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Topic: how do you sleep and 'do it' in your exte Posted: March 31 2007 at 10:15pm
Just wondering,
do other members plait their extension hair when they go to sleep in it? what else can you do to minimuse tangles when you are sleeping in your hair
also when you do the wild thing - do you leave your hair out, or plait it
Im especially interested in how ppl avoid tangling synthetic extensions?
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Posted: March 31 2007 at 10:44pm
I've only worn human hair, but I never braid it or tie it back when I sleep. I like my hair free and loose on the pillow. Even when doing the wild thang I haven't had any problems with tangles or mats. I love waking up looking touseled. A quick finger-combing is all the Russian hair I'm wearing now needs to get any little tangles out.
I've read on BHM.com that some of the African-American women go to pretty elaborate lengths wrapping their hair at night. Some said they always wear their head wraps for sex too, to keep from messing up their hair. I think my guy likes to see and feel my hair much too much to keep it wrapped up in bed.
Here's to the end of my BAD HAIR LIFE!
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 4:15am
I used to braid my hair at night but then I stopped and it's fine.
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 11:24am
SDOW wrote:
Leave it free or sometimes tie it when i sleep
I agree.. and I don't do anything terribly elaborate when I do tie my hair down.. I simply use my Silky the Cap™ to keep my hair smooth and in order..
Generally if I am wrapping or covering my hair at night I do it "after" sex.. I find my hair is in MUCH better shape in the morning when I "organize" it at night. Usually NO combing of any kind is required.. Usually I take my hair down and it's shake and go.. (I love those mornings!)
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 5:39pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 11:29am
I could probably get by with no finger-combing myself, Diva, but I love running my fingers through my hair! No sleep cap needed for THIS diva.
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 11:35am
kristie m wrote:
I could probably get by with no finger-combing myself, Diva, but I love running my fingers through my hair! No sleep cap needed for THIS diva.
Glad to hear it..
If anyone is interested, you can buy the Silky the Cap™ caps (my preferred sleep cap) from Sherrie's store.. The woman who created these caps is a small business woman here in Los Anglese. These caps used to be available only locally in the Los Angeles area (through a small number of local businesses & salons).. However, the owner's starting to branch out and I suspect they will be available from more vendors soon (I was lucky.. I got to buy mine DIRECTLY from the source!) I am VERY bullish on the product ever since meeting the owner and seeing the product in action through my own usage.. In the meantime, you can check out Silky the Cap™ by clicking here.
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 7:29pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 12:36pm
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You're starting to sound like Zephyr
Ummm since I don't OWN Silky the Cap™ or HE101 and since I actually participate and contribute to this forum, I don't see where the comparison between me and Zephyr comes from.. On the other hand Zephyr actually OWNS a hair extensions and hair supply business.. If I recall her ONLY contribution around this forum was advertising for her business..
Last I heard around this camp (and others like it..) there were no issues with members making recommendations about products we like and where others can get 'em from..
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 7:15pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 12:48pm
Yeah Diva, I agree. We ALL should be able to speak freely about what we
buy. Or do you mean we should just talk about things we buy from
Sherrie?
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 12:55pm
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Yeah Diva, I agree. We ALL should be able to speak freely about what we
buy. Or do you mean we should just talk about things we buy from
Sherrie?
Mean?? I didn't realize that my post had a second meaning.. I wrote exactly what I meant.. I buy products from LOTS of vendors including Sherrie.. I talk about ALL of the vendors I do business with.. Is there a point to this??
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 4:11pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 1:10pm
It's just that some people might question, because you work so closely with Sherrie on her site as her Network Administrator, whether you advertising for Sherrie on other sites is pretty close to Sherrie advertising for herself. Personally, I don't mind advertising, so it is a moot point for me.
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 1:29pm
kristie m wrote:
It's just that some people might question, because you work so closely with Sherrie on her site as her Network Administrator, whether you advertising for Sherrie on other sites is pretty close to Sherrie advertising for herself. Personally, I don't mind advertising, so it is a moot point for me.
People are free to make that ASSumption all they want, but to ASSume that is to ASSume that somehow Sherrie is ASKING me to advertise for her, and that I am getting something in return for my endorsement. Now if someone were to actually make THAT accusation DIRECTLY to me, I'm not sure I should bother dignifying that kind of foolish accusation with a response. I post based on my OWN feelings about the products/vendors I like PERIOD.. If anyone feels that my recommendations have an ulterior motive, then they need to ask me DIRECTLY about my alleged motives versus making an ASSumption..
