I feel so rude...  
       
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      Topic: I feel so rude...
       
      Posted By: caramel
       Subject: I feel so rude...
       Date Posted: March 23 2006 at 4:27pm
       
      
        
          
	
hi!
  i'm sorry i just came in started posting without introducing myself.. i haven't used many forums before, and most of them don't care whether u introduce urself or not.. so here goes! 
  i'm a sophomore engineering student. i'm interested in just about everything, but makeup and hair are obsessions of mine... not much more to say about moi, i don't do anything special; i spend most of my time either with my boyfriend, or studying, or with family/friends, and let me tell ya that if u study engineering u don't have much time for anything else really... it's a stressful life most of the time for me, but i still care for my looks  
  attached are pictures of my hair.. it's wavy these days, but i used to straighten it.. if i find a pic of that i'll post it as well
 
  
   my hair doesn't look all that great in either pic (although in real life it looks similar to the 1st pic), but i just wanted to give u an idea of what i'm referring to :)
 
  cheers! 
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 23 2006 at 4:29pm
       
      
        
          
	
oh forgot to mention.. for those of u who like horses (as i read in Vlad's thread), a lot of horseriders tell me my hair resembles horsehair (in texture, thickness)... i think that should help in giving u a feel of what my hair is like  
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      Posted By: Karen26
       
      Date Posted: March 23 2006 at 4:32pm
       
      
        
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 Wow!! You have beautiful hair!!  
I'm new on here too.     But I'll say "welcome" anyways!   
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 23 2006 at 4:37pm
       
      
        
          
	
hello! just read ur post   .. and thanks for the compliment! it's a pain to care for it though, but i still like it long
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      Posted By: Karen26
       
      Date Posted: March 23 2006 at 5:39pm
       
      
        
          
	
I thought mine was a pain too, until it was gone.....now I appreciate it so much more than before.   And actually, I'm finding it's more of a pain short.     Can't win for losing (literally! LOL)
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 23 2006 at 6:00pm
       
      
        
          
	
aww, i know how u feel, i've done the same before.. but it'll grow back, don't worry  
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      Posted By: Impaler Vlad
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 6:45am
       
      
        
          
	
Great hair, little lady! Your BF is a lucky man indeed... And last but not least, welcome on this board!
  ------------- Mark Edward Arthur Mac Arran Blackrose
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 8:44am
       
      
        
          
	
aww thank u, that's very sweet, and i guess i'll welcome u to the board as well!   lol since we're both new
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      Posted By: enfys
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 9:06am
       
      
        
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 Well, I'm not new. Ooh, minority.  Cool. 
Hello new people   
caramel, lovely hair and lovely waves   
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 Ah-ha, a place I can soon add hair pics...once I do some
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      Posted By: LadyFrog
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 10:58am
       
      
        
          
	
I'm not new either. Can I join you in the minority camp enfys  Lovely hair caramel and welcome to the boards (ps. not everyone introduces themselves so you're not being rude!)
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  http://forums.longhaircommunity.com/showthread.php?t=43733 - Photos 
 Lifes a grave. Dig it. 
 -Wednesday 13
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 1:21pm
       
      
        
          
	
hello enfys and LadyFrog!  ur kind welcomes and sweet compliments are much appreciated   
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      Posted By: enfys
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 1:59pm
       
      
        
          
	
LadyFrog, you can join me in the minority camp, but I'm still older than you in it lol. You're nearly 1 year old though! 
  -------------  http://www.myspace.com/waltzin_with_the_open_sea - http://www.myspace.com/waltzin_with_the_open_sea 
 Ah-ha, a place I can soon add hair pics...once I do some
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      Posted By: AnaisSatin
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 5:40pm
       
      
        
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 Welcome to the board, Caramel. Your hair is beautiful! I love how the first photo shows the shine.  
Anais 
  -------------  http://anaissatin.livejournal.com">  my LJ , 40 inches long
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      Posted By: missrini
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 8:03pm
       
      
        
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 Welcome Caramel (mmm......caramellll....)    You have beautiful, shiny, thick hair which looks just stunning on you. Love the hemline too! 
Don't worry about not introducing yourself.....entirely up to you, but I'm glad to know a little about you anyway   
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      Posted By: horselover_1625
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 8:43pm
       
