since i refused to log onto BHM and address that thread over there about Where is Sexibeach? i'm doing to address it here.. I don’t like nobody trying to decide about me what they don’t know to be the truth.. b/c my not being at BHM or posting I never went there to make a formal announcement that I was, but I feel now I got to say something. but for anyone to say i dominated that board with my opinion doesn’t have a clear picture of what has happened.. first, for the record i never gave advice that didn't work for others, b/c i purposely didn't give any advice that i didn't think that people could perform based on their own skills.. i took that responsbility serious and didn't want any one to lose money on a unit by messing it up based on something i said..
which unfortunately will begin to happen for people the newbies at BHM now…you don't fully understand the history of what has happened in the past, and I don’t expect anyone too that’s just been lurking over a year ago, so I have to set the record straight.. and honestly sharing beauty secrets has NEVER been anything I’ve done in my entire life b/c I never developed that kind of close relationships with women to do so until I came to BHM.. and yes there have been some that had disagreements with me, but it had nothing to do with hair tips for the most part, and it NEVER DOES, some might have been catty, but everybody has had a disagreement with family b4..
and even tho we had disagreements i have personally reached out to almost all of those women b/c i still respect their right to feel as they did, b/c their real beef was with admin and not me.. but i happen to be a part of admin being a Mod at the time, so i was stuck in the middle.. it wasn't that i was trying to be the dominating opinion, its b/c i was the only ONE left behind that had experience to share.. and i was a mod, let's not forget the latter, b/c that played a significant part in my responsibility.. well the family left, and i was there by myself and i stayed and helped people when nobody else was posting, b/c that's the way i am and out of my obligation as a Mod.. and while everybody is trying to remember the things i said, remember that i've always said if i wasn't a Mod i'd been gone..
well now i'm not a mod, so i didn't leave and/or chose not to post b/c of what someone else said in the past to attack me, b/c i've made amends and repaired most all of the relationships of those that had left from there.. I truly understood their opinion and why they had a beef with admin and didn’t hold it against them..they felt it was their right to make a stand against admin b/c they didn’t like what was happening there at BHM… I honestly understood and respected them for that and I tend to agree with them even more so now, b/c i don't think that admin understood what my contribution was to BHM and didn't appreciate it.. but its admin's board, and he can do what he pleases, and that's his choice to do so..
we did what we did b/c we enjoyed the board and the friends we made, it was a sisterhood, and now i just have no further obligation to help somebody else’s board succeed or prosper, and help make their pockets fat, b/c like its been said i ain't getting paid.. i was there when admin didn't even bother to check for in for MONTHS helping with the other mods to hold down the fort that wasn’t mine, in the mist of all out hell.. at the end of the day I don’t think they really understood what we really meant to each other or the board nor appreciated it..and i'm really drained from the whole situation, and caring about something that didn't even belong to me, so why give a flying flip about what happens to someone elses board?? when they didn't give a flying flip about me?
i gave information freely not b/c of admin or russ, cuz i was doing it b4 he came around, and i didn't even know who the heck he was, but b/c of the members.. and if anybody didn’t want it they didn’t have to take it.. i do however feel sorry for the newer members, b/c I actually care about the members and the newbies.. but like someone said there will always be another person wanting to know what a lf is.. so i guess some can be happy that i'm gone, so they can give their opinion all day long or not hopefully someone will be there to take it.. but I must say I’m truly owerwhelmed by those that have expressed true sincere love me for me, and respect for me, the friendships I’ve made... and that is and will always be truly appreciated from the bottom of my heart…so don’t form opinions about what or why somebody does something unless you ask them for yourself.. and I’m still a member there regardless just don't know when or if i'll ever post there again…but i don't feel an obligation to be there unless i choose too..
AMEN! YOU ARE LOVED!!!!
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You know I love you too! I tell everybody you're my lf icon. I'm happy to be here and really pleased to see several others that I value here also. I may never meet you, but you all are my girls.
Sorry for the problems over there on BHM. I was known as Karaky over there. I appreciated every bit of information you gave being a newbie to flw. I did notice a definite difference with you gone. I search until I found out where you had gone. It's good to be here among knowledgible people and people of integrity and knowledge.
