hiya all, please, if anyone is really considering getting breast implants, PLEASE don't do it.
It is the biggest waste of money and WILL eventually ruin your health sooner or later. Besides, surgery pain and debt aren't really very sexy are they.
Besides all that, you really have to ask whose idea of beauty are you supporting by doing it? Do you want to look like a freak who swallowed two oranges or basketballs (some celebrities spring to mind here but i don't wanna get sued by naming them....)
Little breasts can be elegant and beautiful, not to mention the fact that a real breast feels and reacts 100% better than a piece of plastic or saline. It feels better from your side, and it feels better from his side!
PLEASE dont' get fake breasts. Just exercise and strengthen your pectoral muscles, and your back muscles. That will lift your breast flesh up. Buy some sexy new lingerie. Little breasted women can wear sexy lacy stuff with no under wires in it. Im thinking teddies and lacy camisoles. Also little breasts look SOOOO hot in those shoestring strap dresses with nothing underneath, or when they wear big thick tight jumpers with nothing underneath. SOOOOO hot!
You don't need fake breasts. You DO however need your hard earned money and your lucky health.
Don't do it ladies. You're all woman right now. Smile, lift your chin up high, and be the sex goddess you are ;) wear low cut dresses with elegant necklaces with nothing under your dress. wear strappy high heels and makeup. Do a million things to feel more feminine elegant voluptous and sexy, but DON"T GET SURGERY THAT WILL EVENTUALLY COST YOU YOUR GOOD HEALTH! Little breasts rock xx best wishes
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I've been thinking off and on about get the surgery done. The only thing that probably holds me back is the expenses. I guess i never really liked what i saw looking back in the mirror. I wear a size 32 B (i've recently come up a cup size). All, and I mean all, of my friends breasts are bigger than mine are and alot of the time i find it difficult to just walk in a store and find a 32 anything. I hate wearing those hot and constricting padded bras. I suppose I'm just tired of being below average. It's hard to walk around knowing that everyone has more chest than you do.
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My ex GF was a 32A-ish she went to a big b or small 32c.... she is SOOOOOO happy she did it. Her only post implant thought is should she have gone bigger. Based on her goals before the implants she got exactly what she hoped for and is VERY happy.
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I'm the other extreme. My breasts are big for my relatively petite body and I have thought of breast reduction surgery to maker my breasts a "normal size".
It would be great if we could all accept our bodies as they are and be content. I too have thought about implants off and on again. Bald Jasmine made me think that some women have more than they need and would like less, while others like Brown Eyed Girl and myself have less and would like more. I still haven't ruled out implants. Everyone should do what feels right to them and if bigger or smaller breasts makes us feel better about ourselves and we want to make the change we should do what feels right to us.
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to each their own. its not up to anybody to tell someone else what to do to their bodies, be that to get implants or not. THEY have to look at themselves in the mirror everyday.
If your 18, your a legal adult, and good luck to whatever decision that YOU, as an adult, make for yourself.
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Thank you for your post Monica, I have saggy D's and went in
for a consultation to look at saline implants. I was surprised that
I would lose two cups sizes with a lift alone and was confused
with all the choices. I have read many message boards but
your post validated what I suspected, the tear drop implant is
not going to be enough fullness on top especially if I am
already saggy I don't want to see more sag.
Many women are unhappy with the tear drop it seems. I am
waiting until I have enough for the lift and implant as I have to
have both.
Thanks, Natalie
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I'm fairly young just a few years into my twenties, I have very small
boobs.I've gone up a cup size from an A to a B, I'm so very very proud
of myself! LOL.
I'm 5'8 and quite thin, anywhoo, with the proper bra of course I can give off the hint of curve, but I never felt it was enough.
I find women with larger breasts to be womanly and womanly I am not.
I researched constantly on the topic of to do it or not for about 3 years or so.
I had my pros and my cons set up and sadly my cons over came my pros.
The only pro I had... Big boobs to make me feel better for a little
while.
The cons weighed heavily. 1st of the amount of money and surgeries I
would have to endure to get larger boobs, the compilcations that could
occur and the whole boob dropping out and stuff like that,also of woman
and men saying their boobs and or woman's boobs felt like rocks. Though
not all people have had this experience.
I think that later in life when I've had my two kids and am looking for
a good, wholesome lift in my life that I might consider it once more.