      
        
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   caramel wrote:
  oh forgot to mention.. for those of u who like horses (as i read in Vlad's thread), a lot of horseriders tell me my hair resembles horsehair (in texture, thickness)... i think that should help in giving u a feel of what my hair is like   |    
Welcome, Caramel! People have told me the same thing about my hair...not the texture, but the thickness...my brother teases me sometimes (in fun!) and says something about my horse tail and whatnot. I guess because it is so thick and long! 
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      Posted By: horselover_1625
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 8:45pm
       
      
        
          
	
  AnaisSatin wrote:
  
Welcome to the board, Caramel. Your hair is beautiful! I love how the first photo shows the shine.  
Anais 
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Love your new sig picture, Anais! Very pretty! (Sorry for going off topic!) 
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 What good is life without a horse??!!!
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 10:36pm
       
      
        
          
	
Anais-- thanks so much! i absolutely love ur hair... btw, pretty name, does it mean anything? it reminds me of that perfume anais anais
  missrini-- thanks for the compliments  .. i really like the color and texture of ur hair as well.. i thought it was really *unique* in how it's so naturally defined
  horselover-- thanks for the sweet welcome  ... yeah it's probably b/c of its thickness and length.. having horse hair texture isn't so great b/c the "hair" itself is thick, and the "hairs" all together are also thick, so it's quite a hassle to take care of.. but i like it   
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      Posted By: SpecialKitty
       
      Date Posted: March 24 2006 at 11:19pm
       
      
        
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   caramel wrote:
  my hair doesn't look all that great in either pic |    
Your hair looks amazingly thick, healthy and shiny!! Welcome to the board! 
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 25 2006 at 12:59am
       
      
        
          
	
SpecialKitty-- that's extremely sweet of u   thank u
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      Posted By: AnaisSatin
       
      Date Posted: March 26 2006 at 12:23pm
       
      
        
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 Anais (or more accurately Anaïs), is Provençal or Catalan for "Anna". Sorry if the special characters don't show up on your screen... There are two dots over the i. It's Anais after Anais Nin. Thanks Caramel   
Anais  
  -------------  http://anaissatin.livejournal.com">  my LJ , 40 inches long
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: March 26 2006 at 9:52pm
       
      
        
          
	
i did some research on Anais Nin b/c i had no clue who she was.. thanks for the info.. and ur most welcome  
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      Posted By: DaveDecker
       
      Date Posted: April 03 2006 at 6:57pm
       
      
        
          
	
Belated welcoming greetings, caramel!  Great hair you've got... 
 
I used to be an engineering student so I know what you mean about the time limitations.    
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: April 03 2006 at 10:47pm
       
      
        
          
	
hello, Dave  
  it's very sweet of u to welcome me, even if it's late, i appreciate it.
  and yes, engineering is crazy! we had one prof state on the syllabus "Note: If you work full-time try to lower it down to part-time only because the amount of work I will assign in this course will be equivalent to a part-time job."  i was like wow, what a warm and fuzzy feeling   
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      Posted By: DaveDecker
       
      Date Posted: April 04 2006 at 7:56pm
       
      
        
          
	
Don't you just love professors
like that?  My experiences with them:  you work very hard,
you learn a lot, and then you get a poor (but passing) grade.  
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      Posted By: missrini
       
      Date Posted: April 04 2006 at 8:21pm
       
      
        
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 Man...that sounds so much like Science! I had the most contact hours out of any of my friends (in other degrees) and used to have pracs that would go for 6 hours!! 
I know this is way off topic (sorry Dave!)....but there used to be a certain perception of "enjees" (engineering students) about how they could always be found in the Uni Bar on any given day.  Maybe it's just an Aussie thing?   
Good luck with your studies! 
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: April 04 2006 at 9:43pm
       
      
        
          
	
