hair after marriage.> This concept that if someone loves you no matter what> is a concept that only belongs in a dream land because> when we treasure something about someone that we love> and they change it , it only creates friction in the> relationship.> So many of you ask me why don't women understand your> passion for long hair? I don't know. Maybe this> posting will save some or maybe it won't. I wish that> many women would understand . Stop being so silent and> tell what is on your mind as women need to hear it.> I get so frustrated at time on this topic because I> often hear me me me thing and nothing about keeping> someone happy.> I bet I will have some negative messages. But I am> asking long hair men to speak their mind as it seems> that many women need to really understand this need.Dear Diane,I am married to a a woman with Long Blong Hair. Her name is "Beeper" aka Sharon. We have a written contract, signed before we married, that says that she will never get her hair cut, and that I buy all the supplies to maintain it.My wife is well aware I regard short-haired women as subhuman. I do not hire them to work at my law firm and in general, I avoid doing business with them. I believe as I have a basic right to choose my associates, and I exercise it in accordance with my tastes and preferences. I married Beeper, for among other reasons, she does the world's best french twist.DAVID

I hear you Diane and I agree with what you have said.> I feel very sorry for those men who are devastated because their long hair> woman cut their hair after marriage.Some time ago on Hair Talk, someone spoke of a magazine article which statedthat some women will cut their long hair shortly after getting married.At best, doing this is somewhat disingenuous. How would she expect herhusband to feel? Pleased that she lured his interest under false pretenses?It speaks poorly of how we treat others we supposedly care for (love) whenwhat we do says "I don't care what you like." This attitude presumes thatour spouses will continue to love us with their full might no matter howbadly we treat them, just because "we took sacred vows on our wedding dayto 'love, honor and cherish' 'til death do us part." Let's be real.Making marked changes to one's self and one's behavior after a weddingis dishonest to the other. Is it any wonder where the expression "TheHoneymoon's Over" came from? Some people assume that just because they'vebagged a spouse, they can kick their feet up, relax, take it easy, andthey're spouse is going to love them just as much as they did when theywere being courted. These people are deluding themselves and are destinedfor divorce or unhappily married lives.Sorry to have soapboxed so vehemently.Dave