non growing hair. please help

 

you can either get the hairstyle you want (that apparently doesn't work for your hair type, or you wouldn't be working against its natural texture) or you can get healthy hair.

 

Not every style works for every hair type. If you find that you have to do a lot of damaging things to your hair to get a certain style, maybe you should try a style that works with your hair type and that uses your hair type as a strength. For instance, not everyone can have Nia Long's hairstyle. My hair is too heavy and won't be light and fluffy like hers. My hair looks more like a "bowl" haircut when I tried. I can put lots of hairspray on it and gel, and a curling iron.......or I can find a style more suitable for heavy, coarse hair......

 

Just a suggestion.