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LOL, Phoenix, 75.00 is what EVERYBODY here charges!

Well, some of the really expensive shops in Buckhead have the nerve to charge 90.00.

I wish I could do it....but I only have it done twice a year and it's the only time I go, so it's not so bad.

It's a good thing you know how to do it, because if you relax your hair straight, you may have to be in there every 2 months!

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i believe it might has something to do with ignorance or lack of education in professionalism...period..

i have noticed that people that live in poverty stricken areas cateror don't cater to poverty stricken clients.if you screw over someone who has no money - then so what?  but if you screw over someone who has connnections, money, lawyers and authority, your business could be brought down in no time...those that live in more affluent societies know that if a rich person comes into their salon and pays good money for their services there is definitely a code of conduct to be followed or you are "outa there"...

i've noticed that in more affluent areas, when a beautician starts causing problems or has personal problems they are '86'd quickly..in more poverty stricken areas...if they see there are problems, they are far more lax with their beauticians, and let them get away with far more than an affluent person would tolerate...mainly because they don't seem to think most dysfunction is a problem...until several clients start going to the competition down the street..This too, is ignorance..

The beautician in Elk Grove had just gotten rid of one of her subordinate who was an african amercian beautician who was professional at first..then began booking clients in the wrong slots..plus coming in with her hair in rollers, wearing sweats and house slippers...this dysfunctional behavior, and lack of professionalism was apparently acceptable at her last salon, in a far less affluent neighborhood.

the subordinate was very professional at first, but she soon became too comfortable...her defense was, "well the last salon didn't seem to mind me comin' in like this"...she was 86'd that day..

The place where i frequent is very upscale, and This woman is the only African American beautician there...she, too, finds it hard to keep professional african american sans "attitude"...

We can try to overlook this...but i, too have complained to others wondering the problem is with rudeness especially from this culture, and the explanation was the just the same.."you should know how negroes are"...i was told this in several african american salons..

Some of them say it behind closed doors, when they are quite comfortable and say "you know how we are"....

might as well put it out there....Yes, ignorance is prevalent in all cultures, but when it pointed out through someone's experience, you might as well say, "okay, we have some bad eggs just like everyone else..."

When you evade the situation...it makes it even more obvious..just put it out there..

 

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Originally posted by Renata22 Renata22 wrote:

LOL, Phoenix, 75.00 is what EVERYBODY here charges!

Well, some of the really expensive shops in Buckhead have the nerve to charge 90.00.

I wish I could do it....but I only have it done twice a year and it's the only time I go, so it's not so bad.

It's a good thing you know how to do it, because if you relax your hair straight, you may have to be in there every 2 months!

 

It's not what they usually charge here.

I wouldn't have been outraged if it was the norm. I'm not in Atlanta like you. I've never been to Georgia. I won't be getting my hair done there if I ever visit either. Not with those prices. That's too much. You need to come to Texas to get your hair done.  I used to get mine done here, in Texas, Houston and in the Woodlands, TX. It's much cheaper here, for some.

They have on their signs everywhere I go: $35.00 (sometimes 45.00, but mostly I see $35.00) for a relaxer, wash, and cut. And that is what they charge the others. I watch. The prices are just not for me in any of those places when it is my turn to get my hair done.

 



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I would love those prices....but I'm so addicted to my stylist that I don't think I would go to anyone else even if they were cheaper. She's THAT good! She does to my hair EXACTLY what I ask her to do....love her.
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Goal: Waist Length, which is only 30 inches so
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It's nice to have a stylist that listens to you, and cares about your hair.
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Originally posted by Renata22 Renata22 wrote:

Twinkle Toes, as soon as she said that, you should have said, "never mind", and walked out.


I'm happy to say that I've always had very nice stylists! If anyone here is in Atlanta and needs a stylist, pm me and I'll give you her contact information.


I used to see her on Cascade Road....and when she moved to SANDY SPRINGS (Roswell Road), I followed her there.


Anyone living here knows that's a loooooooong drive on 285....and Roswell Road is ALWAYS crowded, too!


I don't follow just any stylist.



i live in sandy springs. where is the lady's shop?does she do natural hair? please send me a PM with her info. thanks
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Renata22, I live in Marietta, GA. Yeah, does she do naturals? Please PM me with your stylist information.  I'd like to go to a good stylist. Thanks. 
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I don't know if she does natural hair, but I've pm'ed you both with her information so you can call her. When I first went to her, she blow dried and trimmed my natural hair, but I don't know if she does anything else.

She's not located far from 285, exit 25.

Hair type: who knows?
Length: 23 inches as of 3/10/06
MY HAIR IS OFFICIALLY BRA STRAP LENGTH!!
Goal: Waist Length, which is only 30 inches so
ADVISE ME ON HOW TO GET JUST 7 MORE INCHES OF GROWTH!
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I  had  a  stylist  from  NY    call  me  a  lil'  hick  girl.  She  was 

Hispanic.  Rude.  Crazy.  Ignorant.  This  fool  asked  me  if  I  was  on  crack  b/c  i  was  willing  to  take  3 1/2  days  for  microillusions(I am  still  trying  to  learn  the  technique  myself). 

I  am  a  mature  African  American  Woman  with  a  kinky  head  of  hair

(I  AM  GIFTED  BLACK  AND  NAPPY  AND  I  AM  HAPPY  TO  BE  NAPPY)

SHE  SAW  THAT  I LIVED  IN  EDWARDSVILLE  IL  A  SMALL  COLLEGE  TOWN.  BUT  I  AM  FROM  CHI-TOWN  THE  LOW  END .......FEEL  ME?

Listen  I  emailed  her  asking some  of  the  questions  we  ask  and  answer  for  eachother  in  here.  She  got  all  huffy.  She  was  advertising  her  extension  line,  and  BLASTING  on  the  other  methods  and  stylists  ,so  I  figured  I'd  ask  her  about  Invisible  Strands  using  the  dental  floss, right,  she  str8  got  an  attitude  I  told  her  I  was  reporting  her  to  the  BBB.

She  had  not  ever  heard  of  the  technique,,,but  she  could  have  just  said  that.  She  was  offended  that  I asked  her  about  someone  elses  technique.

I  told  her  oFf  ,,,of  course  and  proceeded  to  diagnose  her,  as  needing a  loading  dose  of thorazine ...funky   Cow! 

Africans  have  a  tendancy  in  Chicago to  act  crazy.

One  time  ol'  girl  was  scared  for  me  to  go  to  the  friggin  ATM  with  her  husband.  He  literally  had  to  push  her  away  from  the  car.  I  thought  they  could  take  my  credit/debit  card  but  they  had  a  limit  to  the  dollar  amount  they  could  take  at  one  time.

I  looked  like  a  friggin  fool...eyes  slanetd...those  braids  darn  near  killed  my  hair  line.

I  must  have  been  crazy  back  then  all  that  money  to  have  to  take  5  tylenol  for  the  head  ache  those  braids  gave  me..............its  been  going  on  7  years  sinse  I  had  braids.

never  again...........



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