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Metalgirl, I wasn't specifically referencing any attitude that you may or may not have. I have appreciated your willingness to share your expertise online with us at HB.com.

My comment about attitude was about any cosmetology professional who becomes angry and defensive when a non-professional seeks to find ways to have access to the same quality products that professionals use. Again, I appreciate the proprietary relationship between cosmetologists and professional products vendors. However the degree to which some cosmetologists become hysterically angry defending their territory is obnoxious and downright silly to me. It is as if no one but a licensed cosmetologist could possibly use the products safely, and that the odd DIYer here or there who chooses to find ways to access professional products will somehow take business from the professionals to the point that business will suffer.

I figured out a way to purchase Schwarzkopf professional hair color online--I use it properly, attain great results, and wouldn't go back to having a professional do my color even if I had to resort to purchasing an inferior product. The hysteria that I've experienced when discussing what I've done with some cosmetologists rivals how someone might react to being told one is a fan of molesting little children.

I'm a licensed Marriage & Family therapist, and have owned my own successful private practice for over 20 years now. It required a LOT more education and training than most if not all cosmetologists undergo in their entire careers. Yet, I've never begrudged the person who sought out a friend, a pastor, or another lay counselor to help them with their problems. Sure, that non-professional might do more harm than good for the person. Sure, it might be a patient that I could've had for myself. But I know that sometimes lay counselors do as well if not better when helping a person in need. I'm also confident that I'm good enough at what I do that I'll never lack for the business I need to remain successful.
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blimey blimey blimey!! handbags at dawn ladies, ten paces and wait till i say go lol!!! so back to the original topic amanda brought up, i have seen amandas said tool (ooh err!!LOL) and it looks fab and seems a little easier to handle than the usual generic shrin**ie tool as i found the heated clamp ends a little too thick and could easily burn the scalp if one was not too careful. the smaller heat clamp on the new tool is a lot better design!! i will be ordering one soon!!
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Apparently you don't need a beautician's license to purchase the Mark B. shrink links, he PM'd me himself a while ago and offered to sell them to me.
 
... After a $1500 class of course.
 
I told him where to stick his shrinkies Tongue
 
 
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His butthole obviously needs a shrinkie... it's apparently the size of Cincinnati!

     
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I made a little clip in light of all this, hope nobody gets offended!
If it doesn't load, then I'm still trying to compress the files.
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Originally posted by sherrie215 sherrie215 wrote:

Originally posted by metalgirl metalgirl wrote:

If you want the full priveledges of being able to buy 'professional' products than get a license and stop whining about not having full access to stuff.   
 
 
 
 
Honestly that comment is quite silly in reality.....think about it
 
would you LYAO if someone told you you should go get a medical degree to treat a simple health ailment at home? When there are tons of various prescrip. strength products available over the counter. Really.... doing ones own hair is not rocket science or medicine!
 
OK, I probably shouldnt get involved - but I am a licensed Nail tech and I get the same problems with unlicensed individuals wanting to use prof products. 
I also believe that I went to school for a reason and being able to get pro products is a perk.  there are many non-pro products out there that non-pros can use that perform just as well.  I dont believe it is the same as likening it to getting a medical degree for a home remedy.  Its more of earning a drivers license.  Sure, a non-driver can start up a car and go, but there is a reason that they require a license.  Its the same in the beauty industry.    There are a lot of issues that non-pros arent aware of.  Thats why this forum is so great!  We can all learn from each other! And I do answer nail questions on the nail board, but I never recommend that someone do their own acrylics.  And most hairstylists dont recommend anyone doing their own color or highlights or extensions.  But if you want to try - go ahead!  Just dont expect to use professional products!
 
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I do my color at home and I DO expect to be able to get the professional products I prefer. One just has to know where to look...

    
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NailDiva...my point to that comment...about it being kinda silly was...
 
its silly to tell a DIYer to go get a license, to do their own hair! Really...
 
And quite frankly I know all the issues, and would put my skill and knowledge of hair extensions against many so called pro's. Just because one has a cosmotology license doesnt necessarily make them qualified in my opinion to do extensions even though the law says so!
 
Having said that I do respect all the pros who train and learn the techniques and have perfected their craft. A cos license doesnt make one an extensionist in my book...its the actual extensions training and experience that makes one a professional extensionist.
 