But we can't accept ourselves it's the way the world works. Everybody
dislikes somethign about thier bodies and are willing to change it in
Order to accept themselves. I have no problem whatsover with it.
When I'm 60 and I need lipo and a face lift... I'm there. ;)
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I am in my late twenties,have two kids and have the same problem Twanda does. I went from a 36 DD while breastfeeding and then back down to a 34 B. I am seriously considering a breast lift/augmentation. My worst fear is being "the lady with the fake boobs". I'm thinking I only want to go to a full C cup. I pride myself on being able to spot "fake boobs", but recently have discovered two aquaintances of mine have had breast implants and I didn't even know! I didn't know because they aren't too big for thier bodies. I am also petite. 5'2" tall and I don't want to be an afterthought of my breasts!
I am also looking into a tummy tuck as my stomach looks like a road map. Anyone have any experience with that surgery?
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they will look fake cause some people WANT them to look fake. a well done augmentation looks like nice natural boobs. I get topless for a living and the only people who know mine are fake are the ones I tell, including other women.
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I've had silicone implants in 2 years ago.... and I'm thrilled... I have a barrel chest - gladiator chest that is.... and small hips... I looked like a walking ice cream cone... cept I had breasts that did not FIT my chest area.... not the sticking out part, but the circumference part....They were not proportional.... So, I had implants that actually looked like pancakes... They were big and round, but almost flat.....they had to be special ordered..... and now they are proportional to my chest area... No one even thinks that I have implants..... My breasts do not stick out at all.... not more than they did.....
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I've been thinking off and on about get the
surgery done. The only thing that probably holds me back is the
expenses. I guess i never really liked what i saw looking back in the
mirror. I wear a size 32 B (i've recently come up a cup size). All, and
I mean all, of my friends breasts are bigger than mine are and alot of
the time i find it difficult to just walk in a store and find a 32
anything. I hate wearing those hot and constricting padded bras. I
suppose I'm just tired of being below average. It's hard to walk around
knowing that everyone has more chest than you do.
-flat-as-a-board
Get a really good water bra. They work. HONEST! I'm a 32B aswell, also
went up a size. I had to buy all new bras (used to be a 32A) and I got
a liquid filled bra from La Senza.. WOWZA! I dunno where those babies
came from but hello!
I am so very happy having my b's. I've spent my whole teen life and
some of my twenties thinking I was just a sad, lonely A... Nopers!
And as I look at it... they are bigger than Paris Hiltons... so YAY!
:)
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they will look fake cause some people WANT them to
look fake. a well done augmentation looks like nice natural
boobs. I get topless for a living and the only people who know
mine are fake are the ones I tell, including other women.
The big thing that I have is the feeling. I dont' care if they look
fake. I dont' know a single woman (KNOW) that has fake boobs, so I just
dont' know hwo they would feel afterwards and that's whats really
pushing me towards a NO-NO.
I'm scared about the feeling, they won't feel right. I've read about
them being hard as rocks, and men saying they just dont' feel right. I
even watched a program about a woman, going thruogh the process of
getting them. And she ran int this one chick who got them done and she
was so upset cause they didn't feel like boobs. She was actually
letting this the woman (who was saying she WANTED them done) to touch
em. The woman who wanted them told the people on the show that she
didn't want them now. Because they didn't feel like boobs. They were
hard. It's all about the Pros and Cons I guess.
I read something in Star that they are tryign to approve ones you can
inflate and deflate. So when you get them and if they aren't the right
size you can just stick a tube in em' and deflate or enlarge them.
Which sounds good. There is no MAJOR surgery to get them the way you
want them.. sounds good. LOL.
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Your physician should inform you of the difference... I know quite a few 'implantees'...... and it is as follows to me...... saline.... slightly stiffer/harder.... silicone..... soft and natural.......
However, the silicone has taken a hit... but I have them and like the silicones.......
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Do silicones leak?
Also another question I've had... grabbing them and squeezign them.
I don't know what it is but my breasts are roughly fondled often and
one day I was just sitting there thinking, if I had fake ones, could
the rough play I so throughly enjoy rupture them?
I've HEARD of this happening, I read that you can't be too incredibly rough on them... is that true? To anyone who has them.
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Don't know 'bout that... since mine haven't been touched since my surgery... cept me showering...... However, my Calif. girlfriends who have them... 'sillies' and they are 'in action'.... know what I mean.... I HAVE NOT heard of any leaks since that big upheaval.... years ago.....
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