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That's right we have to see wrong as wrong and right as right. There is no in between. There is a thin line between love and hate. We are very close to hating each other. We already hate on each other. What's next, Genocide?

African Genocide  http://rds.yahoo.com/S=2766679/K=Genocide/v=2/SID=e/TID=OOP5 _5/l=WRS/R=6/KR=genocide+in+africa/;_ylt=ArA6Y.Hl24bNBqtyqal ESJxXNyoA/SIG=15s66ka03/EXP=1122736862/*-http%3A//search.yah oo.com/search?p=genocide+in+africa&rs=6&sm=Yahoo%21+ Search&toggle=1&ei=UTF-8&SpellState=n-3452307357 _q-zJ7M5NDnBA01zNwrY6tJngABAA%40%40&fr=FP-tab-web-t

Rowanda Genocide (Hotel Rowanda)  http://rds.yahoo.com/S=2766679/K=Genocide/v=2/SID=e/TID=OOP5 _5/l=WRS/R=0/KR=rwanda+genocide/;_ylt=Ak.8l288uAjG4cyD01ADw_ BXNyoA/SIG=15pm821j6/EXP=1122736662/*-http%3A//search.yahoo. com/search?p=rwanda+genocide&rs=0&sm=Yahoo%21+Search &toggle=1&ei=UTF-8&SpellState=n-3452307357_q-zJ7 M5NDnBA01zNwrY6tJngABAA%40%40&fr=FP-tab-web-t

Rowanda -  (imates freed)

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20050729/ts_nm/rwanda_prisoners_d c

Sudan Genocide http://rds.yahoo.com/S=2766679/K=Genocide/v=2/SID=e/TID=OOP5 _5/l=WRS/R=2/KR=sudan+genocide/;_ylt=Ah_YOKfeBALw0CiPJFclVR5 XNyoA/SIG=15o9htj1o/EXP=1122736662/*-http%3A//search.yahoo.c om/search?p=sudan+genocide&rs=2&sm=Yahoo%21+Search&a mp;a mp;a mp;a mp;toggle=1&ei=UTF-8&SpellState=n-3452307357_q-zJ7M5 NDnBA01zNwrY6tJngABAA%40%40&fr=FP-tab-web-t

The Man wrote: I agree the white man nor any other race caused all the problems it was ourselfes who did it

I'm sorry but I have to disagree. Sure there was fighting amongst African tribes and such, but not like it is when white people come into the picture. If you saw the movie Hotel Rwanda (I'm sure you didn't so go get the DVD) the introduction tells of how this massive war got started. When the Dutch came the selected one tribe as the better one and gave them more oppertunities to succed. After a few hundred years the Dutch left but they put the oppressed group in charge. In any situation, dealing with adults (because children react differently), there will be lots of anger and vengence in their hearts. Therefore the the oppressed people began to treat the other tribe with such malice that they killed them. Now this would have never happened if the Dutch had not come in a divided them.  

The divisions in the Black American community are also the result of the degredation by whites. If you really want to know why our community is in such disarray find and read the speech by Willie Lynch called "How to Make a Slave". I refuse to post a link to it because I'm not your mother and I refuse to spoon feed you the truth. If you really want to know it, you'll find it on your own. If you prefer to stay in the dark and remain ignorant continue on your dark path of ignorance.

Please, don't quote what I'm saying either respond or move forward. The little clapping emoticon doesn't mean you understand.

The movie hotel Rowanda was moving how the hutu were killing the tutsi and even children especially when pauls osn had to witness the death of his best friend.

BIGGMike wrote: The divisions in the Black American community are also the result of the degredation by whites. This is also true. It's called divide and conquer. Like right now in an office enviroment (corporate america), did you know that many many comapies are composed of a majority of females. Black females are getting job that very few have ever had in our history. This is a good thing right? Yes and No.

While the black community is divided it's not all "their" fault that black men aren't getting hired. You have to acknowledge some wrong doing on your part. Black men feel that society at large owes them something which makes them less adaptable in professional situations. Black men don't want to be seen as submissive therefore they don't respond well in positions of less authority.

On the other hand, black women may get hired but then we have this glass ceiling to contend with. All women have to deal with being the last person ever considered for a promotion black women are hardly ever considered because of harsh, but often times VERY TRUE stereotypes. Black women are always seen as being bossy, loud, and vengeful and from what I've seen, we are. For the most part black women can't control their anger or temper their attitudes long enough to hear the entire story. Many black women are very hotheaded and refuse to "take mess", but at the same time we waste energy by fighting every battle that comes our way. If black women would stop catching an attitude with every statement that's made towards them then we could move forward in the work force.

