im upset girls @ college :-(

well, honey- f*#k um.  You are probably cuter and younger and they are just bitter, so I say F*#k um.  Some girls feel so sh*tty about themselves the only way they can feel better is to talk trash about other people..you should just pitty them.  Don't even give it another thought. 

ye i no they will be but i am insecure too, and i dont b nasty 2 other people. they just realy hurt my feelings. its hard starting college and u want ppl to like you not be like that! 

(well done you!)

Oh Honey, don't take them out! I think they're beautiful and you are beautiful, like a china doll. There will always be nasty people out there. It doesn't matter what you do or don't do.

I dropped off my son at his Christian school Thursday with short ugly hair and picked him up with long flowing 18" hair. My "mom" friends all swarmed me ooo-ing and ahhh-ing but I noticed a few raised eyebrows and strange expressions like "what the heck did she do and why?"  You know, I did have a weird feeling questioning myself if I am vain or something but the truth is, I am just having fun with my hair, trying new things with it and I'm okay with the fact that most people will know it's not mine. Women wear all kinds of other "fake" things on their bodies, nails, hair color, makeup, breasts, yada, yada, yada, and it's fine, so why not hair.

sherrie215 wrote: unfortunately thats the way alot of girls that age are....and it even continues with older women...women are just like that! If it wasnt your hair that they were ragging about it would be something else...these are the types that will always find something to say. Just hang in there....keep your extensions, before you know it a few of these girls will probably be approaching you and asking where they can get hair extensions or how to do it!

Words of Wisdom right there!!!

That "breed" of Women/girls are generally catty...It's either your clothes, your breasts are too small or they're fake, and my personal favorite...when all else fails...they play the slut card!

Let that roll on off! *** Own your style...Don't imitate it!***

Sweetheart,  think of it this way.  When people are threatened or insecure, they say dumb s@#t. Usually they think about it later and are sorry.  It's just a fact, especially young people who don't know themselves yet.  You just be yourself

this is the difference between females and women - and i mean "real" women..what is a woman anyway?  a woman is MATURE or ADULT female..

a female is learning what maturity is..she is growing into her womanhood..mentally, physically, and emotionally...some females, though they have grown physically (the boobs, reproductive organs, hormones, etc.), never ever get to that point in life where the mental, or the emotional maturity has kicked in...they may be 30, 40, sometimes 50 years old - and still don't get it....

the ones who are strong, have a good sense of self, respect, toughness, gentleness, class, acknowledges others accomplishments, basically has grown into her maturity, is a woman..she would be the one who leads by example..

if those young ladies cannot show maturity, then you must be the one to rise above them..it is not worth worrying about being their friend. if they become really friendly, something is amiss..who wants to be friends with people like that anyway?...the most important goal at this point is getting through your classes...i've had some hard bumps in life when it comes to trying to be popular, and wanting to be "liked"... having had many, many jobs,and careers in my less than 50 years..i was paid for my services...the only job i was never paid for,  was trying to please everyone, or being liked...

Hell, i've seen guys make fun of women with extensions...they are "guys" or "males"...they have a long way to go before they become men...

 

Kalika wrote: I usually just smile and say "At least I can afford it" and walk off.

You go girl!!

 

Oh sweetie! I spent two years in therapy and battled bulimia during highschool trying to deal with what other girls said about me. When I wa heavier no one noticed me and then suddenly when I lost all that weight  everyone went around talking about how I was a skank and stuff.

I'm just now learning to not listen to what other say about me. Those girls WERE jealous. They probably either couldn't figure out how your hair looks so great and got so long or they think that you have lots of money cuz you can afford such great extensions.

Also I remmeber a girlfriend of mine was being teased about her nose by two girls in the library at her uni. Turns out one of their friends tried to hook up with my friend's boyfriend before they dated. I guess they were just bitter.

Women are mean to each other sometimes. I work in the beauty industry and the things I've seen! And I'm only 21!
I've had women step on my feet and push me out of the way and just be all out rude to me. I think they just get threatened and so they have to find something wrong with you to prove that they are better than you.

And when  you think about it, there are more women than men on the planet. So maybe they just make up stuff to shrink your self esteem so that you won't leave the house and they won't have to compete with you (although judging from your photos and posts, there is no competition:) ) . Lazy bitches!  *Big hug* Feel better!!!

if your extensions really did look bad, they wouldnt have said anything to your face.  instead they wouldve snickered at you in glee behind your back with the thought that you didnt know you looked like sh*t... saying something means their jealous : )  and hang in there, yes that happens with women of all ages but im 22 now and can say i haven't seen it as much as when i was 17-18.  your a beautiful girl dont let them get you down

{{{{Hugs}}}}}  I love your hair and you are very pretty.  Don't you dare take out your hair because that is what these girls want.  Next time you hear something like this call them on it.  Maybe they think you are embarrassed to have hair extensions.  If you play it off like so what, I do -or you could say, "I just overheard you and yes I do wear hair extensions.  Would you like me to show you how to do your hair because it is so much fun."  Come off as being sweet and confident and you can't loose.