What color Highlights?

The style doesn't really effect what color highlights you'd want, it has more to do with your skin tone and what shades go well with you.  If you didn't like yellow or orange, I'm betting you are a winter or a summer (which is a girly way of saying you probably have blue or pink undertones in your skin instead of golden colors, and you look better with ash colors on your hair than golden colors.  You will know this for sure if wearing yellow makes your skin look either too red or washed out and you look better in other colors). 

What this means is this:  If you go for blonde, ask for ash blonde.  This can be any lightness level you want from dark blonde to white.  If you go for light brown, ask for light ash brown to keep them from giving you a warm shade. 

Pictures are always helpful!  Words can mean different things to different people.  A stylist would know what you mean if you say "ash, not yellow or orange", but pictures are easier to convey.