For the record helping Sherrie out on her site is no different than what I do for A LOT OF my friend's who also own small businesses.. Helping Sherrie doesn't make Sherrie's business MY business. If that was the truth, then it did it would mean that helping my friends Donna, Kim, and Richard with IT issues and such in their businesses makes me a principal or an owner of their respective businesses as well.. Now that is a silly ASSumption since clearly helping someone out with their business doesn't automatically assign that person an owner's share in ANY business... If we used this logic, most of us (who are not self employed) would OWN the companies we work for, and we all KNOW that's not true don't we??
I've become friends with A LOT of the vendors I do business with.. Many of my friends became my clients, and many of my clients also became friends.. BIG DEAL!!!
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 7:40pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 1:52pm
My point is that everyone should speak freely about ANY vendors. It was
the same point as yours Diva. I have no problem hearing about what
people bought and from where. It's what we're here for, sharing
knowledge.
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 1:57pm
malibu wrote:
My point is that everyone should speak freely about ANY vendors. It was
the same point as yours Diva. I have no problem hearing about what
people bought and from where. It's what we're here for, sharing
knowledge.
Great!!! On these points we agree.. (Although anything we post here is still ultimately at the discretion of the forum administrators -- they are free to disallow ANY postings they deem unwanted on their forums)
However, you made an accusation that I was doing something other than sharing my opinion (i.e the comparison to Zephyr )
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 2:23pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 2:00pm
I hear you about the Zephyr comparison. I guess I wouldn't want anyone comparing me to someone like that either.
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 2:07pm
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I hear you about the Zephyr comparison. I guess I wouldn't want anyone comparing me to someone like that either.
I'm not sure you do.. I didn't like when you made the comparison because there is no real similarity there, and it's NOT the truth..
Edited by Divavocals - April 01 2007 at 7:43pm
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 2:12pm
Whether or not people blatantly advertise is not an issue for me at all. I like a free exchange of ideas, and if this includes self-promotion, all the better! What I don't get is the animosity about and between some of the vendors. It amazes me that a fun hobby like hair extensions can provoke such drama.
I've also noticed a weird suspicion when anyone enthusiastically endorses a product that they MUST somehow be benefiting from it. I sensed it it after my raves of the wonderful hair I recently purchased. Even if I did have some kind of *deal* with the vendor, so what? A good product is a good product and I for one appreciate hearing about others' experience with products and the vendors that sell them.
Here's to the end of my BAD HAIR LIFE!
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 3:31pm
I totally agree with you Kristie M!! I love hearing reccomendations, exchanging info on what works and what doesn't. It helps us all to save money and avoid hair disasters.I have learnt so much from reading these forums, its been a real life saver!!
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Posted: April 01 2007 at 3:35pm
Hey all,
This is such a fine line that we have been trying to balance for all of the 9+ years that HairTalk has been here (yes...our 10 year anniversary is right around the corner).
HB.com has a Marketplace with 10,000+ items. The majority of the items we sell from the MP was hand picked by me originally and I still have final veto power. I try to only sell the best products but also look for good value and what our customers ask for.
I also try to never talk about the MP products here in the forum or to advertise other than the ads at the top. But it is hard because some of the products we sell I use all the time and love, love, love them. Also...sometimes people post direct questions to me about those products.
As a rule I tend to always want to help my friends and family so I will drive them nutty when I find something new that I think they just have to try out. I am that way about everything. Recently I was telling everyone that they had to go to my new dentist here in Dallas (really handsome and doesn't hurt), they they should go to my rolfer (fixed my bad knee) and my Feng Shui teacher (that's a whole other post). They got so tired of me telling they rolled their eyes or told me to shut up. :-)
I wouldn't say that I am advertising for my favorite practioners but in a sense I guess I am. So what does that mean? The flip side of the HairTalk blatant advertising coin is that the purpose of this forum is to help each other and share ideas.
Like I said...it is a careful balance that we try very hard to maintain. We don't always do the best we can but we try.
I error on the side of extreme caution and unfortunately if you give someone an inch they will take a mile. I guess it also goes down to the word blatant. Which is where our biggest problems come in. I think most everyone would agree on what is blatant...and we get so many of those.
Thankfully so many of you help me by letting me know as soon as possible. And you would be amazed at once an advertiser is banned how many times they try to come back to advertise again. Even when we ask them not to.
My favorite case....one Chinese wig guy kept coming back over and over. I emailed him and told him he was welcome to buy ad space for a banner or in our salon diretory but he emailed me back....why should I pay when I can sneak my ads in for free? HA HA.
That says it all.
Edited by Karen Shelton - April 01 2007 at 3:39pm
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