QuoteReplyTopic: I miss my hair Posted: August 27 2006 at 9:36am
Thanks SpecialKitty and Dave.
The hip replacement itself went well, however, I developed a couple complications post-surgery that are slowing me down a bit. So resuming "real life" will take a bit longer, but maybe that's not so bad.
As for the hair... I still need to have a well-trusted friend who knows how to trim hair come and even out the back. I'm procrastinating because I don't see the back and I don't want scissors near my hair again!
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Sedorna, so sorry to hear you're missing your hair. It would be great, though, to "start fresh" and grow healthy new hair! Post pics when you get a chance, and show us some update lengths at various intervals. I'm not all that long either, so we can all grow long together!
Amazing Grace - How are you feeling? Glad to hear you're out of the hospital now. Your hair will grow nicely now that you're out. Take good care
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I just spent a month in the hospital and somewhere in the middle of all that, I had my husband cut nine inches off the back because it just was in the way and creating problems and I couldn't comb it properly.
So I went from BSL to not even long enough for a ponytail. It does look cute, but "cute" isn't me, so I intend to start re-growing immediately.
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Your story about cutting off your long hair during the heat reminded me of a Miss Universe contestant -- an Asian woman with waistlength hair -- cutting off her long hair because of the heat in Las Vegas or wherever the TV program was being recorded that year. Needless to say, she didn't win.
Embrace your short hair but also enjoy the experience of experimenting with new styles as it grows out. My hair was worn in a ultra short pixie earlier in the year but is now commencing to show signs of growth providing further incentive to reach its former glory of waist length. Above all welcome to the message board.
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Well, I guess I can offer my consolation along with everyone else. And like it's been said, just work with what you have and take good care of it until it grows out. I find every time I begin cutting on my hair, I regret it afterwards. So, now, I just leave it alone (or am trying to!). So just hang in there! I'm sure your hair looks great!
*It also sounds like you need to stay out of the heat....if it made you chop off your hair, no telling what you will do next! Just kidding!!!
Edited by horselover_1625 - August 06 2006 at 11:54am
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I'm sorry to hear you aren't happy now. If it's any consolation, many, if not all, of us have "been there" before. My hair was mega-short years ago, but just look at me now. You'll get it back by letting it come back and taking good care of what grows.
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Sorry, Sedorna! I've always thought of a summer haircut to beat the heat as effective as putting a bandaid on a gaping wound. The hair is gone, but the heat remains. Esp. , these guys who shave their heads, and now have a waterfall of sweat running down their faces, which their hair used to absorb! When I had lots of hair in summers past, I enjoyed the feel of the freshly washed hair on my neck.
Well, your hair *will* grow, and you will be much wiser next time! Plus, I'm sure it looks fine, and you can enjoy some of the fun styles you haven't had in a while as it grows. (No perms, tho'! lol) Happy growing! Bob
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YEP!! But on a serious note this forum has made a good difference on my hair and Im sure it will do the same 4 her (or maybe this forum has magic affects J/K)(I don't believe in magic)
On the positive note you get a fresh slate to grow your hair out healthier than before. The only thing I messed up on when I cut my hair is that I caught up in the process of trying to dye, fry and flat iron my hair to get it to look good short and that's what the salons want you to do so you come in for more trims. Just don't fall into that trap and your hair should grow out nicely.
take some photos! i've chopped mine a couple times, and it was always
good incentive to grow it longer and healthier than the time before..
until i mess with chemical dyes like hairjunkie lol. my biggest problem
with very short hair was that i could not pull it back. it's a good
feeling and keeps it out of the way. good luck with the growing
process
Sugarcube, are you saying that visiting the forum will make our hair grow faster? lol
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you could do extensions yourself in the mean time. they have clip in ones that wont damage your hair if your afraid of that. I have extensions for yrs. i chopped all mine off and put them in grew it all back and took them out : ) of course i was dumb and played with the bleach again so no yup..back to hair extensions lol
I'm addicted..to hair extensions wheeee
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And, to be honest, it does look nice. If I saw my hair on somebody else, I'd think, "Gee, that's nice".
QUOTE=Sedorna]
If you think your hair looks nice then savor the moment. Make intermediate goals like 1st pony/bun or shoulders,etc. In the meantime stay stress-free,eat a balanced diet, wear hair up a lot, wash infequently, and visit this board a lot. In no time your hair will be back to its crowning glory.
I'm sorry to hear you miss your hair. I've been there, just in
June of 2003, and I felt the same way. The best thing to do is
try to enjoy it the way it is now, do things with it that you can do
with short hair that you know you won't be able to do when its long
again, and try not to focus on what you wish it was. It helps the
time go by while you wait for it to grow.
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I did a very silly thing. A week or two ago, in the middle of a heat
wave, I decided to chop off all my hair, thinking it would look cute.
And, to be honest, it does look nice. If I saw my hair on somebody
else, I'd think, "Gee, that's nice". But...I miss it! It doesn't feel
right. I miss the length, I miss the *feel* of it most of all. I
miss taking it out of the style du'jour and having it fall down upon my
bare back (usually before bed or shower or whatnot). I misss seeing it
blow around when I'm driving it the car. I miss singing, off key, to
the musical "Hair" and thinking, "that's me!" Why didn't I tell myself,
"it's summer. It's hot. It'll be hot no matter what the length of your
hair is. Don't cut it into two inch layers because of the
freaking weather!"
But I didn't, and now I miss it. It was so much easier than short hair.
I could shower in the evening and simply braid it during the day when
it was long, giving me extra sleeping minutes.
Well, I'll just have to grow it out. I *will* have a waist-length braid someday!
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