Thanks agains Sexi for all you tips and help.
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Thank all of you 'vets' for the info that ypu give freely, I would be totally lost without this board and the timely answers to my questions. Again, thank you.
And I must say Breh I also Thank you. I Pm's you as well and you have alway been helpful and Thanks for that care package. Yes I will admit I was very afraid to post in the beginning. But you can kinda tell the good ones from the messy ones. Much Love to all my LF Family new and old.
Sexi I know I've told you before, how I much I appreciate you.
I would PM you with the smallest or the most simplest question. And she would answer me every time and not make me feel small. I'll say this I noticed a lot of crazy comments and I thought to myself. Stay out of that.
But one can only take so much and Sexi you took way to much.
You know the tongue is a deadly weapon.
But in this case fingers are.
To be honest you did not have to address BHM.
Youwere not being paid you were being helpful to those new and old to the LF world.
It's peaceful here and Like it. It's like we're starting over.
Couldn't have been said been said better. Just peaceful here and all about good hair and good people. I like it better that way.
I often wonder do people really think about what they type before they actually do it or do they just think they can hide behind an online facade????
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And I must say Breh I also Thank you. I Pm's you as well and you have alway been helpful and Thanks for that care package. Yes I will admit I was very afraid to post in the beginning. But you can kinda tell the good ones from the messy ones. Much Love to all my LF Family new and old.
There were so many nice people at the other board and really none of them are there anymore. Like a lot of posters, I was really nervous about posting at first and received some snotty responses. Like try searching...the search feature never worked! Anyway, I started to pm Sexi from time to time, Bless, and Breh (ok...maybe I pmed Breh a LOT....sorry Diva). Ebonyyasmine helped and so did ashleysmom. I owe all of these Divas a great deal.
Sexi, I did notice people attacking you and I never understood why. They would put an opinion out there and get mad if you replied. I figured it must have been an old beef or something. Then I found out that you DIDN"T GET PAID!!!! I couldn't believe it. How could they not pay you to moderate. I thought for sure that the only reason you dealt with the abuse was for the paycheck?!?!?!
Breh sent me an invite to another board and then I found this one. I stopped going to that board over the so called "upgrade". They can have it. At least here, we can talk and ask questions without being attacked.
I say we guard this place like a military base.
No problem girl, you were blowing my PMs up for a moment, but it is cool. I really enjoy talking with you and everyone else. I felt special when people would PM me. So you can PM me anytime as well as anyone else.
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Sexi I know I've told you before, how I much I appreciate you.
I would PM you with the smallest or the most simplest question. And you would answer me every time and not make me feel small. I'll say this I noticed a lot of crazy comments and I thought to myself. Stay out of that.
But one can only take so much and Sexi you took way to much.
You know the tongue is a deadly weapon.
But in this case fingers are.
To be honest you did not have to address BHM.
Youwere not being paid you were being helpful to those new and old to the LF world.
It's peaceful here and Like it. It's like we're starting over.
There were so many nice people at the other board and really none of them are there anymore. Like a lot of posters, I was really nervous about posting at first and received some snotty responses. Like try searching...the search feature never worked! Anyway, I started to pm Sexi from time to time, Bless, and Breh (ok...maybe I pmed Breh a LOT....sorry Diva). Ebonyyasmine helped and so did ashleysmom. I owe all of these Divas a great deal.
Sexi, I did notice people attacking you and I never understood why. They would put an opinion out there and get mad if you replied. I figured it must have been an old beef or something. Then I found out that you DIDN"T GET PAID!!!! I couldn't believe it. How could they not pay you to moderate. I thought for sure that the only reason you dealt with the abuse was for the paycheck?!?!?!
Breh sent me an invite to another board and then I found this one. I stopped going to that board over the so called "upgrade". They can have it. At least here, we can talk and ask questions without being attacked.
I say we guard this place like a military base.
you so sweet i love you sweetie, you pm'd me every saturday morning b/c my puppy got me up to take him out i love you honey...
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sexibeach wrote:
Well that explains EVERYTHING!!!!
Well.....Thank you so much for explaining the situation. I was ALL Confused, since I'm always 'johnny come lately' about important news.
