I am in my late twenties,have two kids and have the same problem Twanda does. I went from a 36 DD while breastfeeding and then back down to a 34 B. I am seriously considering a breast lift/augmentation. My worst fear is being "the lady with the fake boobs". I'm thinking I only want to go to a full C cup. I pride myself on being able to spot "fake boobs", but recently have discovered two aquaintances of mine have had breast implants and I didn't even know! I didn't know because they aren't too big for thier bodies. I am also petite. 5'2" tall and I don't want to be an afterthought of my breasts!
I am also looking into a tummy tuck as my stomach looks like a road map. Anyone have any experience with that surgery?
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I'm fairly young just a few years into my twenties, I have very small
boobs.I've gone up a cup size from an A to a B, I'm so very very proud
of myself! LOL.
I'm 5'8 and quite thin, anywhoo, with the proper bra of course I can give off the hint of curve, but I never felt it was enough.
I find women with larger breasts to be womanly and womanly I am not.
I researched constantly on the topic of to do it or not for about 3 years or so.
I had my pros and my cons set up and sadly my cons over came my pros.
The only pro I had... Big boobs to make me feel better for a little
while.
The cons weighed heavily. 1st of the amount of money and surgeries I
would have to endure to get larger boobs, the compilcations that could
occur and the whole boob dropping out and stuff like that,also of woman
and men saying their boobs and or woman's boobs felt like rocks. Though
not all people have had this experience.
I think that later in life when I've had my two kids and am looking for
a good, wholesome lift in my life that I might consider it once more.
But we can't accept ourselves it's the way the world works. Everybody
dislikes somethign about thier bodies and are willing to change it in
Order to accept themselves. I have no problem whatsover with it.
When I'm 60 and I need lipo and a face lift... I'm there. ;)
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Thank you for your post Monica, I have saggy D's and went in
for a consultation to look at saline implants. I was surprised that
I would lose two cups sizes with a lift alone and was confused
with all the choices. I have read many message boards but
your post validated what I suspected, the tear drop implant is
not going to be enough fullness on top especially if I am
already saggy I don't want to see more sag.
Many women are unhappy with the tear drop it seems. I am
waiting until I have enough for the lift and implant as I have to
have both.
Thanks, Natalie
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to each their own. its not up to anybody to tell someone else what to do to their bodies, be that to get implants or not. THEY have to look at themselves in the mirror everyday.
If your 18, your a legal adult, and good luck to whatever decision that YOU, as an adult, make for yourself.
It would be great if we could all accept our bodies as they are and be content. I too have thought about implants off and on again. Bald Jasmine made me think that some women have more than they need and would like less, while others like Brown Eyed Girl and myself have less and would like more. I still haven't ruled out implants. Everyone should do what feels right to them and if bigger or smaller breasts makes us feel better about ourselves and we want to make the change we should do what feels right to us.
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I'm the other extreme. My breasts are big for my relatively petite body and I have thought of breast reduction surgery to maker my breasts a "normal size".
My ex GF was a 32A-ish she went to a big b or small 32c.... she is SOOOOOO happy she did it. Her only post implant thought is should she have gone bigger. Based on her goals before the implants she got exactly what she hoped for and is VERY happy.
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I've been thinking off and on about get the surgery done. The only thing that probably holds me back is the expenses. I guess i never really liked what i saw looking back in the mirror. I wear a size 32 B (i've recently come up a cup size). All, and I mean all, of my friends breasts are bigger than mine are and alot of the time i find it difficult to just walk in a store and find a 32 anything. I hate wearing those hot and constricting padded bras. I suppose I'm just tired of being below average. It's hard to walk around knowing that everyone has more chest than you do.
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hiya all, please, if anyone is really considering getting breast implants, PLEASE don't do it.
It is the biggest waste of money and WILL eventually ruin your health sooner or later. Besides, surgery pain and debt aren't really very sexy are they.
Besides all that, you really have to ask whose idea of beauty are you supporting by doing it? Do you want to look like a freak who swallowed two oranges or basketballs (some celebrities spring to mind here but i don't wanna get sued by naming them....)
Little breasts can be elegant and beautiful, not to mention the fact that a real breast feels and reacts 100% better than a piece of plastic or saline. It feels better from your side, and it feels better from his side!
PLEASE dont' get fake breasts. Just exercise and strengthen your pectoral muscles, and your back muscles. That will lift your breast flesh up. Buy some sexy new lingerie. Little breasted women can wear sexy lacy stuff with no under wires in it. Im thinking teddies and lacy camisoles. Also little breasts look SOOOO hot in those shoestring strap dresses with nothing underneath, or when they wear big thick tight jumpers with nothing underneath. SOOOOO hot!
You don't need fake breasts. You DO however need your hard earned money and your lucky health.
Don't do it ladies. You're all woman right now. Smile, lift your chin up high, and be the sex goddess you are ;) wear low cut dresses with elegant necklaces with nothing under your dress. wear strappy high heels and makeup. Do a million things to feel more feminine elegant voluptous and sexy, but DON"T GET SURGERY THAT WILL EVENTUALLY COST YOU YOUR GOOD HEALTH! Little breasts rock xx best wishes
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I don't understand all the surgery craze. I'm kind of small and admit it would be nicer to have larger breasts, but I think that anyone who is so unhappy with their body should consult a psychologist first. If someone is really, really flat, I might understand, but I've seen women who are B cups go larger and it seemed like more of a follow the herd mentality and it didn't add the happiness they thought it would. I would really think long and hard about this because surgery is a very big deal, especially if it isn't to save your life.
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hi. I am 23 years old and am looking into getting brest implants. why have you had it done three times? can you tell me about your experience and help me decide weither this is something i should go though? thank sarah
One thing to aware of: Don't get breast implants that are too big for your size. This can cause backaches. My lady Jasmine has breasts that are large for her relatively petite size, and she doesn't have back aches now but she is worried she may get them in the future as she gets older. Jasmine has actually considered getting breast reduction surgery, not to make her breasts small but to make them average for her body size.
4000 was the total cost. Spend some time looking at pictures and celeb with the same body type as yours. Get some idea of what you want before you go to your Doctor. They are the professional so you need to put "some" value on their opinions but you should also realize they have a prefence just like every one else. Of the 2 doc my gf saw, one suggested stripper size and the other nice rack for a peitie woman size. You can "try on" many sizes and then pick. Hope this helps.
THANKS HAL... I'M THINKING OF GETTING THEM. I WAS TOLD THAT THEY HAVE PAYMENT ARRANGEMENTS. WAS THE 4,000 JUST FOR THE IMPLANTS OR THE WHOLE SUGERY????
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