 
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i agree with what everything naildiva has  said, and i also agree with some of  what sherrie has said- "its the actual extension training and experience that makes one a professional extensionist".
with that said, ANYONE who thinks they can Charge someone to do extensions, espicially in a salon without some form of extension hands on training is not only fooling themselves,but  is certainly not putting the clients well being ahead of the game.
Learning to do hair goes hand in hand with doing extensions, there is alot we learn in beauty school that aids and works together with doing extensions. i also dont think any liscensed stylist has any business doing extensions without some formal training either.
buying professional products- Kristie- your very right, if you know where to look you can find just about everything.
Just like the MB shrinks- by the way he will sell to anyone who isnt liscened too- he has two kinds, one for pros and one for DIYers, i bet if you really really wanted the pro shrinks from him, you  could call him and ask, i beleive Aphrodite gets them from him tooTongue
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All I know is.Confused....... can we all just get along. Everybody learned something new today, let's move on because it is like pulling hair in here. I love this board and I do give advice, and by no means do I recommend that anyone does a professional service on themsevles, but hey... to each his own. I respect Metalgirls opinion and thoughts, this is how we eat and provide for our family and selves. It really makes our job harder, but when you really look at it, there isn't anything anyone can do about it. An ex: bootleg movies, how many of you have some of those DVD's at home? I for one do. It was so funny because my husband, kids and myself went to this TimmyChan's place in Houston to buy fried chicken and fried rice, and on the outside they were selling movies, pictures, a women on the inside was asking for money to feed her child, a blind man saying he wasn't sitting there for nothing, he was blind he needed money. I was like dear god....... what is this world coming to..... bottom line is everybody somewhere some way is getting their "hustle" on, I ain't mad at no body. Like we say, dothedo. "Can't we all just get along?"Dead
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Shirilyn, I think we are "getting along" here. We're discussing an issue that is relevant for professionals and non-professionals alike. Sometimes when people disagree the tone can get unpleasant, but I'll try to keep my post to the point.

I touch my roots up every two weeks. There is no way I'd be running to the salon that often for what I can do just as well at home without the hassle of having to go to another hair appointment. My reason for doing my color at home, as well as my extensions, manicures, pedicures and body hair epilation, has little to do with saving money and everything to do with time, convenience, and the fact that I don't find going to the "beauty parlor" a treat. For hair coloring I prefer to use professional products but would use non-professional products if that were all that was available to me. My stylist sees me for haircuts but isn't losing out on any business because I do my own color.

You stated in your post that nonprofessionals using professional products is akin to having bootlegged movies. I don't own a single bootlegged DVD, CD, video, or software product because I perceive doing so as participating in theft. We all have to support our families, and I agree that theft might interfere with this. But how is it theft when one is doing a cosmetology process on oneself that one would not go to a professional for, and when one is using a product for which one has paid full price from an authorized vendor?
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Originally posted by kristie m kristie m wrote:

You stated in your post that nonprofessionals using professional products is akin to having bootlegged movies. I don't own a single bootlegged DVD, CD, video, or software product because I perceive doing so as participating in theft.
As some of you may know I've worked in the entertainment industry for a number of years, and not trying to go off topic, but Kristie I have to agree with you on this point. Bootlegging movies, music while still very popular is a form of theft.. I don't own bootlegs for this reason, plus the fact that I prefer quality videos/music, and most bootlegs just don't pass muster.. (ok.. that and the fact that I get free/discounted product as an employee perk LOLLOL)
 
Originally posted by kristie m kristie m wrote:

We all have to support our families, and I agree that theft might interfere with this. But how is it theft when one is doing a cosmetology process on oneself that one would not go to a professional for, and when one is using a product for which one has paid full price from an authorized vendor?
This is the part I don't understand.. I think people are intelligent enough to understand the risks involved with doing their own hair/nails.. It's one thing to restrict non-professionals from starting a hair business and using professional products, but seriously, you professionals would begrudge someone like Sherrie or Kristie from buying a bottle of "for professional use only" shampoo/hair color/perm for their own PERSONAL USE because they don't have a license???? Get real!!! That's just SILLY.
 
I've heard all the arguments about how it's for their own good, and they need to know the science of hair/nails and all, but let's be serious.. It's THEIR HAIR, and they are GROWN A$$ED women.. If they want to color their own hair, they should be able to.. That takes not ONE DIME out of the pocket of the professional stylist.. Because I would bet that even if there was NO ACCESS to professional products, you'd be hard pressed to see Kristie or Sherrie (and others like them) in your chair anyway.. It's a better argument to say that unlicensed non-professionals who charge for professional services should not have access to professional products.. Home DIYers?? Not even in the SAME category, and it sounds to me like some of you professionals have lumped DIYers in the same category..


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Thank you, Diva!       