I understand that not all black men refuse to "submit" and not all black women are "neck rolling hot-heads" but the majority of them are and this is something each of us as blacks need to address.

Because of her job, she feels Black men are lazy and uneducated, when really one of the main reason she got the job is because she is a female and black, and willing to sell out. She's a double minority. They get a chance to have a female and a racial minority in one. She then believes she don't need a man, and her children don't need a father. So she puts him on child support and divorce him. This is called killing two birds with on stone. This in call divide and conquer.

Willing to sell out?!? Wow, this is why we are where we are. Black people don't support each other at all. You see a "sister" get a job in an office building speaking English properly and abiding by the dress code and she's a sellout. You have another "sister" who just got fired from McDonald's because she doesn't want to tuck her shirt in so she caught an attitude with the manager and she's staying black. Wow, you guys have a distorted sense of what's good and bad.

It's not that black women feel that they don't need a man it's just that in situations of unplanned pregnancy the woman is forced to "sellout" while the guy is free to skip out if he so chooses. In the same instance he may decide to stay but doesn't know what to do. Of course he doesn't want to lose his youth and get a serious 9-5 to support this new child but at the same time he doesn't want to abandon his responsibilities. As the months progress she urges him to find work because the baby is coming, yet all he hears is nagging. Neither of them can handle the stress the other is placing on them so she decides it's best that he leaves. In situations like this it's no one's fault. He doesn't want to grow up and she doesn't want to be seen as a pain so they split.

The welfare system has also created the single black mother. It is easier for a single parent to get assistance than it is for a couple therefore a man feels that he is more helpful if he leaves.

Welfare system is destroying an entire race. You are right! Free food, free housing, and a monthly check. Just think, they don't need a man to help pay the rent, don't need a man to help buy food, don't need a man for his income. Well, what are men on this earth for other than to be a bank account and a sperm donor. This is what welfare 2005 has to offer an African American family. Oh, yea if she's a single mother the whole society will feel sorry for them, but if you are a single father, well you get the same treatment as all the other men, cause we all are the same right? Not all men grew up without a strong father that is the head of the house. My father wears the pants and my mother, she wear panties. Like father, like son. Not all of us want to run from children, the problem is, are we allowed to be the man on the job or at home. No we are not. So it's hard to feel like we are a part of society.That's why so many brother do what they want to and don't ask or consider what the other person wants. Why? Because nobody gives us a choice and nobody cares what we think in corporate America or at home.

Have we been taught to  take care of our children? Some have and some have not. It's real easy to see why some men don't take care of their children when their mother made welfare and handouts their husband. Young boys learn to be bad fathers from their own parents. A black male without a father is more than 70% likely to be put on childsupport just as a black female without a father has a 80% chance of being a single mother getting childsupport.

Divorce is out of contol in America and even more so in the Black community. Over half of the black male population is afraid to reproduce because of the welfare system and how some sisters let childsupport or careers/college degree(s) take the place of a MAN. They totally forget that a black man is not accepted or respected by the very system that they replace us with. After all a black man is not valued by his own family first, before him or his children are every put in a racist system like welfare or childsupport..............Your thoughts?

BIGGMike wrote: Divorce is out of contol in America and even more so in the Black community. Over half of the black male population is afraid to reproduce because of the welfare system and how some sisters let childsupport or careers/college degree(s) take the place of a MAN. They totally forget that a black man is not accepted or respected by the very system that they replace us with. After all a black man is not valued by his own family first, before him or his children are every put in a racist system like welfare or childsupport..............Your thoughts?

My thoughts are that you are just another angry black man who is trying to pass the buck for why you or other men may not have successful relationships. It sounds like you are trying to make the man the victim when in situations of divorce and welfare and child support, when it's everyone's fault. If you don't want a woman to abuse the welfare system or collect child support TAKE CUSTODY OF YOUR CHILDREN. Or better yet be more scrupulous about whom you decide to engage with sexually. Men would love to believe that they have no control over getting "trapped" by a woman, it's quite easy to avoid. Don't have sex with her if you think she's trying to trap you. If you don't like a woman to condescend you for not being as educated as she is, GET AN EDUCATION. I'm tired of hearing lazy ass black men talk about how hard it is for them to make it the world without "hustlin". It's hard for everyone. Either grow a pair and deal with the hardships of higher education or deal with being treated like a second class citizen by a woman who has worked her ass off for an education. Trust me, a real woman will respect you as long as you put forth a genuine effort.

If you truly fear and despise the welfare system and the process of child support, take an active stand. Educate those around you because if you can get one person to change their destructive ways it will effect some many other lives in a positive way.

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Yea I did it.  Don't get out of line with any MEN on this site Sista!

You don't run anything here. Create your own site for fake people who want to be down with real people!