I need help!

You said that your natural hair color is dirty blonde.  "Dirty" is a relative term.  So, is your natural hair color a light, medium, or dark dirty blonde?  

Hello everyone! I need some help and information. I have naturally dirty blonde hair and have been paying money, lots of money,for a very long time to have it hilighted. I decided I wanted to dye my hair a light blonde. I bought loreal paris feria hair color in shade 100 natural very light blone pure diamond. To me it looks too golden or gingery or orangey at the roots. I went to sally's beauty supply and was sent home with purple shampoo. So far I have not noticed any improvement. The lady at sally's gave me a new color with a 30 developer to fix it. I have not used the new color yet because I have just recently read on the internet from various blogs that feria is a metallic dye and terrible things will happen if you were to recolor,perm, or chemically straighten ones hair i.e. ones hair will melt and fall out or turn a crazy color. So, my question is, is the color i used metallic? what ingredient on the box is the metallic ingredient(s)? What should I do? If i try this new color frm sally's (ION) should i use a hair color remover first? Im just scared of making a bad situation worse. I want my hair light blonde. Its light blond everywhere but the roots. please help. and thank you!