Well at the time, I had never worn a sew in weave before. That’s why I was asking her about it to try to get some feedback. I ended up having to go all the way to Boston to find people that were more knowledgable and not so dismissive of sew ins on caucasian hair.
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I had a similar experience that bugged the b-jesus out of me. I was actually face to face with a stylist in a salon and I asked her about weaves and sew ins. To be exact, the terminology I used was weave. She rolled her eyes at me and said, "You dont want that. It wont work on a white person's hair and its totally ghetto."
Well besides being a racist twit, she was totally WRONG!! lol
OMG! What an idiot --- at least you knew better, eh, Krimsa?!
Oh Diva, I can't believe that ridiculous man! Honestly,
that is scary and I think what's scarier, is that you know there are
plenty more out there like him! Ugggh.
Ridiculous is the perfect
word.. Yeah I know.. PLENTY more like him out there.. **sigh**
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Thanks fakeizme! I was thinking that myself. I am
expecting it to hurt a little but not be excruciating!
With the
right stylist, you'll be fine.. I would have a LONG discussion with her
on what you can expect, how she braids, etc.. A good stylist
understands that she should not have to tug and pull on your hair to
achieve a good result.. Also talk to her about braid reinforcement..
Silky hair textures have a little more slip to 'em and the braids will
need some reinforcement to help counteract the slip.. Good luck girl,
and definitely post pics..
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I had a similar experience that bugged the b-jesus out of me. I was actually face to face with a stylist in a salon and I asked her about weaves and sew ins. To be exact, the terminology I used was weave. She rolled her eyes at me and said, "You dont want that. It wont work on a white person's hair and its totally ghetto."
Well besides being a racist twit, she was totally WRONG!! lol
What a dummy!!
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I had a similar experience that bugged the b-jesus out of me. I was actually face to face with a stylist in a salon and I asked her about weaves and sew ins. To be exact, the terminology I used was weave. She rolled her eyes at me and said, "You dont want that. It wont work on a white person's hair and its totally ghetto."
Well besides being a racist twit, she was totally WRONG!! lol
Thanks fakeizme! I was thinking that myself. I am expecting it to hurt a little but not be excruciating!
Yea, skybrie, My hair is a little longer now than in the pic... so I have the same issue. Hopefully with a little layering it will all blend nicely though.
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Oh Diva, I can't believe that ridiculous man! Honestly, that is scary and I think what's scarier, is that you know there are plenty more out there like him! Ugggh.
8.08: I am so glad you found someone you trust and are going to try sew-ins! You may want to take an Ibuprofen before and after you get it OR just one after. If you expect SOME discomfort, I think you'll be OK. I bet it will look great and the hair sounds awesome. Good luck!
Love clip-ins and tape!
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Its good that she let you feel the fusion bond. The problem I had is that my hair was between my chin and shoulder, so to get length and volume (without a mullett look) I used 250+ strands. I swear almost every hair on my head had a bond in it - there were just so many - but it was the only way to make the mullett look go away
Hiya 8.08. I just replied to your private. It helps that I saw your hair from this thread. I gave you a couple ideas on places to go. I have been to both. It appears that our hair types are similar yet I probably have just a wee bit more and a little more length now since Ive been wearing a sew in for a year in July.
Oh my goodness Divavocals. That's so absurd! I would have been very insulted as well.
Girl I laugh about it now.. At the time what I found incredible was how much this man TRULY didn't think he was being insulting.. He kep telling me over and over that I didn't (are you ready for this??) SOUND black!!! He TRULY couldn't understand why I wasn't speaking in non stop ebonics.. He thought I was some sort of abberant person.. So when I asked him if he would prefer if I spoke in Ebonics when dealing with him, he FINALLY got it and shut the hell up..
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My consulation went great! The (white *gasp*) hair stylist was very nice and informative. She had fusion in her own hair and let me feel them. She put one in my hair too so I can get a better idea in case I want her to do them in the future. I am happy with my decision to do sew-ins for now. I don't like how the fusion feels in my hair... although I may find it better than sew-in, we'll see.
So, she color-matched my hair. And is ordering me some 22" straight strawberry blonde. It was $250 for the hair. I *think* she said the hair is "Hair Concepts"? I forget the brand but I know she said it was real human hair. And she thinks I will be good with 4-5 rows. She's charging me $50/row. How does that sound??
I am SO excited to get them in. I have to wait until next Thursday. But you better believe I will be posting some pics when it's done.
It sounds good to me.. If you are comfortable with the stylist, I say go for it!!!
Edited by Divavocals - May 22 2008 at 10:21pm
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Oh my goodness Divavocals. That's so absurd! I would have been very insulted as well.
