I posted a question on the hair color section of this board that never had one reply. My paranoia surfaced and I wondered...are my pants unzipped...something in my nose...did they hear about the tampon incident during racquetball? And then reason took over and I realised probably nobody cared to answer the question because they didn't know the answer or it was an irrelevant question. Compared to other boards this one is especially inclusive. Truthfully, I'm not on here to make any friends...so Amm and I should get along just fine. It's just a really great source of information for my addiction...not to mention entertaining.
i am so sorry you feel like your not being responded to- please dont take it personally, we are a group of hair addicts and i dont feel there are any clicks at all.
I am also sorry to hear that you feel that way. I doubt anyone meant it on a personable level. Many members have been talking hair on this board so it would make sense that they "know" each other and are comfortable with each other and more personable. Also quite normal for the "newbies" to feel left out at times. I think that is a normal feeling in the beginning but in order to get past the feelings of being the new girl, posting more frequently is a way to get over being new and to feel more comfortable. I'm sure many of us have started new jobs and felt left out in the beginning until we get comfortable. When I'm in that situation of feeling uncomfortable, I try to focus on helping someone that is newer than me in any situation. How about trying to make it a point to respond to newbies to make them feel comfortable? You'll soon forget about the way you had felt and the next thing you know, your comfortable in your posts and helping others as well.
I don't think anyone intentionally ignored your posts on a personable level. I know I didn't know the answer to the hairraisers question as well as most on this board. And don't forget we are dealing with all (mostly) women with all different personalities and backgrounds. I beleive that most people here want to discuss hair, not win a popularity contest. I hope that you post more often and don't leave this board.
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