Long hair for me reflects practicality, and at this point, laziness.
I grew my hair long because 17 years ago, I couldn't afford going to
salons anymore, so I thought I would try doing the one style I had
never had before, long, and see how long it could grow. I
secretly always wanted super long hair since I was a very young
child. Once I reached my goal of 6 feet, I told myself I would
trim regularly. Heh, I haven't done it yet.
I like being extreme in this one area of my life, and when I do wear my
hair down, it's great fun receiving attention, which mostly is
quizzical and shocked, but some men can get over ardent, which I'm not
so fond of anymore. Bikers looove long hair.
I agree with Katherine, too, long hair does reflect patience.
When it does become work, which isn't too often 'cuz I wear it in updos
most of the time, it can tangle badly, which requires detangling no
matter what hour it is. Still, my husband and I have to carefully
undo each tangle, even if it's 2 AM. That's when patience kicks
in.
I love the extreme lengths...that is, either very short or very long, because both are fairly uncommon where I live. Most people are in between chin and shoulder-blade length styles. Right now I'm working on kind of a long bohemian Joss Stone-kind of look, except auburn-colored. It's an especially fun style...the positive attention is of course enjoyable, and easy to spot in a sea full of women with medium-length hair and blonde highlights.
Cool for those women, though. Hey, as long as you like the way you look--bald, highlights, or long--go for it, eh?
ETA: forgot to reorder them after typing them from web. Pride - Envy - Lust - Wrath - Gluttony (which includes non-food pleasures, apparently)- Greed - Sloth
And the biggest thing for me is wanting to be something "-est". Wanting to outdo everyone I know in SOMETHING. In this case, the longest hair. I want to have the longest hair of anyone I know in person. That's probably classified as Pride then :)
I've never had short hair, and I fear change....especially if said change is not easily reversible. Drastic color changes don't bug me because I know how to fix it if I don't like it. But if I ever cut my hair, at the sloooooow rate mine grows, it would take absolutely forever to grow back.
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Speaking as someone who went from very long to short a couple of months ago I can say I am definitely a "long haired" girl at heart. I've had extensions now to give me back a some length. I felt totally unglamorous and plain with short hair although strangely enough I did gain a boyfriend while my hair was short, but he doesn't mind how I have my hair. Oh well. I feel sexier with long hair and more confident, plus it may not be politically correct but I really enjoy being feminine. Other women didn't seem to like it when I had really long hair in fact it was my ex best friend who persuaded me to go short.
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Wow... I don't think I'm either a short or long hair person. As soon as my hair is long, I want it short and when it is short I want it long. I guess both have their pros and cons. I like long hair because you can do some real pretty stuff with it and I like short hair because of all the cute cuts you can get.
My mom always chopped mine off short when I was a kid, so I always envied the girls with the long hair, and I noticed when the boys all wanted to spend their time with those girls (which is probably what lead me to the opinion that long hair makes people prettier). Even though I know where I probably got this idea from, it never changed my opinion.
Still waiting for mine to grow out, and I can't wait to feel pretty and girly again!
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Good question. I guess the simple truth for me is, ego. There are few factors that come in play for my ego.
1- The feel of long hair on my shoulders makes me feel very feminine, and sexy. This makes me feel good about myself.
2- I "Love" the attention and looks I get from guys. I really do think men pay more attention to a gal with long hair then one with short hair.
3- It also drives many other women crazy, when they see a gal with long hair. Exspecially the strong willed feminests, that seem to be against anything feminine. Personally - I love being a girl, as the song goes. I also love being feminine.
NOW - I mean no disrespect to any one out there. All I did here is answer the question that was asked to all of us. This is just how I feel. So please do not take a nuttt.
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I'm curious; what do you think people who consistently wear their hair long have in common? The reason why I ask this is because Halle Berry recently said that even though she's been wearing long extensions for roles lately, she's "a short-haired person at heart." Conversely, you get people who, when they cut their hair short, grow it out right away because "it's just not me." So, what is "me"? What are the qualities that lead to our preferences?
I know that for me, there's a fair amount of rebellion involved; if I'm told to do something, I will do the opposite, and for the longest time I was told "you need to cut it," so of course my response was "no I don't." That exchange doesn't really happen so much now that I no longer live in Preppyville, but I still aesthetically prefer it long, and on a certain level it represents my stubborn streak, which has served me well in other ways even today.
Any other explanations/common personality traits?
Monica: Isn't there any way that you could look at this as flattering? I mean, she's doing this to be more like you. Rachel: Well, then, couldn't she have just copied my haircut?
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