My consulation went great! The (white *gasp*) hair stylist was very nice and informative. She had fusion in her own hair and let me feel them. She put one in my hair too so I can get a better idea in case I want her to do them in the future. I am happy with my decision to do sew-ins for now. I don't like how the fusion feels in my hair... although I may find it better than sew-in, we'll see.
So, she color-matched my hair. And is ordering me some 22" straight strawberry blonde. It was $250 for the hair. I *think* she said the hair is "Hair Concepts"? I forget the brand but I know she said it was real human hair. And she thinks I will be good with 4-5 rows. She's charging me $50/row. How does that sound??
I am SO excited to get them in. I have to wait until next Thursday. But you better believe I will be posting some pics when it's done.
I called all aroundmy state looking for sometine to do this for me. One girl even said to me, "that is something they normally do for african americans." Um, lady. We're on the phone. How do you know I'm not black? Because I'm not speaking in ebonics? What a fool.
Good for you girl!!!!
[off topic]This reminds me of a work incident I experienced many years ago.. I once had a co-worker (who worked in a remote office) cop a 'tude with one of my other co-workers and me over a similar incident because we never "told him" that I was black.. He "found out" when he came to our office for a meeting.. He was ANGRY that we never told him even after he had "made it clear" that he thought I was white.. (he often stated to both of us how he couldn't tell us apart on the phone -- Kathy was white) If I wasn't so insulted I would have laughed at how STUPID he sounded.. I do laugh now at how stupid his reaction to the "news" was..[/off topic]
Anyway.. I just wanted to say right on to you and I hope your consultation goes well.. Keep us posted
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I called all aroundmy state looking for sometine to do this for me. One girl even said to me, "that is something they normally do for african americans." Um, lady. We're on the phone. How do you know I'm not black? Because I'm not speaking in ebonics? What a fool.
So, I ended up finding a women in my city who does them. I have an appt for a consult today. I will let you all knwo how it goes!
Thanks for the input!
Good point! Scary that she would make those assumptions and great that you caught on to that. Not sure why more 'caucasian' salons don't do sew-ins; it's not like fusion and micro links are much better for hair! Can't wait to hear how your consult goes; good luck.
I called all aroundmy state looking for sometine to do this for me. One girl even said to me, "that is something they normally do for african americans." Um, lady. We're on the phone. How do you know I'm not black? Because I'm not speaking in ebonics? What a fool.
So, I ended up finding a women in my city who does them. I have an appt for a consult today. I will let you all knwo how it goes!
You don't need to get attachments for an updo. Most beauty supplies have all kinds of curls that are on one piece, you put your own hair in a ponytail and clip on the hair piece. The actual name of this type of piece is postiche. They also come in long ponytails, called a switch for a smooth updo.
If you're thinking of something more permanent do it at least a few weeks before the wedding. You don't want to get stuck with something you hate for your honeymoon. The hair not the husband.
I hope it will be the happiest day of your life!
I agree.. I wore a really nice phony pony that my girilfriend/stylist turned into a beautiful updo style for my wedding..
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A sew-in is a good idea. Just make sure they do not braid your hair too tight unless they are using some other method to make tracks. It shouldn't hurt TOO much, but you will feel some discomfort. Also, if they add synthetic hair to yours to make a braid, watch for any allergic reaction. Some people start itching and never stop! Also, make sure they don't braid too close to your perimeter/hairline -- don't want the braids to show! Hopefully, someone can give you advice on who to go to. Most likely you will need to go to an ethnic hair salon or a Dominican salon to get your braiding done.
Thanks so much for the replies and congratulations!!
I considered using clip-ins but am really hoping for something more permanent. I was really headed towards fusion but now the more I read the more scared I am. I think I may be leaning more towards sew-ins. Anything I should be wary of with them? I have now read that the skin under the wefts can become irritated? Yikes. lol...
How long will the sew-in wefts usually last?
And any suggestions of how to find someone good in my area to do them?
I definitely plan to give myself some time to get used to them before the wedding.
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I personally would not recommend fusion. My hair is about your color and length (and its fine too) and when I wore my hair up with fusion you could see the bonds. I would suggest clip ins, sew in weft or skin wet
You don't need to get attachments for an updo. Most beauty supplies have all kinds of curls that are on one piece, you put your own hair in a ponytail and clip on the hair piece. The actual name of this type of piece is postiche. They also come in long ponytails, called a switch for a smooth updo.
If you're thinking of something more permanent do it at least a few weeks before the wedding. You don't want to get stuck with something you hate for your honeymoon. The hair not the husband.
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krimsa wrote:
What an idiot --- at least you knew better, eh, Krimsa?! 
Yeah I know.. PLENTY more like him out there.. **sigh**
Scary that she would make those assumptions and great that you caught on to that. Not sure why more 'caucasian' salons don't do sew-ins; it's not like fusion and micro links are much better for hair! Can't wait to hear how your consult goes; good luck.