Dave: exactly! and whenever we complain about that, they calmly state "well u'll be graduating and starting a job for $60K, while other majors' starting salaries are well below that" and we're just like uhha of course lol
  missrini: i'm not really sure what the "uni bar" is  , but if i got it right, it's true.. we're constantly studying.  i attend a more "liberal" university, but engineering students are not graduates of this "liberal" university only, we get a dual degree from this one and another (really really really) tough one.. so while other students are out on the quad sun-bathing, playing frisbee, running around with their dogs; we're stuck in our engineering computer labs on the third floor (where two of them don't even have windows) doing homework hour after hour after hour after hour.. u get the idea   ... sorry for the long reply, but i had to vent some   lol (i feel sorry for my bf having to listen to this regularly)
 
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      Posted By: missrini
       
      Date Posted: April 04 2006 at 11:41pm
       
      
        
          
	
LOL Caramel....the Uni (University) Bar is..um...a pub  . It's where ppl go to drink alcohol and listen to bands.  The "enjees" used to have a reputation for drinking LOTS and partying hard.  I guess it really IS an Aussie thing  
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: April 05 2006 at 9:01am
       
      
        
          
	
lol oops   i thought u were referring to the universiity lounge area or something.. a lot of us do party pretty hard, but when we actually have the time for it :D ... as for me, it's just studying, bf, friends, and family.. and me of course   .. don't even have time for my car anymore  
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      Posted By: katay
       
      Date Posted: April 05 2006 at 9:27am
       
      
        
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   Hi Caramel, 
 Very nice hair! 
 Hmmm, I remember having thicker longer hair when I was younger(like you). But since I'm 35yrs(and Proud of it!) my hair is thinner, and it looks better shorter, medium short. Congrats on being smart too! I wish I had the dedication to be a college student. 
 Those days are over(maybe for me). 
 I'm semi retired, but I keep busy. 
  
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 Katie
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: April 05 2006 at 6:08pm
       
      
        
          
	
hi Katie  
  first of all, thank you!  
  and second, i don't necessarily consider myself (or any college student) smart just b/c i attend college.. it's just that i have the energy/drive to learn/study more... it's a personality thing i guess, u probably wouldn't have been happy living life my way, or u would have chosen it already  ... congrats to u on the accomplishment of being satisfied with ur current status, i think stability is a huge accomplishment 
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      Posted By: LadyFrog
       
      Date Posted: April 07 2006 at 6:35am
       
      
        
          
	
It´s not just a aussie thing missrini, the students in the UK definitely have a reputation for speniding the majority of their time in pubs and bars!
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 28.02.06 34 inches
  http://forums.longhaircommunity.com/showthread.php?t=43733 - Photos 
 Lifes a grave. Dig it. 
 -Wednesday 13
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      Posted By: philosophy girl
       
      Date Posted: April 07 2006 at 9:10am
       
      
        
          
	
  So true.  I love the looks of utter shock and horror I get when people find out I don't drink.  At all.  Ever.
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: April 07 2006 at 2:34pm
       
      
        
          
	
i never drink either.
  i think engineering students probably drink so much so they can temporarily forget the horrors of our studies.. it's impossible to finish my concentration in 4 years.. we've only had one girl do it, and she ended up in some mental institute, literally.. she was stressing out too much and i think she developed some kind of mild paranoia.. true story!   
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      Posted By: hairmetal
       
      Date Posted: April 07 2006 at 5:42pm
       
      
        
          
	
Holy moly, I'm a sophomore engineering stutent too!  And caramel, your hair kicks ass, be more proud of it! Oh, and sorry for not introducing myself either, I'm John.  
 
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      Posted By: horselover_1625
       
      Date Posted: April 07 2006 at 5:44pm
       
      
        
          
	
Hello, and welcome, John and I agree with him on your hair, Caramel!
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      Posted By: caramel
       
      Date Posted: April 07 2006 at 8:23pm
       
      
        
          
	
thank u, john and rani, for the sweet compliment  
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      Posted By: DaveDecker
       
      Date Posted: April 09 2006 at 1:07pm
       
      
        
          
	
  philosophy girl wrote:
 
   So
true.  I love the looks of utter shock and horror I get when
people find out I don't drink.  At all.  Ever. |  
  
 
You don't drink?  At all??  Ever???           
 
 
 
(   just kidding) 
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      Posted By: philosophy girl
       
      Date Posted: April 09 2006 at 1:40pm
       
      
        
          
	
Yep, that's pretty much the standard reaction!  
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