I'm in complete agreement with you about non-professionals who do other peoples' hair and charge for it not being allowed professional products, at the discretion of the product manufacturer. If you care enough to make and sell a quality product, your company's reputation is on the line. Having some assurance that the people promoting your product are trained and licensed in how to use such products is perfectly valid. We DIYers take responsibility for the use/misuse of the products we put on our own selves. If I f*ck up and end up with green hair, I sure won't be blamin' Mr. Schwarzkopf! It is my lame-assed self who didn't know which product to use or how to use it properly!   
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If I f*ck up and end up with green hair...
 
Been there, done that LOL.  Hell, if anything a lot of DIY'ers are giving salon owners MORE business, because eventually there will be a royal f**k-up sometime that we'll need y'all to fix. 
 
But as an expireanced DIY'er, I will do what I can to have access to the best products I can get.


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Want to see a nuclear meltdown? Try refusing to sell even DIY products to the uneducated extensionist who charges for services. When they ask if the hairdryer will install and remove a shrinkie, when they ask how to take out fusion chips AFTER they've already been installed on clients, when they complain bonding strips caused an allergic reaction on a client when they failed to do a skin test, when they ask how to position a microring for removal because they doubled them over on a client's head, that's just unreal to me.


When I ask...

"What method worked best when you installed it on yourself?"
NO RESPONSE

"The hair turned bad after 2 weeks on your client? How long did it last for you?"
NO RESPONSE

"How did you care for this when you put it in on yourself?"
NO RESPONSE

"How did you remove that attachment when you put it in on yourself?
NO RESPONSE

"Why did you install on paying customers when you did not personally test it yourself?"
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Once the next purchase comes in and the refusal to provide products is in place, oooooo it gets colorful after that.

There's a good portion of newly sprouted DIY who have not found these boards and have NO clue how to work these products either but I have seen plenty of fine examples of those without a license doing excellent installs on themselves and others. Interesting point -- all the ones I've seen who have excellent installs on themselves do excellent installs on others as well. I attribute this directly to not using clients as guinea pigs. If one has a new product on Monday that they've never worked with and it's in a paying customer's hair on Tuesday, it's unexcusable.

I've read many times of the licensed cleaning up the work of other licensed. Myself, the worst hair disasters of my time were under the hands of the licensed and certified. Now, the licensed cleaning up extension work of the proficient DIY? This I've not heard of.

For me, licensed and unlicensed are only as good as their individual skills. There's good and bad in both groups.
    
    

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whoooo ya'll got my head reeling!   im one of those DIY'ers who just loves to f-up my own hair, sometimes i get it right and sometimes i dont but at least i dont have to ask everyone who to go to re-fix my hair.....i quit going to 'professionals' years ago (1999 in fact) because even if i did find a great professional they moved away after one of two times doing my hair, and then my hair would be in the hands of a stranger all over againDisapprove, so i KNOW there are great professionals out there and you do a great service for everyone but me

i am frugal, but money is no object, i get gel nails refilled every 2weeks faithfully..... i would pay a hair professional if he/she could guarantee me 110% that my hair would not be more f-d up when i walk out than when i walked in....but i got burned too many times, so me doing my own hair is not begrudging the 'industry' because  no professional will see me in their chair again until im too old and feeble to reach the back of my head to do it all myself

im definately with those of you who dont want uneducated people raking in money for fitting in extensions, and i can see where formal training would help with knowing if the hair condition is ok in the first place....i wish my momma had realized when i was a kid that she was not professionaly licensed to cut my hair because until i was 13 i had some really f-d up haircuts!
 
also, finally......i actually like a lot ( a whole lot) of nonprofessional products, those marketed for us simple folk


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Originally posted by amm amm wrote:

Want to see a nuclear meltdown? Try refusing to sell even DIY products to the uneducated extensionist who charges for services. When they ask if the hairdryer will install and remove a shrinkie, when they ask how to take out fusion chips AFTER they've already been installed on clients, when they complain bonding strips caused an allergic reaction on a client when they failed to do a skin test, when they ask how to position a microring for removal because they doubled them over on a client's head, that's just unreal to me.


When I ask...

"What method worked best when you installed it on yourself?"
NO RESPONSE

"The hair turned bad after 2 weeks on your client? How long did it last for you?"
NO RESPONSE

"How did you care for this when you put it in on yourself?"
NO RESPONSE

"How did you remove that attachment when you put it in on yourself?
NO RESPONSE

"Why did you install on paying customers when you did not personally test it yourself?"
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Originally posted by kristie m kristie m wrote:

Thank you, Diva!       

I'm in complete agreement with you about non-professionals who do other peoples' hair and charge for it not being allowed professional products, at the discretion of the product manufacturer. 
that has been my beef from the beginning of time.....
unskilled unprofessionals workihg on clients and charging them, pity the poor client who has NO idea!!!
 
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