My man and my Hair

I used to be like that. I was scared about living with my boyfriend too, b/c hes white and i figured he would be judgmental of how i take care of my hair. you know like eww you put oil in your hair, stuff like that. Once I asked him to help me hold up a pice of hair while doing a perm, and he ended up helping me with my whole head. Don't be afraid of what he will think. Chances are he won't care. He might already know, and is just not saying anything. He might even end up favoring your real hair to the weave.

Kally,

I think at some point we've all been in that situation at some point. My boyfriend now, we've been together for just about 4 years now and when we met, I had hair past my shoulders. Then, I went through a really tough hair spell and had to cut it off to a short bob. I really thought he would leave at that point but you know, I told him what I thought and he said, "Hon, it's your hair. You can do what you wish with it. It won't change us in anyway." Most guys, at least that I've encountered, don't see us the way we see ourselves when we are really self conscious. He may already know and not care. He may be curious to see your real hair. You should talk to him about your concerns. Let him know how you're feeling about it. He may be just as understanding. It will be OK!!