Please help ... (long, sorry)

I'm thinking of doing something drastic to my hair and if I do I am definitely going to get Loreal Nature's Therapy Mega Moisture. I've read some great things about it.

A good moisturizing shampoo and conditioner might work. Also trying a new washing routine might help. I don't know a lot about all the different ways to wash and condition but I know others around here do. I just shampoo my hair every 2 days and condition every day. 

Yep, mine too, when I was about 11.  I had long blonde shiny ringlets up to then, but puberty made my hair greasy, frizzy and thick.  It has actually stopped now though from dying it (I'm 17 now)!  Now it's glossy and straight because it is weighted down with hair treatments and is taken care of a lot better, despite the chemical damage.

However, it is the first time your daughter has had permanent dye on her hair, and it may also be because it is a shock to her hair...but there are plenty of products to condition the hair and weigh it down. Intensive conditioning masks are great for putting that moisture back into the hair.  Personally when I first dyed mine at the age of 13 it looked incredibly shiny and glossy...but everyone's hair's different.

Before you start panicing and chopping more hair off or putting dyes on etc...just treat the hair with care, use a shampoo for frizzy hair, maybe try frizz-ease or something...it might just be because you're daughter's changing. 

I am so glad I found this forum.  I really need some help from experts.  My 10 year old daughter wanted to have blond chunks in her hair about 1 year or so ago, so I put some in.  They were starting to grow out after 5- 6 touch-ups and she decided she wanted her natural color back (dark brown).  I tried dying with a perm hair dye and it wouldn't take.  So I used a protein filler.  1st time didn't work, the 2nd time did.  But now her hair is CRAZY frizzy.  It has NEVER looked this awful before.   She is in tears ALL the time.  We tried to grow it out, it looked terrible.  She got it cut now she says she looks like a mushroom.  I don't know what to do.  The lady at the beauty supply store I go to says that is it normal for girls' hair to change around this age.  And offered no other advice.  But this is beyond drastic.  I was thinking it was the protein filler, but reading some of the other posts, was it all that hair dye?  Any info, advice would be SO greatly appreciated.  Thank you.